Chochita.
Choyamba, musayese kuyamba mwatsopano moyo, kuiwala ndi kutha chikondi chanu chakale. Ndizosatheka mwathupi, chikondi si malo pa jeans - masiku awiri simudzatha. Konzani kuti izo zidzakhala ulendo wautali wa kutalika osati sabata limodzi. Koma kumbukirani kuti munthu akhoza kuthana ndi mavuto aliwonse, ngakhale atasiyana ndi wokondedwa wake.
Choyamba, mliri waukulu mutatha kugawidwa ndi maganizo okhudzana ndi izo. Kunyumba ndi kuntchito, pa tchuthi komanso pokonzekera zikalata zofunika. Nthawi yoyamba simukusiya kuganiza za wokondedwa wanu amene sanakupatseni inu nokha, komanso malingaliro anu, chiyembekezo ndi ziyembekezo. Simungathe kulamulira chifuniro chawo mwa mphamvu. Iwo adzawoneka kuchokera kuzinthu zazing'ono ndi mabungwe opambana. Choncho, zonse zomwe zimamukumbutsa, muyenera kuziponyera, kapena kuzipereka kwa anzanu (mayi, agogo, azakhali.). Ngati ndi chinthu chomwe simungathe kuchichita, simungathe kuchiika pakhomo. Lembani zikumbutso za iye kukhala zochepa momwe zingathere.
Kenaka, dziyese nokha, zilizonse zomwe zingakhale zovuta. Zilibe kanthu kwenikweni chomwe mungachite, ingoganizirani phunziro lomwe mumakonda. Ndibwino kuti mukhale ndi chizoloŵezi chokhazikika komanso chokhazikika, koma sizinapangidwe. Kuyeretsa nyumbayo, kusokoneza mabuku omwe ali mu chipinda ndikugwiritsira ntchito, kuyendetsa ntchito yowonjezera, kuyankha malipiro a nyumba. Kawirikawiri, chirichonse, ingokhala ngati osakwanira momwe zingathere. Zoonadi, kuchita izi n'kovuta, koma mutha kukhala otsimikiza kuti pakadali pano simungaganize za kale, ndikupulumuka mwakachetechete kupatukana kwa okondedwa anu.
Funsani thandizo kuchokera kwa anzanu (abwenzi apamtima). Palibe chabwino kuposa chibwana kuposa kukambirana kwachinsinsi ndi munthu wapafupi, kutsanulira moyo wako, kulira, lolani kuti platinamu iyi iwonongeke. Misozi imabweretsa ululu, ndipo imabweretsa mpumulo. Musamanyozetse. Pambuyo pake, ndi ululu wanu, muyenera choyamba kudzilamulira nokha ndi kulira mobwerezabwereza komanso kosafunika.
Pomaliza muyenera kusintha chinachake m'moyo. Yambani pang'ono, pitani kugula. Kugula ndi njira yabwino yopewera misala mutapatukana ndi wokondedwa wanu. Konzani chilolezo mu chipinda, gulani zithunzi ndikuwatsogolera ku zithunzi zanu! Ngati kuli kovuta kwa inu, ndiye kuti mukhoza kudzikonzera nokha (kapena lalikulu, ngati kotheka) kuyenda. Ulendo wosavuta wopita kumapeto kwa mlungu, kumzinda wina wokongola, udzathetsa mphamvu, kutsuka mutu ndikupereka malipiro a maganizo.
Ndiponso, kuti musayambe misala, adrenaline ikufulumira kukuthandizani. Kuyenda kwina kulikonse, kudumpha kuchokera ku parachute, chitoliro chazitali kapena chinachake chonga icho. Ndipo ingoganizani za zokondweretsa, pitani ku masewera.
Chimene sichiyenera kuchita.
Tiye tikambirane nthawi yomweyo kuti musayambe kukondana ndikuyesa kupweteka ndi chisangalalo chokhazikika. Izi zosangalatsa sizingatheke kukhala owona mtima, ndipo pamene mukuyesera kuyang'ana panja mokondwera, ndizowonjezereka kuti mudzakhala osamba. Ndipo musati muzivala maskiti nokha, kukhala omvera chisoni chanu, malingaliro omwe amakankhidwa mkati mwanu, kuvulaza kwambiri kuposa omwe amamasulidwa pa chifuniro.
Mulimonsemo, kumbukirani zomwe zanenedwa pamwambapa. Kupatukana, kupatukana, kupatukana kungakhalepo. Ndipotu, ngakhale ndi nthawi yovuta, koma dokotala. Chinthu chachikulu ndicho kupirira miyezi ingapo yoyamba, ndipo ululu udzakhala wosavuta.