Chiwerengero chokwanira cha amuna amayamba kuyamikira chikondi cha kumbuyo komwe ndi kunyumba kumatonthoza kuposa chilakolako choyaka koma chachabe. Ntchito yanu sikutembenuzira izi kumbuyo kukhala mabwinja. Kokha kuchokera apo, komwe dziko lapansi liwotchedwa, ine ndikufuna kuthamanga popanda kuyang'ana mmbuyo.
Akatswiri a zamaganizo amati: mwamuna akuyang'ana mbuye wake yemwe adakwatirana naye nthawi imodzi. Sizomwe zili mu "mtundu" wakunja monga momwe zilili mkati, zida za khalidwe lomwe mwakhala mukusintha kwa zaka, ndipo amawawona kuti ndi abwino.
ZIMENE MUNGACHITE
Zindikirani zomwe simungagwirizane nazo pogonana, ndipo mwakonzeka kuzipereka chifukwa cha mtendere. Ngati simukuganiza kuti mutha kusokoneza chibwenzicho, simukuganiza kuti n'zotheka - chifukwa izi zilibe mphamvu, mumaganizo (mumakondabe) kapena mumadzidalira (kuti mumapeze mwamuna wina), ngati anawo ndi abwenzi awo ndikumkonda, muyenera kumenyana ndi banja lanu. Koposa zonse, lekani kukambirana za kugulitsidwa kwake ndikuchita ndondomeko yovomerezeka.
NTHAWI YOTHANDIZA
Mabuku amtunduwu amatha kwa amuna ambiri kuchokera pa miyezi 8 (makamaka, osati ndi mkazi mmodzi). Kodi mukufuna kupambana nkhondo yosavomerezeka? Muyenera kugwira chaka chimodzi ndi theka kapena awiri. Chinthu chachikulu sikuti mulole malo anu oyenera atenge wina. Pakapita nthawi, zonse zimakhala bwino. Mfundo zazikuluzikulu za nthawi ino, zomwe muyenera kudzidzimangira nokha: ndinu mkazi wokongola ndipo mungathe kumangokhalira kutero, simuli ndi mlandu wopandukira mwamuna wanu, ndinu woyenera chikondi ndi ubale weniweni. Koma musayambe kusintha - ichi ndi chifukwa choti mupite!
KUKHALA KUKHALA
Zindikirani choonadi chophweka: maonekedwe a mkazi wina ali ndi inu sagwirizana. Sizinachokere poti ndinu "owopsa", "osakonzekeretsedwa" kapena "opusa". Otsutsa amaoneka mwa akazi okongola komanso okoma mtima.
Bwanji ngati mwamuna wanga atakhala ndi ambuye anzake? Zimachitika pamene mabwenzi mosadziwa (makamaka makamaka) amachepetsa amuna awo "kumanzere." Ngati pali kuthekera kuti muwachotse iwo pa bwalo lolankhulana - chitani. Ngati ayi - yang'anani zochita zawo zina.
Sobry "kumbali" - mungathe kupita kochepa kwa mnzanu, koma popanda zinthu - ndi kuyamba kuchita. Osamuika kunja kwa chitseko ndi amatsenga! Izi ndizopusa ndipo sizitsogolera pa zabwino.
KUZITHANDIZA
Amuna samakonda kusintha kugonana pofuna chitonthozo, ndipo izi ziyenera kugwiritsidwa ntchito. Ndikofunika kulimbitsa nyumba: kuphika zokoma, kubweretsa kukongola ndi dongosolo, kudzisamalira nokha, kuyamba kuyamba ndi anzanu. Musapite kukayang'anira mwamuna ndi foni ndikuyang'ana makalata ake. Yesetsani kudziletsa nokha kukhumudwa. Ngati chiyanjano ndi mbuye wa mwamuna wake chinali chomangirira posachedwa, kunyumba iye, mwinamwake, zidzakhala zovuta. Adzatsutsa zonse: mawonekedwe anu, umunthu, ntchito. Sungani chifuniro chanu kuti mukhale nkhanza ndipo musanyozedwe, koma mvetserani momwe mungathere. Ndipo gwiritsani mutu wanu. Zonse "zatsopano" zanu zimatanthawuza zabwino zomwe mdani wanu ali nazo. Chokumana nacho ichi si tchimo ndi kulandira. Iye sadzakutaya iwe, koma mwamuna wake adzadabwa kupeza mbali zatsopano, zosangalatsa kwa iwe.
Lankhulani, Lankhulani
Iye akhoza kukuuzani inu za wotsutsa. Awuza - timamvetsera pa udindo wa "mayi wothandizira - ndikukumbukira bwino. Chinthu chachikulu sichiyenera kutuluka. Ndikofunika kumvetsetsa: ndi chiyani chomwe ndilibe? Mwinamwake, zimatuluka: sitili ndi "mtsikana" komanso "mbuye". "Msungwana" amatenga mwamuna momwe iye aliri - nthawi zonse amakondwera ndipo samatsutsa. "Mkazi" - wokonda komanso wosadziwika. Iye samakhala ndi mutu uliwonse! Chofunika kwambiri - nthawi zonsezi sichikana mwamuna wake pogonana. Kugonana kuyenera kukhala nthawi zonse.
KUCHITA KWAMBIRI
Mwamuna yemwe mumamugawana nawo zinthu zofanana, nthawi zambiri amachoka kwamuyaya. Yambani kumuphatikizira iye mu chingwe cha nkhani za banja. Abale okhudzidwa ndi anthu osangalatsa komanso ofunikira pazomwe mukulankhulana. Ikani mwamuna wanu pachidziwitso cha njira zonse, mum'dziwitse kuti ndi wofunika komanso wokondedwa. "Mbali yolakwika", pozindikira chinachake cholakwika, pang'onopang'ono ayamba kupukuta scandals ndi kuopa. Ntchito yanu ndiyotenga. Muyenera kukhululukira cholakwa cha mwamuna wanu, ngati sichingagwire ntchito! Kusinkhasinkha ndi kukhala ndi kukhutira kudzakuthandizani. Yesani!
BUSINESS NDI BAD NGATI ...
1. Mkazi ndi wokhalitsa komanso wokhalitsa.
2. Simungathe kukhala ndi ana, ndipo mpikisano amatha kubereka.
H. Simunakhale mabwenzi enieni - okonda chabe, omwe mitima yawo yatha.
4. Inu muli pamwamba pake ndi udindo, chitetezo chakuthupi, wamkulu, wamphamvu, wolimba.
5. Ali ndi udindo wotere kuti ali ndi "mbuye" kukhala ndi ambuye, ndipo mwamuna ali ndi mbuye pa mfundo "yofunikira".