Cholakwika chinachitika.
Mwamuna aliyense amene amatsutsidwa kuti apandukire, mpaka kumapeto, akunena kuti chigwirizano chake ndi kulakwa kwakukulu, ngakhalenso mbuyeyo alipo moyo wake kwa nthawi yoposa chaka. Inu mukuganiza, ine ndinalakwitsa ndi winawake yemwe kulibe!
Koma nthawi zina, munthu amachitapo kanthu, zomwe amadandaula ndi mtima wonse. Kawirikawiri izi ndi mgwirizano wa nthawi yodzidzidzimutsa, kusakhulupirika mwadzidzidzi, komwe sanakonze ndipo sakufuna. Chowonadi cha kusakhulupilira koteroko kumapangitsa munthu kuvutika ndi chikumbumtima. Kugonana ndi mlendo pa ulendo wa bizinesi, panthawi ya phwando lachigwirizano, kusadziwika bwino - ziribe kanthu kuti ndikuti ndikuti ndikuti ndiji.
Ngati chiyanjano chimatha, asanayambe, mwamunayo amamva kuti ndi wolakwa, ndi kulakwitsa chabe.
Kubwezera.
Musanayambe kumunyoza munthu kuti achite chiwembu, muyenera kudziyang'anitsitsa nokha. Ndipo kodi sindinakhale chifukwa chake wokondedwa wanga anapita "kusiya"?
Kudzudzula kopanda nzeru, nsanje nthawi zonse kumapangitsa munthu kuchita zinthu zonyansa kotero kuti aweruzidwe chifukwa cha izo.
Nthawi zina mkazi sasiyana ndi khalidwe labwino, amakonda kwambiri mwamuna, amawombera, ndipo mwina amasintha yekha. Mwamuna sangadziyerekezere kuti amadziwa za chiwembu, koma amasankha njira yobwezera, yomwe imamveka.
Vuto.
Tonsefe panthawi ina timamva kutopa kuchokera ku chiyanjano chilichonse. Moyo wa Zaetat, mavuto opondereza, pali vuto. Wina m'mayesero otere amayesa kulankhula ndi kusintha, koma wina amangosintha.
Wotopa ndi ubale, mwamunayo akuyang'ana zatsopano pambali. Kulumikizana kosagwirizana ndipadera kumapereka detente ndi kusokoneza kuchokera kuzinthu zowonongeka. Nthawi zina khalidweli limakhala chizoloŵezi.
Kampani yoipa.
Ziribe kanthu momwe izi zingamveke zopanda pake, zochuluka za zochita za munthu zimapangidwa mogwirizana. Bwenzi lake linasinthidwa ndi mkazi wake, zomwe adamuwuza za "chipani chabanjalo". Amzanga amasankha kuthandizira amphawi, kumusokoneza ndi kampani yosangalatsa ya akazi. Kuchokera mu lingaliro lomwelo la mgwirizano pa akazi osonkhana oterowo akhoza kusintha ngakhale iwo omwe ali ndi ndondomeko yomwe iwo sakuphatikizidwa konse.
Izi zimachitikanso kuti m'magulu ena muli ambuye pafupi ndi lamulo lovomerezeka, popanda zomwe munthu sangamve ngati ofanana. Chiyankhulo chimatikakamiza kuchita zinthu zambiri, ngakhale zomvetsa chisoni, kusakhulupirika nthawi zina kumaphatikizidwa mu lingaliro la kupambana.
Chikondi.
Zikuchitika kuti mwamuna ndi womanizer basi. Zimamuvuta kuti asakhalebe chidwi ndi amayi okongola, sangathe kudzipangira yekha ndikusintha. Kawirikawiri khalidwe ili likuwoneka mwakamodzi, khalidwe la khalidwe ili silikuwonekera mwamseri. Ngati mumakonda womakonda, mwinamwake mumadziwa izi ndipo mwachidwi mumakhala paubwenzi naye. Kuchotsa munthu wotere ndi kovuta kwambiri.
Muyeso wa nthawi.
Nthawi zina mwamuna amadzipezera yekha mbuye wake, kukakamiza zambiri kuchokera pa zosoŵa zake, m'malo momvera mwadzidzidzi. Mwachitsanzo, munaganiza zopita kukaphunzira kwa nthawi yayitali, paulendo wamalonda kapena kukhala ndi mwana. Panthawi ina, kusowa kwa kugonana kudzachita ntchito yake, ndipo munthu angathe kuthetsa vutolo mwanjira imeneyi.
Zimakhalanso kuti mkazi amasamalira kwambiri wokondedwa wake, amamuchitira zambiri ngati mayi. Ndipo ndani akufuna kugona ndi amayi ake? Amuna amapeza kumbali zomwe sakupeza m'njira zina.
Kusatsimikizika.
Kuyambira pa msinkhu wina, amuna ndi otetezeka mwa mphamvu zawo. Ndili ndi zaka, amayamba kukayikira zokongola zawo komanso kuti angachite chidwi ndi amayi. Amaopa kutaya mphamvu zawo za amuna. Nthaŵi zina kuzizira m'banja kumapangitsa munthu kuganiza kuti sagwiranso ntchito ngati moyo wake uli wosangalatsa kwambiri.
Zikatero, samafuna chikondi chatsopano, koma ndi umboni wakuti angakonde komanso kukwaniritsa. Ikhoza kukhala nthawi yaitali, mpaka kudzidalira komanso kukondana ndi mkazi kubwerera.
Chikondi chachikulu.
Choipa kwambiri ndi pamene munthu sasintha osati chifukwa cha izo, osati mwa kulakwa, osati mwa kuwerengera, koma mwa chikondi. Mkazi angathe kusunga njira zosiyanasiyana, chifukwa amayi ambiri amakhala ndi mwayi wokwanira, koma simungathe kulamulira mtima wanu. Zikatero, mwamuna sangathe kusudzulana, koma kusintha, chifukwa amakonda wina.
Kuthetsa vutoli kungathandize nthawi yokha. Chikondi kumbali chikhoza kudutsa, ndipo chikhoza kukhala kwa zaka zambiri. Nthawi zina n'zotheka kupulumutsa onse okwatirana ndi chikondi, ndipo nthawi zina palibe.
Pali mawu - ndani akuchenjezedwa, ali ndi zida. Podziwa zifukwa zomwe zingapangitse munthu wanu kuti achite chiwembu, zimakhala zosavuta kumuletsa ndikudzikonza yekha ndi khalidwe lake. Ngati mumvetsetsa kuti mwamuna wanu ali ndi zifukwa zokwanira zowononga, koma ubale wanu umatanthauzanso zambiri, mungathe kusintha vutoli ndikuletsa kutha. Ngati chiwonetserochi chachitika kale, muyenera kuyesetsanso mkhalidwewo ndi kusankha ngati mungakhululukire kapena ayi, choti muchite ndi choti muchite. Ndipo chinthu chachikulu ndi momwe mungapewere izi kuti zisadzachitikenso.
Ndikofunika kudziwa kuti sikuti anthu onse akusintha zomwe wina aliyense akunena za izo. Ndipo sizimayi zonse zimakakamiza anthu kuti achite chigololo. Maubwenzi amphamvu ndi chikondi chenicheni amatha kukhala okhulupirika kwa wina ndi mzake kwa zaka zambiri komanso ngakhale moyo wonse.