Iwo sayenera kufunsidwa za izi
Amuna, monga ana a naskodivshie, mpaka omaliza kukana ndikumanena kuti iwo ali oyera, ngati dontho la mame. Ngati mutapambana kumusunga ndi zochitika mmanja mwanu (zotsalirazo ziyenera kukhala zosakanikizika), ndiye zatsopano zochokera mndandanda zidzasewera: "Inde, ine sindikudziwa momwe zinakhalira ..."
Ndipo zifukwa zidzagwa. Ambiri - amati, "adaledzera", sanamvetse zomwe akuchita. Mwamuna wa bwenzi langa adanena pa phwando lachikondwerero (mkazi wanga akukankhira ku khitchini): "Pachifukwa ichi, zomwezo sizikuchitika." Kusokoneza bongo - nthano ndizofala. Pomwepo iwo anabwera ndi iwo, mwinamwake, amuna okha. Pambuyo pake, amamwa, m'malo mwake, kuti akhale olimba mtima, osati mosiyana ...
Mwamuna wanga amapereka ndemanga yosavuta: "Kotero kamodzi kokha". Ndiko kuti, ngati kamodzi, ndiye, osati kusuntha konse. Ndipo mwamuna wina wokongola anayesera kutsimikizira theka lake lina kuti kugona ndi "aakazi a anthu ena" anali ntchito yake yaumisiri. Iye, monga bwana wamalonda wopambana, ali ndi ufulu ku izi mwa chikhalidwe.
Mungathe kulemba zifukwa ndi zifukwa zamtundu uliwonse, koma mutha kunena chinthu chimodzi: ndizosamvetsetseka kuti mudziwe chifukwa chake ndikuperekera munthu. Ndipotu, amaganiza moona mtima kuti simukufunikira choonadi, koma ndi mwayi wokonza zochitika ndi zitsimikizo kuti izi sizidzachitikanso. Ndipo moona mtima zonsezi zimapereka.
Chifukwa iye ndi mwamuna
Kuti tipeze momwe okondedwa athu akukankhira "umbanda," ndibwino kutembenukira ku chidziwitso cha akatswiri a maganizo ndi opatsirana. Ndipo iwo apeza zambiri muzaka zapitazi.
Ndipo chifukwa choyamba chimene inu mudzatchedwa kumveka ndi chosavuta: chifukwa iye ndi mwamuna. Ndipo chikondi chiribe kanthu kochita ndi izo. Wokondedwa wanu akhoza kukukondani kwambiri, adalirani ana anu, kunyamula amayi anu m'manja mwanu, ndipo nthawi ndi nthawi "yendani kumanzere."
Ndipo amachititsa kuti zinthu zonse zachibadwa ndi mahomoni amphongo, omwe sapereka mpumulo kwa "mtima wotopa". Nthawi zina kuona pang'ono za kugonana kwapadera kumakhala kokwanira, ndipo njira yomwe ikugwiritsidwa ntchito ndi zaka chikwi kukakamiza mwana wamwamuna kuti ayese ana ake, paliponse, ndipo chofunikira kwambiri, sichidzasiya kukhulupirika kwake ndi kufufuza. Ndipo zonse zomwe tingachite ndi kukhululukira kapena kubwezera ...
Malo oopsa
Pali malo omwe amapezeka poopseza, ndiko kuti, kukhulupirika kwa munthu kumayesedwa. Mwa njira iyi, malo opangira malo amakhalabe cholembera. Zikuwoneka kuti kugonana kwakukulu pansi pa dzuwa lakumwera kumabwera amnesia osakhalitsa. Amayiwala kwathunthu za akazi awo ndi ana awo. Ndipo vutoli ndilo: kukongola kwapakati pa ukhondo pamphepete mwa nyanja kumawonekera kwambiri.
Ndipo apa si mahomoni okha omwe amachititsa gawo lawo lakuda. Iyenso ndiledzeretsa ufulu. Ndipotu, mwamuna, ngakhale muukwati, amayesetsa kusamala kuti azidziimira yekha (makamaka pazinthu zina) kuchokera ku zovuta za akazi. Mwa njira, chimodzi mwa zifukwa zochitira chiwembu chingakhale chikhumbo chanu chobwezera mnzanuyo mwanjira yanuyanu. Chilakolako choterechi, palibe mwamuna amene angavomereze. Ndiyeno, iye anakonda inu momwe iye aliri, kale.
