Koma ngati mumvetsa kuti mukufuna kubwezera munthuyu, mosasamala kanthu kalikonse, pali lamulo lofunikira - kuti muchitepo. Mukakhala pansi, mutambasula manja anu ndikumva chisoni, ndiye kuti iye yekha sadzabwerera. Ndiye mumamuthandiza bwanji munthuyo atagawanika?
Choyamba, nkofunikira kumvetsetsa ndi kumvetsa bwino yemwe anali woyambitsa phokosoli, ndikutsindika kusiyana kwake. Osati kukangana, pambuyo pake phokoso linayamba, koma amene adapereka gawo. Ngati muli, ndiye kosavuta, ngati kuli, ndiye kovuta kwambiri.
Chachiwiri, mosasamala kuti ndani anayambitsa kupatukana, wina ayenera kumvetsetsa ndi kukhala wokonzeka kukhululukira munthu. Pambuyo pake, ngati izi sizinachitidwe (ndi bwino kuposa zonse), ndiye kuti kukonzanso kulikonse posachedwa kudzapanganso kusokoneza kwatsopano ndi kusiyana kwatsopano.
Ndipo potsiriza, chinthu chomalizira ndi chofunika kwambiri ndi kubwezera munthu kapena kubwereranso kwa mnyamata n'kotheka, ngati inu nonse mumakondana wina ndi mzake. Ngati wina alibe, ndiye kuti mayesero onse akulephera, pangakhale phokoso loipa, osati ubale.
Woyambitsa kupatukana ndiwe.
Ngati iwe unali woyambitsa, ndiye kuti zonse n'zosavuta. Kotero, amakukondani komanso amayamikira, ndipo ngati ali choncho, adzakhululukira zofooka zanu ndi kusintha kwa nthawi. Tiyenera kuyesa kukhazikitsanso kugonana. Kuti muchite izi, nthawi zina mumangoitana ndikupempha kuti mubwerere, kapena kuti mupereke kukakumana ndi kukambirana.
Ngati munthu amakukondani, zimakhala zokwanira kuti mudzifotokoze nokha ndikupepesa chifukwa cha zolakwa zake kuti mukhala pamodzi. Ndikofunika kunena zonse moona mtima, kotero kuti okondedwa anu amakhulupirira kuti mumalapa. Zoonadi, simungathe kugawanika nokha, chifukwa monga momwe chiwonetsero chimasonyezera, izi sizikuchitika mmoyo uno. Mnyamatayo ayenera kuzindikira zolakwa zake. Ngati mwafotokozera mwachidule, ndiye kuti mutengepo sitepe yoyamba, ngati chizindikiro choti simukufuna kupatula, koma muyenera kukomana.
Woyambitsa kupatukana ndi iye.
Pachifukwa ichi, chirichonse chiri chovuta kwambiri, chifukwa pamene iye akuyamba kupuma, iye ayenera, mwa lingaliro, akhale woyamba kupereka mgwirizano. Koma nthawi zina, kuti mnyamatayo agwirizane ndi chiyanjano (kudzikuza kwachimuna ndi kudzidalira), zimatenga zaka, koma simungakhoze kuyembekezera. Choncho, muyenera kuyesetsanso, koma nthawi ino iyenera kukhala yowonda komanso yovuta. Choyamba, muyenera kukhala naye paubwenzi wabwino, kumuimbira kwinakwake, koma osati kuti mukhale pamodzi, komanso mu kampaniyo. A picnic, kampu, konsati, ulendo - zonsezi ndizoyenera. Musaganize nthawi zonse za momwe mungabwerere munthu atachoka, yesani kumasula. Ndikofunikanso pamene mukumana naye kuti muyang'ane onse 100, koma musamupangitse zotsutsana. Kumbukirani njira yanu ndi ulemerero wa theka. Mnyamatayo mwiniyekha ayenera kumvetsa momwe akumvera chisoni popanda iwe ndipo akufuna kubwerera. Ndikuganiza kuti ukafika ku chikhalidwe chimene ukusowa, udzamvetsa, chinthu chachikulu sikuthamanga kwambiri. Kotero kunena kuti kupereka ndi kofunika kupereka kwa munthu "помомится".
Kotero, pamene mbale yatha, mukuyenera kupita ku gawo lotsiriza la opaleshoni, msonkhano wapadera. Pano mungathe kuwonjezera chikondi, icho chikanakhala nthawi yomwe imamverera. Pano kachiwiri, chinthu chachikulu sichiyenera kupitirira, musayesere kumanga agalu payekha, mnyamatayo ayenera kupepesa, komabe muyenera kupita naye pamsonkhano. Ndiye mwinamwake mudzatha kubwezeretsa.
Koma monga ndanenera pamwambapa, funso lofunika ndilo ngati mukufuna maubwenzi atsopano nokha, chifukwa mungathe kubwezera mnyamata wakale, koma akadakali munthu wina ndi maubwenzi ena.