Kuti mudziwe nokha kuyankha funsoli, choyamba muyenera kumvetsa chifukwa chake. Sizichitika kuti mtsikanayo sakonda aliyense. Pali wogula pa mankhwala onse. Funso ndilo, kodi wogulayu ndi woyenera?
Ganizilani, ndi zotani zomwe mumayang'ana kwa osankhidwa anu? Inde, mkazi aliyense ali ndi zoyenera zake. Kwa wina, mkhono uwu wopanda mantha ndi kunyozedwa, ndipo wina akulota munthu woipa ali ndi moyo woyera ndi wovuta. Chirichonse chimene chinali, aliyense amadziwa zomwe akufuna. Koma sikuti mtsikana aliyense amadziwa kuti anthu abwino salipo. Sindikupeza munthu, chifukwa chiyani ali oipa? - Amayi ena amafunsa. Kodi sikuli koyenera kuganiza kuti chirichonse chiri mdziko chili cholingana. Ngati munthu ataya masokosi ake kuzungulira nyumba yake ndikuseka, komabe akuvala manja ake, kodi ndizofunikira kuyang'ana zabwino kapena ndibwino kukonda zenizeni?
Akalonga amangokhala m'nthano komanso melodramas. Mumoyo weniweni, munthu aliyense ali ndi zolakwika, monga, mwa njira, ndi mkazi aliyense. Koma nthawi zambiri sitidziwa mavuto athu, koma kwa ena timawona chinthu china chilichonse, kulakwa kulikonse. Inde, simuyenera kuthamanga pamtanda uliwonse, koma sizingakhale zomveka kupanga miyezo yapamwamba kwambiri. Mukhoza kulota za moyo wanu wonse ndikukhala nokha, pakudutsa anyamata abwino odalirika.
Chosiyana ndi pamene mkazi ali wokonzeka kukhala ndi aliyense ndikukhululukira chirichonse. Amuna samasowa chiguduli chomwe chili pamabondo awo. Asungwana otero samadzutsa chikhalidwe cha msaki, ndipo chidwi chimatha msanga. Ndicho chifukwa chake, ngati mumvetsetsa kuti mwakonzeka kuchita zonse zomwe mnyamata anganene mwatsatanetsatane, nthawi yomweyo yambani kugwira ntchito nokha, ngati simungagwiritsire ntchito ntchito ndi kubwezeretsa.
Komabe palinso gulu la amai omwe amakonda kukhala "chibwenzi chawo" ndi "m'bale". Amayi awa ali ndi abwenzi ambiri amene amawakonda ndi kuwasangalatsa. Koma kokha ngati bwenzi. Chowonadi ndi chakuti ubale wapamtima ndi amuna kumawachititsa kuiwala kuti ndinu mtsikana.
Zoonadi, mukhoza kumwa mowa pamtima ndi kuyenda mu suti yotambasula ndi anzanu apamtima, koma palibe chomwe muyenera kuchita pamaso pa munthu yemwe angakhalepo. Ngati poyamba mumadziika nokha ngati mnzanu, nkokayikitsa kuti chinachake chidzakhudza maganizo awa oyambirira. Ndicho chifukwa chake, phunzirani kukhala wachikazi. Ngati mupita tsiku kapena kampani imene mukufuna kumvetsetsa, valani nsapato ndi zidendene, mutenge zovala zokongola ndipo musayese kunena momwe mudapitilira kumapeto kwa sabata ndi anyamata kupita kukawedza ndi kumenyana ndi anzanu osalankhula. Ngakhale ndizo zachizoloŵezi, zachizoloŵezi, moyo wodziwika bwino, munthu sayenera kudziŵa za izo. Amatha kuona mwa iwe maluwa okhaokha osasunthika, osasunthika, osati mabala omwe angathe kutonthoza munthu aliyense mwamsanga ndi chithandizo cha bits. Amuna ayenera kuteteza ndi kuteteza mkazi wawo. Azimayi ndizilengedwa zonyenga, pambuyo pake. Ndicho chifukwa chake titha kuphatikiza msungwana wamng'ono ndi madam, tikufunikira kuyesa pang'ono.