Ndipo pa malo ogona ndi paulendo wamalonda, khalani ndi nthawi yochepa kwambiri, mwamuna amapeza zomwe iye ankalakalaka nthawi zonse. Simukuyenera kunama, dzifunseni nokha, yang'anirani nthawi ndi kumveka pamatumba anu. Ndi izi apa, chimwemwe!
Zopanda phindu ndi omwe amatchedwa "maphwando a nsomba". Makamaka ngati iwo ali pa nthawi iliyonse yofunika - ukwati wa winawake, mwachitsanzo. Mwa njira, ngati wokondedwa wanu akuchita monga mkwati, chiopsezo cha ichi sichitha. Nthano inanso ndiyo kuganiza kuti amayi amakonda kuonongeka. Anyamata amakhalanso okonda kwambiri izi, ndikhulupirire ine! Ndipo kotero iwo adzayesa kupatula limodzi ndi moyo wawo wautali pamlingo wapamwamba, ndiko, ndi atsikana.
Milandu yachipatala
Malo ogona, maulendo a bizinesi, maphwando oyendayenda - zonsezi ndizochabechabe, motero, bizinesi ya tsiku ndi tsiku. Pali "zigzags zamwamuna" komanso zovuta kwambiri. Ndili ndi bwenzi lomwe linatha kukwatiwa kawiri .... Kumene anazipeza mu manambala, n'zovuta kunena. Koma chinthu chodabwitsa kwambiri ndi chakuti nthawi zonse msungwanayo, monga akunena, sakudziwa za chikhalidwe cha wokondedwa wake.
Ngakhale akatswiri a zamaganizo amanena kuti n'zotheka kuzindikira olemba zinthuwa. Iwo ali, monga lamulo, osapitirira mu kuyesa zogonana, ndi chifuniro cha zatsopano zomwe samazimitsa ngakhale pambuyo pa nthawi yofunika kwambiri yaukwati. Ngati wokondedwa atopa, amapeza zosangalatsa "kumbali" ndipo nthawi zambiri samakhala ndi mkazi. Malingaliro ndi ophweka - ndi kovuta kugonana ndi munthu ngati chiwembu ...
Komabe vuto lalikulu kwambiri ndilofanana ndi mayi. Osati anthu ochepa okha mpaka ukalamba wapachikidwa pamabwato ndi cholinga chawo chachikulu ndi kupeza mzanga wokhulupirika, koma mayi wachikondi. Kufikira mkazi woteroyo atapezeka, sangapume. Ndipo, chifukwa chake, ayesa ofuna atsopano. Ngakhale ngati positi yatengedwa kale.
Otopa
Komabe, nthawi zina ife timakwiyitsa kusakhulupirika kwa theka lathu. Wopambana pa masewerawa "Yesetsani kuchita zabwino" akunena kwa apongozi ake: "Khala ndi mwamuna wako kwa zaka khumi ndi zisanu, kenako tiwona ...".
Inde, pa zaka zambiri zaukwati, kumverera kumachepetsa, zochitika zogonana zimakhala zosasangalatsa, ndipo amayi nthawi zambiri amalephera kugwirizana ndi mtundu wawo. Koma mwamunayo akupitirizabe kufuna kukhudzika, ngakhale pa maholide, ndipo chikhalidwe chake chachimuna sichingakhoze kufotokoza kuti mtendere ndi chimwemwe. Kotero iye ayamba kuyang'ana pozungulira.
Ngati zili choncho, ndibwino kuti mutope, dzipangire nokha, mugulitse lingaliro lamakono ndi kugwedeza wakale. Koma ndifunikanso kuti musapitirize. Ndipotu, okhulupirika anu akhoza (akadali abwino) asankhe kuti mwapeza m'malo mwake. Ndiyeno adzayamba zovuta zonse.
Mwa njira, malinga ndi akatswiri a maganizo, kudzikayikira ndilo chifukwa chofala kwambiri cha chigololo. Choncho, kamodzi pa sabata kambiranani mnzanu kuti ndi yekhayo amene angakupatseni chisangalalo chosagwirizana, ngakhale si choncho ...