Choyamba, yesani kuthetsa. Izi ndizovuta kwambiri. Koma ndikofunikira, kuti tikhale ndi moyo osasungunuka pa nthawi yaitali. Pali njira zambiri zomwe mungadzikonzere nokha. Pitani ulendo osati kwa nthawi yayitali, koma lolani kukhala malo kutali ndi kukumbukira kwanu. Pezani anthu atsopano. Kudya zomwe mwalonjeza kwa nthawi yaitali, koma mukudandaula za mwamuna wake nthawi zonse. Khalani olimba, yoga. Phunzirani luso la originami, koma ndizing'ono bwanji ngati mukusangalatsidwa ndi ntchitoyi.
Sizothandiza pa nthawiyi kukonzekera zowonjezera zokambirana ndi anzako, pomwe nkhaniyo idzakhala funso la momwe adawopsyezera wolowerera, ndi zomwe mkazi wina wa njoka. Mwina mwambo wa nthawi imodzi wa misonkhanoyi ndipo ukhoza kupindula, koma kukhala mwambo wamtundu wotere nthawi yotere ingathe kuvulaza zonsezi ndi inu nokha. Pali mwayi wokhala wotanganidwa ndi vuto lanu komanso zomwe mumakumana nazo. Ndipo pokhapokha mkwiyo ukakhala mkati mwa munthu akhoza kuganizira nkhaniyi yonse.
Khalani okonzeka kudziyang'ana nokha, moyo wanu, mwamuna wanu ndi mkazi wake watsopano kuchokera panja. Kuti muwone mafunso ambiri ndi nokha mofanana. Dziyeseni nokha moona mtima kuwayankha, musawope wina yemwe adzakutsutsani. Mutha kudzizindikira nokha, koma zimakhala zovuta kudziweruza nokha kotero kuti psyche yazimayi imakonzedwa. Malingana ndi mayankho mungathe kuganiza.
Nchiyani chimakupangitsani inu kupsinjika kwambiri? Kuti mwamunayo wapita, kapena kuti mwamuna ali ndi mkazi wina. Kapena ndizofunika kwambiri kwa mkazi amene mwamuna wake anasiya. Kotero kodi mukufunikira kubwerera kumoyo wanu yemwe anakusankhani kwa wina? Kotero ngati inu munali omasuka mu moyo wanu. Kodi mukukumbukira ngati munalota kusintha zinthu zonse ndikuyambiranso? Ngati malingaliro amenewa anachezeredwa ... Ndibwino kuti ukhale mwambo wokondwerera. Ngati sichoncho, ndiye kuti chochitika chilichonse chiyenera kuchitidwa ngati chifukwa chodzipangira nokha, kuganiza ndi kukonza zolakwa. Chidziwitso chilichonse chimakhala phindu. Kaya zimatipangitsa kukhala olimba, okoma mtima, ololera kapena okhwima, komanso osowa mtima ngati mukufuna.
Pali ngozi yowonongeka kuti ikhale yolungama. Musati mutenge udindo pa zosankha za mwamuna wake. Izi pamapeto simunasankhe kuchoka. Ili ndilo lingaliro lake, ndipo inde, ngati mukufuna ufulu wake. Sikofunikira kupeza ubale ndi mdani wanu, izi sizothandiza. Palibe chimene inu simungapereke nkhani yotereyi. Mkazi wina sangakumvetseni, ndi wosiyana, ndipo munthuyo ali yekha. Ogonjetsa amatsutsana kwambiri. Ichi ndi chikhalidwe chofanana ndi chachikazi.
Musapatse wokondweretsa wokondweretsa, sungani chipambano chawo. Kwa amuna, kukambirana kotere kumapangitsa kukwiya kwakukulu chifukwa sawona tanthauzo lililonse pa zomwe zikuchitika. Ndipo chilungamo chidzakhalabe woyambitsa. ngati banja lanu ndi mwamuna wanu asanakhalepo ndi mkazi wina, malingaliro anu anali otetezeka, chabwino, zinachitika kuti mtima wofooka wamtima sungathe kuwonongeka kwa anthu osamvera a razluchnitsy. Muyenera kudziwa zambiri kuposa mwamuna wanu. Za zizolowezi zake, zokonda zake. Ndipo ngati munthu akukayikira pang'ono zosankha zake, zikutanthauza kuti ndi mofulumira kwambiri kuti aponyetse sitima ndi kutaya mbendera yoyera.
Osayendetsa galimoto ndipo motero mumuthandize kusankha mwanzeru kale. Mwamuna amakhala komwe amamukonda kwambiri ndi kuyamikiridwa. Sizovuta kumuuza kuti nthawi zonse nyumba yanu imatseguka ndipo mtima ndi chimodzimodzi. Zimakhala zosavuta kubwerera kumene mukuyembekezeredwa, kumene mwakhululukidwa kale pazinthu zonse. Pakuti kunyada kwa amuna sikulola munthu kubwereranso ndi mulandu. Okhululukidwa da.Proshchayte okondedwa awo ndi chikondi.