Ndiyenera kulola mwamuna wanga kusintha

Kodi muyenera kuchita chiyani ndi mwamuna wanu? Mmodzi mwa miyambi yowonjezera amapereka yankho ku funso ili - "monga galu, chakudya, usamanyoze ndikuyenda." Ngati ponena za mfundo ziwiri zoyambirira ndi zosavuta, ndiye kuti chachitatu ndi funso lalikulu.

Kodi sizidzachitika kuti okhulupirika athu ndi ovuta kuyenda, osati ngati, koma amatha kumbali! Gwirizanani, izi sizili zokondweretsa, komabe funso limabuka ngati kulola mwamuna kusintha? Ndipo mochititsa chidwi, palibe yankho lomveka bwino la funso ili.

M'nkhaniyi tiyesa kuyang'ana funso ili kuchokera pazithunzi ziwiri, kuti tikupatseni chithunzi chachikulu. Koma inu mukuyenerabe kuyankha, chifukwa palibe njira yothetsera vutoli. Kotero, tiyeni tipite kukafufuza.

Mikangano yowalola kulowerera.

Ngakhale poyang'ana poyamba, simungalole kapena kukhululukira chiwembu, koma pali zochitika zomwe simungathe, zimakhala zotheka.

Inunso mulibe uchimo.

Mwachitsanzo, inu nokha muli ndi buku kumbali, pamene inu ndi mwamuna wanu simukutha kusudzulana (pakadali pano pangakhale zifukwa zambiri, kuyambira ndi ana, kutha, osamveka, ndi chikondi chimene sichinafe). Pankhaniyi, mungathe kumaliza mgwirizano wa "abambo," aliyense ali ndi ufulu wochita chiwembu, ndipo palibe amene adzalangidwa chifukwa cha chirichonse ngati sakubweretsa mavuto kwa mnzakeyo. N'zodabwitsa kuti, okwatirana omwe alipo, ndipo n'zotheka kunena zambiri, iwo amasangalala wina ndi mzake.

Simungamupatse zomwe akufuna.

Kapena zochitika zina, mwamuna wanu akufuna kugonana zomwe simungathe kumupatsa kapena sakuzifuna, apa sitidzakambirana zomwe ziridi. Mfundoyi ndi yofunikira kwa ife, mwinamwake, ndizomveka kumulora nkhani kumbali kuti akwaniritse zosowa zake zogonana. Inde, pano, nawonso, akuyenera kukambirana zomwe zilipo pasadakhale, mwinamwake mwamunayo amatha kumasuka ndikusiya kuchotsa.

Kutsutsana kotsiriza.

Pomaliza, nthawi zina chisankho ichi chingakuthandizeni kuti muzisunga banja lanu, ndithudi, izi ndizovuta komanso zovuta kwambiri, koma ngati mukumvetsa kuti popanda munthu uyu simungathe kukhala ndi moyo (kumverera, zifukwa zakuthupi), ndiye kuti izi ndizofunikira adzasankha. Koma musaiwale kuti nthawi zonse ndi muzochitika zonse, chisankho chomaliza ndi chanu ndipo muli ndi ufulu wosankha nokha.

Koma m'mabuku onsewa, ndikutsindika kachiwiri, ndikofunikira kukhazikitsa zikhalidwe ndi zoperewera. Sungathe kunena, pitani ndikusintha kumanja ndi kumanzere, ngakhale chiwembu chiyenera kukhala ndi malire ake.

Mikangano yosaloledwa kupandukira.

Chabwino, pano, zonsezi ndi zophweka, komabe sizingakhale zodabwitsa kukumbukira kuti chiwonongeko, kaya kuchokera kumbali yanu kapena kumbali ya mwamuna, ndi chizindikiro chakuti chinachake chalakwika mu ubalewu. Ndipo mwinamwake muyenera kusintha chinachake. Chiwonongeko, ndithudi, kusintha komweko, koma koopsa kwambiri ndi kardinali. Inde, maubwenzi aufulu ali mu mafashoni masiku ano, koma kuti musankhe pa iwo, muyenera kukhala ndi chidaliro chonse mwa mwamuna wanu, komanso mwa inu nokha ndi mukumverera kwanu. Apo ayi, iwo akhoza kutsitsa kwathunthu!

Ngati tilankhula za zomwe zili pafupi ndi ine, monga mlembi wa nkhaniyo, ndiye kuti ineyo sindingapereke chilolezo kwa mwamuna wanga. Koma ndikudziwa motsimikiza kuti pakati pa anthu omwe ndimadziwana nawo pali maanja omwe anthu sakuchita chigamulo, ndipo amakhala okondwa. Pankhaniyi, ndithudi, muyenera kumvetsetsa kuti simukulola mwamuna wanu kuti azitsutsa, ngati akufuna, adzasinthabe.

Kuchokera pazomwezi, tikhoza kunena kuti nthawi zina paliponse pamene mungalole kuti munthu asakhulupirire mwamuna wake ndi njira yowonongeka komanso yoipa, koma ngakhale panopa simungathe kuchita izi popanda zifukwa zina. Mofananamo, munthu ayenera kumvetsetsa kuti kuletsa kwanu sikunali kuperewera kwa chigololo chake.