Komabe, ku chimwemwe chathu kapena chisangalalo, pali malo amodzi omwe sanagonjetsedwe ndi chikoka chowonongeka cha masiku ano: psychology. Ndipo mukuganiza chiyani, mu funso liti? Mawonedwe pa mapangidwe a banja.
Kumbukirani mawu a agogo anu aakazi: yesani m'manja mwanu moyo wanu wonse, ana asanu. Poyambirira, ukwati unkagwirizana ndi kubadwa kumene kwa ana ndipo kumathandizidwa kumvetsetsa anthu monga njira yopatsa moyo munthu watsopano. Achinyamata lero sali otsika kwa anthu akale. Inde, ndi ana ochepa masiku ano, anthu ochepa chabe amabereka, koma pano ndi mwana woyamba m'chaka choyamba cha moyo pamodzi - mosavuta! Komabe, chilakolako chotere chokhazikitsa banja lolimba chimakhala zovuta nthawi zina: mabanja amatha, ndipo ana asiyidwa amakhalabe.
1.Hochetsya posachedwa kuvala kavalidwe ka ukwati ndi tuxedo yabwino kwambiri? Mudzakhala ndi nthawi, REGISTRY OFFICE posachedwapa sidzatha.
2. Kodi mukufuna kufufuza nthawi yayitali kuti muzitha kumanga misomali pa mpanda wa dacha, kutsuka masokosi ndi kuyeretsa mbale? Khalani ndi chikwati cha boma ndipo muzimva zokondweretsa zokhala pamodzi.
3. Kodi mukuganiza kuti ndi nthawi yoyambira ana? Kodi mukuganiza kuti iwo sali ovuta kwambiri kuwasamalira kusiyana ndi khate loweta, ndipo mwana wanu nthawi zonse adzakhala ndi maganizo omwewo monga phukusi la ma diapers? Inu simungapite zenizeni, tikukulangizani kuti muleke kupachikidwa mumitambo.
4. Ndipo ngati pazifukwa zina simungathe kukhala ndi ana? Kodi ichi ndi chifukwa choyenera kuphedwa? Kumbukirani maanja omwe alibe ana omwe samasautsidwa konse chifukwa cha kuchepa kwake.
Mukuganiza bwanji, madona okondedwa, mukufunsani mafunso awa onse? Wolemba nkhaniyo? Ayi, amuna.
Nchifukwa chiyani akufunsa mafunso awa? Pali zifukwa zingapo izi:
1. Wosankhidwa wanu ndi wamng'ono kwambiri ndipo safuna kudzilemetsa nokha ndi banja. Ngati ndinu wachinyamata komanso woyembekezera, ndiye kuti musathamangire mnzanu wokoma. Njira idzakula. Ndipo ngati mwakonzeka kale kutsuka masokosi ndikubereka mwana? Ine ndiyenera kutsogolera mkwati mu ofesi ya olemba.
2. Iye ndi wodalirika. Amafuna malo ake, ndikukuonani m'gawo lake, akhoza kukwiya. Kudzikonda ndi kudzichepetsa. Kapena mwinamwake akufuna kumwa mowa madzulo kapena kunena, kudula mabwato kuchokera mumtengo, koma akudziwa kuti mudzakana? Choncho, amasankha kukwatirana. Iye akufuna kukuyang'ana iwe.
3. adali atakwatira kale. "Kusunthira" kwachiwiri mpaka pano, mphamvu sizingakwanire. Mwina mkazi woyamba sanali mphatso ndipo amamenya "cat" wanu chidwi chilichonse kuti mupite ku ofesi ya registry kachiwiri.
4. Sakonda udindo. Moyo wake waukhondo umamukwanira kwathunthu. Ndipo chikwati cha boma sichirimbikitse chirichonse, chifukwa palibe umboni wotsimikizira kuti "mudzakondana ndi kuthandizana wina ndi mzake mwachisoni ndi chimwemwe".
5. Anzake akukonzekera kukwatirana. Khalani ndi nthabwala nthawi zonse ndipo mutsimikizireni kuti pambuyo pa sitampu mu pasipoti iye adzawombedwa.
Zifukwa zokhala ndi chikwati chabambo kwa amuna ndizochuluka. Zikuwoneka kuti chitsime chachikulu cha mavuto onse ndi mantha. Kuwopa kuti iye adzasiyidwa mowa ndipo sadzayang'ana mpira, mantha kuti iye adzasandulika kukhala wotchuka, mantha kuti iye adzayenera kunyamula udindo wa banja lonse.
Amayi, ngati muli ndi munthu wovuta, muyenera kupeza njira yomuyandikira ndi kumuchiritsa lingaliro la "kudya pasipoti."