Ndipotu, tikapita ku tchuthi, timakhala ndi maselo onse a thupi lathu ndikumbukira konse mavuto onse ogwira ntchito, pafupi ndi abwenzi apamtima, omwe takhala nawo abwino nthawi zonse, kupuma kumatiwoneka chinthu chosiyana. Pokhapokha pa tchuthi timatha kumasuka ndikupeza zonse zomwe moyo wathu umangofuna, ndipo ndithudi, chikondi chokhazikikacho chimatha ndipo sichingatilowetse, koma kubweretsa chinachake chatsopano ndi chowala m'moyo wathu. Ndipotu, kukondana kotchuthi, ndizosaiwalika zomwe sizingafanane ndi chirichonse.
Tangoganizirani dzuŵa lotentha, mafunde akugunda pamatanthwe, zosavuta, mphepo yofiira komanso zonsezi, zimakhala zokondweretsa kwambiri zomwe zimayambitsa maubwenzi osagwirizana. Ndipotu, zochitika zoterezi zingadzutse maganizo athu ngakhale pang'ono.
Anthu ambiri, atapita ku tchuthi okha, akunena kuti adzapuma ndipo palibe mgwirizano wina kupatula mpumulo umene saufuna. Koma izi zidzakhala zabodza, ngati kulimbana ndi mayesero, ngakhale kuti sizingatheke kukangana ndi wina. Ndiponsotu, buku lopangira malolo ndilochilengedwe komanso lachirengedwe. Makolo ambiri, kutumiza mwana wawo wamkazi pa tchuthi, amuchenjeze iye kuti asamapunthwitse zolakwa ndi kupereka mawu osiyana pamsewu kotero iye samachita chirichonse chopusa. Ndipo kawirikawiri izi zimakhala chifukwa chakuti amayi atangoyamba kulowa mu dziwe ali ndi mutu mu malo osungirako zachikondi nthawi imodzi m'moyo. Lolani ilo kamodzi, koma iwo adzakumbukira izi kwa nthawi yaitali.
Chikondi cha tsiku la tchuthi chikhoza kuchitika mmoyo wathu chifukwa chakuti sichikhala chachibadwa, ndipo alibe nthawi yoti ikhale mikangano kapena kukwiya. Buku la tchuthi ndi lowala komanso osati nthawi yaitali. Ndipo, chifukwa chake, zochitika zonse za mpumulo zimakhala zosangalatsa osati zolemetsa.
Ngati muli ndi chikondi chenicheni, chinthu chachikulu sikuti mupange zolakwika zazikulu zomwe amai amakonda kuchita. Cholakwika ichi ndi pamene mkazi ayamba kuganiza kuti, bwanji ngati ubale wake ukhoza kupita ku chinthu china chachikulu komanso chokhalitsa? Ndipo bwanji ngati izi ziri tsogolo lake ndipo adzatha kukhala ndi munthu uyu kwa moyo wake wonse? Zoonadi, zonse zimachitika m'moyo, koma kawirikawiri buku la malo osungirako ntchito linatha ndi ukwati ndipo sitiyenera kuiwala za izo. Kwenikweni, ambiri ochita mafilimu amaganiza za ubale weniweni, koma nthawi yokhala ndi mpumulo.
Kukondana kwamasiku a tchuthi kuli ngati chomera chimene chimakonda kutentha ndipo m'madera ena mumzinda waukulu sungakhoze kukula. Mabuku oterowo amathera ndi tchuthi lanu ndipo amangokumbukira zokondweretsa zokhazokha kwa wophunzira aliyense komanso palibe. Mukuganiza kuti izi si zokwanira kwa inu? Mwinamwake. Koma inunso musaiwale kuti kuti mubwererenso bukuli, mukadzafika mumzinda wanu, mutenga ubale watsopano, umene udzakhala wolimba komanso wosatha.
Mu moyo wathu pakhoza kukhala zinthu zambiri zosangalatsa, koma chikondi cha tchuthi ndi chosaiwalika. Ndipo, pamene mukupumula, musamufunse okondedwa wanu nthawi yomwe amadziwa kuchita, kodi makhalidwe ake oipa ndi ati, kodi amadya chiyani? Pambuyo pa zonse, simukusowa kudziwa chilichonse mu moyo uno.
Ngati mukufuna, mungathe kuuza mnzanuyo zomwe mukuganiza kuti ndizofunika, ndipo sangadziwe zambiri kuchokera kwa inu, amadziwa kuti mumamuuza zomwe mumaganiza zokwanira.
Osakhala ndi chidwi ndi zomwe zimachitika m'moyo wake komanso chifukwa chake adaganiza kuti abwere yekha, palibe amene anganene zoona. Musasokoneze ufulu wake, msiyeni apumule pamene akudziona kuti ndi woyenera. Pambuyo pake, simugwiritsira ntchito moyo wanu wonse, choncho musiyeni amasangalale masiku ano. Ndipo khulupirirani ine, mnzanu wapamtima adzakuthokozani ndi mtima wake wonse.
Ndipo tsopano zabwino zonse zimatha. Mapeto anu a tchuthi, ndipo chikondi cha tchuthi chikufika kumapeto. Khalani ndi tsiku musanapite kunyumba, mumakhala wokhumudwa kwambiri ndipo mukuganiza kuti zonse zatha posachedwa m'moyo wanu, koma ndi zabwino kwambiri! Motero, tchuthi lanu silinali chabe. Mukhoza, ngati mukufuna, muyankhulane naye, kapena mungathe kumusiya ndikumuthokoza chifukwa cha mpumulo wodabwitsa umene wakhala nawo limodzi m'masabata apitawo. Ndipo khulupirirani ine, mukadzafika kwanu, mudzakhala ndi chisangalalo chokhudzana ndi holideyi.
Ndipo mwinamwake, mutabweranso kachiwiri kumalo omwewo, mudzakumananso naye ndipo mukumwetulira nkhope yanu kubwera kwa iye, podziwa kuti apa ali ndi inu. Koma kumbukirani chinthu chimodzi, kuti chikondi cha tchuthi sichitha kukula. Si chikondi, koma chabe chilakolako ndi chidziwitso cha ufulu ndi bata.
Chikondwerero cha maholide chimapezeka m'moyo mwa mwayi wokha. Timangoganiza za nyanja, dzuwa ndi nyanja, koma pambuyo pa zonse, timafuna pang'ono ndi kutentha, ndipo izi zimatipatsa chikondi. Ndipo musaope izi, chifukwa timakhala ndi moyo kamodzi kokha! Kotero bwanji ife sitidzipereka tokha chisangalalo chaching'ono chomwe chidzakhalabe mu miyoyo yathu kwa nthawi yayitali.
Tikukhulupirira kuti kabuku kathu kakuthandizani kuti mudziwe chifukwa chake chikondichi chikuchitika mmoyo wanu. Ndipo lolani chikondi cha tchuthi chikhale chosakumbukika m'moyo wanu.