Pamene akumva kuti mwamuna ali kale ndi banja, ana, udindo mdziko, kawirikawiri pamaphunziro onse okhala olemekezeka. Ndipo theka lake kokha amadziwa kuti nthawi ndi nthawi amachedwa osati kuntchito ...
Asayansi nthawi zonse amatiuza za mitala za umunthu. Mphongo amayesa kufesa amayi ambiri momwe angathere kuti apitirizebe moyo wake. Phindu la "manyowa" - sizingatheke kuti iwo akufunadi izi, kusintha, koma kutenga nawo mbali mofananamo, zotsatira zake zomwe sizidzakhala kupitiliza mtundu, koma chisangalalo chomwe iwo sakudziwa bwino.
Ife, panthawi yathu, timayesetsa kuteteza chikhalidwe ichi ndi mphamvu zathu zonse: timachita zonse kuti tikhale osiyana ndi apadera, ochuluka kwambiri, nthawi zina timakhumudwitsidwa kapena timapanga zoipitsa, ndipo nthawi zina sitingathe kupirira, timachoka, kubwerera, kukhululukira kapena kubwerera ndipo musakhululukire. Kuyesera kumvetsa chifukwa chake mwamuna akugulitsa mkazi ndi kovuta, ndipo nthawi zambiri sizingatheke.
Ndipo pamene mutaphunzira za nkhaniyo kumbali ya wokondedwa wanu, mumadzifunsa kuti: "Chifukwa chiyani?". Amayang'ana mwakachetechete ndipo akuti: "Ndikhululukireni ine," alumbira kuti wina, winayo, satanthauza chilichonse kwa iye, kuti mdierekezi wapusitsa ndipo tsopano adzakhala ndi iwe.
Amakhaladi womvera kwambiri, ndipo zikuwoneka kuti muli ndi "chiwiri" chachiwiri. Ndipo inu mumakhululukira, kapena (wina pambuyo pa woyamba, wina pambuyo pa khumi) akusonkhanitsa zinthu ndikuchoka. Kwamuyaya.
Zifukwa zowonongedwa kwa amuna ndizochuluka: mwina, "mdierekezi anawonongedwa", amangofuna chinachake chatsopano, mtsikanayo anali wovuta kwambiri, ankafuna kuzindikira malingaliro awo, kuwazunza ludzu la ulendo.
Palinso alonda omwe akufuna kukondweretsa akazi ambiri momwe angathere, kukonza njira zawo. Mwinanso ichi ndi chimodzi mwa njira zovomerezeka, kapena chidziwitso china cha kudziletsa. Mwachidziwikire, pali zinthu zambiri m'moyo, palibe amene amapewa izi.
Kulimbana ndi chiwembu kumakhala kovuta, koma malinga ndi ziwerengero, mzimayi wamkulu amakhala, wololera kwambiri ndiye modzidzimutsa wothandizana naye. Koma kodi pali mabala osachepera pamtima kuchokera pa izi? Mwinamwake ayi.
Kwa ambiri mafani kuti ayende mbali imodzi, ina, sizitanthauza kwenikweni, ndi masewera chabe. Osachepera amanena choncho. Pali munthu, ndipo pali banja.
Khululukirani ndipo mudikire ndi mtima wozama, pamene "belu" yotsatira idzagawidwa, simungakhululukire ndipo mudzalumpha misozi yanu, kulira usiku popanda wokondedwa wanu ndi kudzitonza nokha chifukwa cha kunyada. Koma ngati mumakonda kwambiri, simungasinthe.
Ngati iwe uli chinthu chofunika kwambiri pa moyo wake, adzalingalira kasanu nthawi asanachite chinthu chimene adzamve chisoni pambuyo pake, chinthu chomwe chingakuvulaze. Bwino, ndithudi, ngati simunaphunzire za izo, koma mukhale ndi moyo kuti mudziwe kuti mumasintha nthawi ndi nthawi, kotero kuti mukhalebe mawonekedwe, ndi zopweteka komanso zovuta.
Ngakhale pali amayi omwe amanena kuti sasamala, alola kuti ayende, chifukwa nthawi zonse amabwerera. Amene amayesa kunyenga ndi mawu awa: iwowo kapena ena, kapena samafuna kuwoneka osamvetseka ndi kusiya kwa anzawo.
Aarabu ali ndi mawu abwino: chimene chinachitika kamodzi sichitha kuchitika kachiwiri, ndipo zomwe zinachitika kawiri zidzachitika kachitatu. Kusankha nthawi zonse, kwa inu: kuchoka, kukhala ndi wosakhulupirika, kuyanjanitsa kapena kukonza masewero. Koma chinthu chachikulu musadzitsutse nokha kuti muli mu chinachake osati kuti musakhutsidwe.
Ngati mukufuna kusunga wokondedwa wanu pafupi, khalani anzeru, musaike pakati pa iye ndi iye khoma lodzipatula ndi mkwiyo. Inde, zidzakhala zovuta, koma yesetsani kukhala achifundo komanso osamala, khulupirirani, ngati mumusamala, sakufuna kukutaya chilichonse pa dziko lapansi.