Kumverera kwa mkazi, yemwe mwamuna wake akunyenga


Mumakhala, mukondwere ndi dzuwa, mvula yambiri, kuwombera pawindo ... Zonse ziri bwino, pafupi ndi wokondedwa wanu, muli otetezeka ndi otsimikiza kotheratu m'tsogolo. Chithunzi cha Iridescent, sichoncho? Nthano yokongola, ndipo mumakhulupilira, koma n'chifukwa chiyani nkhaniyi imakhala kwa kanthawi - mpaka nthawi? Nchifukwa chiani iye ndi wokondedwayo amakhala amodzi, mlendo, chifukwa chiani? Lero tiyesa kuyesa malingaliro a mkazi, amene mwamuna wake akusintha.



Nthawi yomweyo funsani funso: "Mwinamwake chinachake cholakwika ndi ine, ndachita chinachake cholakwika, osalankhulana ndi amayi ake kapena osapereka moni kwa anzanu?" Mukuganiza, mukuvutika ndipo simukupeza yankho. Maganizo ochititsa mantha m'mutu mwanga, kuyesa kuyendetsa wina ndi mzake, koma apa pali imodzi, yomwe imatsutsana kwambiri, ngati ntchentche yosavomerezeka siimatha. Zimatembenuka ndikuzungulira, zimavulaza ... Kuyambira-kw-... Inde, inde, ndizovuta kwambiri. Ayi, izi sizingakhale ndi ine, izi sizingachitike! Ndiyenera kuchita chiyani? Kutentha kumalimbikitsa pang'ono, koma mwadzidzidzi pachifuwachi sichimalola kuti kupuma, mtima ukhale mgwirizano, komanso kumangomveka mofuula, kuyesera kuti asiye kupweteka koopsa, mantha. Inde, chinali mantha, mantha kwa tsogolo, zakale zidakhala pomwepo, kuseri kwa nthawi ino, ndipo sizidzabwereranso. Ululu. Inde, ndi amphamvu komanso yopanda chifundo, ... Ndizo malingalirowa, nthawi zambiri, akuzungunula pamutu wa mkazi wokhumudwa. Koma kodi ndibwino kuti aphedwe? Ndikufuna kupereka mau ochepa omwe ndiyenera kudziwuza ndekha, kuti ndisakhale wachabechabe, ngakhale m'maso mwanga, sindikukamba za mabwenzi anga.

Choyamba, ine sindikuyenerera maganizo awa kwa ine ndekha. Chiwonongeko sichoncho chilungamitso, ndipo palibe zifukwa ziri kunja kuno.

Chachiwiri, ndine wokongola kwambiri, wokongola komanso wofunika, ndipo iye ... sitidzagwiritsa ntchito mawu amphamvu, ngakhale kuti sangapweteke.

Chachitatu, ine ndikhoza kukhala wopanda iye, ine ndidzakhala wokondwa ndi wofunikira.

Mawu awa akungoyenera kuti adziyankhulane okha nthawi zonse, kuti asataye kudzidalira komaliza, mwa chidwi chanu komanso mu mwayi wokhala wokondweretsa kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Ngakhale pazochitikazo ngati siziri zoona, ndiye kuti pali vuto lanu lomwe munthu wokondedwa yekhayo komanso wokondedwayo wasintha.

Malinga ndi chiwerengero, amayi oposa 60% amasintha akazi. Akatswiri a zamaganizo, madokotala ndi ena omwe akulemedwa ndi zasayansi amachititsa manyazi akazi osauka kuti chirichonse ndi chachilendo, amuna onse ndi mitala, ndiwo mahomoni, ndi zina zotero. ndi zina zotero.

Koma kunyengerera ndiko kutalika kwa kulemekeza, kunyalanyaza, kunyalanyaza, kuvomereza, kuvomerezedwa ndi amuna, zomwe akazi onse amagawidwa m'magulu awiri: "bitch" ndi "nkhuku". N'zachidziƔikire kuti mukufuna kudziƔa yemwe mpikisanoyo ali komanso momwe alili wabwino. Ndi chiyani chomwe chinamukopa iye, chinamukweza iye? Ali ndi miyendo yambiri, tsitsi lokongola, m'chiuno chofewa, mwina ali wokongola kapena wapamwamba? Ndipo tsopano, chinthu china chokhumudwitsa, chiri-kutali ndi chitsanzo! Nanga bwanji, pambuyo pa ichi, wina akufuna kubwezera chigamulochi, koma kodi ndi bwino kugwiritsa ntchito nthawi yanu yamtengo wapatali, yotsiriza, moyo pa munthu wopanda pake. Kuonjezera apo, ziyenera kudandaula kwambiri, chifukwa chifukwa cha ziwerengero zosadziwika, ndi amuna olimba mtima omwe amatha kusudzulana kovuta kwambiri kuposa akazi. (Izi ndizomwe mungachite ngati mukuyenera kuchita zinthu zowonongeka ndikusiya wolakwira). Kotero makhalidwe abwino ndi omveka - kusakhulupirika kungakhale chitsimikizo chabwino cha chitukuko china.

Apa pali nthawi! Palibenso malire omwe muli nawo, muli ndi "zolepheretsa", chifukwa ndinu abwino, oyera, odalirika kuposa iye. Ndipo tsopano, o, chozizwitsa! Izo zinachitika! Zonse sizinthu zoopsa kwambiri, dziko lonse lopangidwa mwatsopano liri lotseguka pamaso panu, chirichonse chodabwitsa chiripobe, inu muli mwamtheradi mwaufulu mu kusankha kwanu. Ndipo pali kusankha kwenikweni! Mungathe kukhululukira kapena ayi, mukhoza kuthetsa banja kapena ayi, mukhoza kuloledwa kuti musakhale abwino kapena, monga kale, kuti mukhalebe mwana wa nkhosa wofatsa, chirichonse chomwe mumakonda! Chowopsya chadutsa, ndi chiyani tsopano chowopa? Mungathe kupyolera mu moyo pafupi ndi munthu uyu kapena kale ndi wina, amene sangayambitse zowawa zambiri. Kusintha sikusokoneza, chifukwa mumadziwa kupitiliza. Pambuyo pa zonse, simukuopa zomwe zachitika kale, monga mdima wa kusakayikira kumeneko.

Mchitidwe wa mkazi wonyengedwa watha kale, ndipo iwe wokongola kwambiri, wokhala ndi tsitsi labwino ndi kupanga, mu kavalidwe katsopano ndi tsitsi lopaka tsitsi, ngakhale kuyesa kusintha - iye ndi woipitsitsa, iye adzatayika chuma chokha chimene iye ali nacho!

Chisamaliro cha mkazi, yemwe mwamuna wake amasintha, ndi bwino kuti asamudziwe aliyense. Ndipo mwadzidzidzi, mwamuna wanu sasintha kwenikweni, chifukwa sakufuna kutaya kukongola ngati iwe!