Zizindikiro zisanu ndi ziwiri zomwe mnzanuyo akuchita.
Momwe mungadziwire kuti ndikunyoza? Ndipotu, ndizofala kwambiri masiku ano. Kodi ndi zoona kuti chifukwa cha intaneti ndi mafoni a m'manja, zimakhala zosavuta kuti abwenzi athu azigwiritsa ntchito zomwe zikuchitika masiku ano?
Gawo lanu lachiwiri, lingayese kubisa kupezeka kwa ambuye, koma kusakhulupirika kumafuna chidwi chapadera. Makhalidwe amenewa sakhala nawo nthawi zonse mwa amuna. Othandizana amachoka, mwachinyengo chawo, maumboni ochulukirapo ndikuchita zozizwitsa, kuyesera kubisa ntchito zawo za tsiku ndi tsiku.
Ngati mukuganiza kuti wokondedwa sali womveka bwino ndi inu, ndiye muyenera kuphunzira kuzindikira kusakhulupirika. Phunzirani zizindikiro zowonjezereka za kusakhulupirika, zomwe zimatsimikizira kuti wokondedwa wanu ali ndi chikondi:
1. Pitirizani kuzindikira kuti mukulemera komanso nthawi zonse mumagula zovala zatsopano.
Ngati mnzanuyo akuyamba kuphunzitsa mwakhama pa masewera olimbitsa thupi ndi kuvala bwino, ndiye apa ndi siteji yatsopano ya unyamata wake, kapena sizingakhale zoona kwa inu. Munthu akakhala ndi chidwi kwambiri ndi zovala, makongo, manicure, nkhope, amawoneka kuti akukopa chidwi cha amayi ena. Zitsulo zatsopano, nsapato ndi madzi a chimbudzi - zimasonyeza kuti masewerawa akusewera m'makomo ena.
2. Kusagonana pang'ono.
Chizindikirochi, ngati palibe china, chingathandize kuthetsa chiwembu. Ngati mnzako sakufuna kuchita zogonana ndi iwe, zimakwaniritsa zosowa ndi wina. Zisonyezero zina zomwe zingakuthandizeni kuti muzindikire kusamvera, pangakhale malo osiyanasiyana pa kugonana, zomwe iye, motsimikiza kwambiri, akukupemphani kuti muyese pamodzi. Chizindikirochi chikusonyeza kuti wokondedwa wanu adzipezapo pabedi ndi mkazi wina.
3. Zimatha nthawi yaitali.
Khalani maso kuti mwamsanga muzindikire zizolowezi zake zatsopano. Wokondedwa wanu, mwinamwake mumasintha, akachoka kuntchito mofulumira, ndipo amabwerera kunyumba mochedwa, opanda zifukwa zina zapadera. Komanso samalirani nthawi yochuluka yomwe amachitira pa maphwando a gulu. Muyenera kudandaula nthawi, nthawi zambiri, nthawi zambiri, amachoka panyumba. Pomaliza, samalani kwambiri pamene simungathe kumuonana naye pafoni, kapena sakuyankha mauthenga anu ambirimbiri a SMS. Ngati atapanga zifukwa, kuti amagwira ntchito zambiri, ndipo sangathe kuyankha mafoni ndi mauthenga, machitidwewa ndi chizindikiro choipa.
4. Nkhani zachinsinsi ndi ndalama.
Wokondedwa wanu sangagule nthawi zonse mphatso zamtengo wapatali komanso kulipira ngongole usiku umene wakhala ndi bwenzi langa latsopano. Kupeza izo kungakhale chifukwa cha mapepala opezeka, mowolowa manja mowirikiza kwa madyerero ambiri mu malo odyera okwera mtengo. Kuwonongeka kosavuta kwa ndalama pa makadi a ngongole, kukulolani kuti muwone kusakhulupirika, ndipo ngakhale kumugwira wokonda kutentha. Ngati mukufuna kukonda wokondedwa wanu pa chionetsero, fufuzani ndalama zanu ndi phindu pa khadi, ndipo onetsetsani kuti angathe kuwalongosola momasuka. Ngati akunena kuti ali pakiyendo, ndipo pa nthawiyo amadya chakudya chamadzulo, ndiye onetsetsani kuti mwamunamizira.
5. Kupeza kompyuta yake ndi foni yake kwatsekedwa.
Zomwe mumazikonda zidzatsimikizika ngati muli ndi kachidindo ngati mwadzidzidzi muwona kompyuta yanu pamsewu wamakono, mbiri yakale ya msakatuli ndi makalata obisika. Izi zidzakuthandizani kuti muzindikire kuchitira nkhanza. Chifukwa chiyani? Anthu ambiri omwe ali ndi chikondi nthawi zambiri amanjenjemera pamene ayitanidwa, ndipo amapita ku chipinda china kuti alankhule pa foni. Komanso, imelo ndi intaneti ndi magwero a umboni wolimba. Ngati mnzanu akufuna kubisa zochita zake, kusintha passwords ndi chizindikiro choti akubisa chinachake kuchokera kwa inu.
6. Iye anasintha maganizo ake kwa inu.
Zomwe mumazikonda mwadzidzidzi zinayamba kukupangitsani kuti mukhale ndi mikangano nthawi zambiri, mumatsutsa maonekedwe anu, chakudya chophika ndi zovala? Izi zikutanthauza kuti inu munayamba kuyesera kukufananitsani ndi bwenzi lanu latsopano. Kumbali inayi, khalani maso pamene, mutatha kusamala za wokondedwa wanu, khumi ndi awiri okongola maluwa amaonekera m'nyumba mwanu sabata iliyonse. Ichi ndi chisonyezo chakuti ali ndi malingaliro olakwira pokhudzana ndi chiwembu, kapena akusangalala kuti maubwenzi ake kumbali akadali osasintha.
7. Chidziwitso cha amayi.
Ngakhale zitsanzo zomwe zili pamwambazi ndizokwanira, funsoli lidalipo: Momwe mungadziwire kuti mwatsutsa? Choyamba, khulupirirani chibadwa chanu. Mumadziwa bwino mnzanuyo, komanso zizindikiro zoyambirira za kusintha kwa khalidwe lake (kuchepetsa nthawi yowopsya, kukwiya, kuwonjezeka / kuchepa kwa chilakolako cha kugonana, maulendo ambiri omwe amakhalapo, kupezeka kwa nthawi yaitali) ayenera kukuchenjezani kwambiri. Amayi ambiri amanena kuti adawona zizindikiro zonyengerera, koma sanaziganizire, kapena wokondedwayo anafotokoza zonse mwanzeru. M'malo mosiya machenjezo onse, lankhulani momasuka ndi mnzanu zakukhosi kwanu, ndipo mwinamwake simudzadandaula za ubale wanu m'tsogolomu.