Chinthu china choyenera kukumbukira ndi chakuti anyamata achibadwa ngati azimayi abwino. Ndipo ngati mungathe kuuza Monet kuchokera ku Manet, zidzakuthandizani. Nthawi zonse mumayenera kudziphunzitsa nokha ndikukula mwauzimu. Palibe mkazi wina yemwe adaletsedwa kuti adziwe zolemba, nyimbo, luso ndi zojambulajambula. Mnyamata woyenera nthawi zonse angayambe kukambirana za chinachake chonga ichi, ndipo adzadabwa ngati mutatha kumuthandiza mosavuta.
Mwinamwake mukuganiza kuti mulibe chibwenzi, chifukwa maonekedwe sali angwiro monga mukufunira. Uku ndi kulakwitsa kwakukulu kwa akazi. Mwamuna samukonda konse munthu amene amadzinyoza yekha. Amamva maofesi athu, monga agalu amaopa. Ndi chifukwa chake, mulimonsemo, simungakhoze kusonyeza kuti simukukondera nokha pamene ndinu mnyamata. M'malo mouza anthu onse kuti ndinu oopsya bwanji, ndi bwino kungodziyang'anira nokha. Kotero iwe ndi kudzidalira kudzawonjezeka ndipo zolephera zidzatha.
Mtsikana aliyense akhoza kukhala wokongola. Ngati simukukonda chiwerengerochi - yesetsani kuthamanga ndi kupita kuchipatala. Osakonza tsitsi - m'malo mwa shampoo, sungani maski, musinthe tsitsi, musinthe. Mukuganiza kuti munthuyo sanatuluke - yesani kupanga kupanga ndi kusankha imodzi yomwe idzagogomezera ulemu wanu ndi kubisala zofookazo.
Mukungofunikira kupeza zest yanu ndikuphunzira momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito. Inde, muyenera kugwiritsa ntchito nthawi ndi ndalama, koma ndizofunika. Ngakhale Katya Pushkareva anapanga dona wokongola kwambiri, koma ndiwe wabwino kuposa wolimba mtima uyu. Ndiye bwanji osayesa pang'ono, osakhala khwangwala yangwiro. Kumbukirani kuti tsogolo lanu nthawi zonse lili m'manja mwako, ndipo ndiwe lingathe kusintha kuti likhale labwino kapena loipa.
Kuti muwonjezere kudzidalira nokha, mungathe kuchita nawo maphunziro. Pali njira zambiri zosiyana. Kuphatikiza apo, maphunziro angabwere paokha. Muyenera kungodziuza zomwe mungathe komanso muyenera kukhulupirira. Kukongola kwa kunja - ichi sichinsinsi cha kupambana kwa amuna. Kuwonjezera pa izo, muyenera kukhala ndi chikhulupiriro mwa inu nokha ndikudzikonda nokha ngati dziko lanu. Ngati nthawi zonse mumadzipangitsa nokha kuti ndinu woyenera chikondi, tsiku lina mudzatha kukhulupilira, ndipo moyo umayamba kusintha. Chinthu chachikulu ndikuti musataye mtima ndipo musataye mtima. Kupambana sikubwera tsiku limodzi. Muyenera kudziyesa nokha, pamapeto, kuti mukwaniritse zotsatira zomwe mukufuna.
Mkazi aliyense akhoza kukonda mnyamata, koma sikuti aliyense amadziwa momwe angagwiritsire ntchito uzimayi wawo ndikudzipereka yekha. Ndi chifukwa cha izi kuti mavuto amabwera payekha.
Dzikondeni nokha, muzidziyamikira nokha, mudziwe momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito maukoma ndiyeno mu moyo wanu padzakhala nthawi imodzi ndi imodzi yokha yomwe mudzakhale osangalala mosangalala. Ndipo kungonena kuti sindingapeze wina yemwe adzandiyamikira, kugwa m'chikondi, kunyamulidwa mmanja mwanga ndi zina zotero - ili ndilo gawo la amayi ofooka ndi osatetezeka omwe akudikirira chisangalalo kuchokera kumwamba. Amene tsiku limodzi limangogwera pamutu pawo. Ndipo Kumwamba sikuli nthawi zonse kupereka mphatso. Nthawi zina chifukwa cha chimwemwe chanu muyenera kulimbana kwa nthawi yaitali.