Kodi mwamsanga mungaiwale wokondedwa wanu?

"Musati mugawane ndi okondedwa anu ...". Kuitana uku kwa wolemba ndakatulo ndi kofunika kwambiri, koma moyo umasintha ndi zomwe zikuwoneka ngati zosasinthika dzulo, monga dziko lomwelo, lero likhoza kuwonongedwa. Tsiku lafika pamene wina ayenera kugawana ndi mwamuna yemwe banja lake silinakhalepo posachedwapa!

Anthu osiyana ali ndi njira zosiyana mu njirayi. Winawake amadutsa mwakumverera ndipo amayenda molimba pofunafuna chimwemwe chatsopano, wina amasiya, koma amakhala bwenzi lokhulupirika la moyo. Nanga bwanji ngati palibe zinthu izi zomwe zingatheke? Mukufuna kupeza malingaliro a momwe mungaiwale mwamsanga wokondedwa wanu?

Inde, tikuyenera kuyang'ana mozama zinthu - timamvetsetsanso kuti kuiwala wokondedwa wanu kwathunthu, sikunaperekedwe kwa wina aliyense, koma kuti tithe kuchoka muukwati wachikondi ndikudzipatula ku maganizo okhumudwa kuti tikumbukire zakale monga momwe tingathere, ndithudi.

Njira yosavuta, mwinamwake, idzalowa ntchito ndi mutu. Inde, pali ubwino ku nthawi yosangulutsa. Mwachitsanzo, ngati mukuwonjezera ntchito, akuluakulu a boma, poyesa changu chanu, makamaka, adzawonjezera malipiro anu, kapena kuti adzakulepheretsani ntchito. Apanso, nthawi yokhala ndi maganizo oipa komanso samoyedstvuyuschee nawo sangakhalebe! Koma, mbali ina, thupi lanu, komanso misempha, osati chitsulo ndi mphamvu zake zimakhala ndi chizoloƔezi chotha, kotero muzisamalira ndi kulemekeza zina.

Zakhala zikudziwika kuti nthawi zovuta za moyo, komanso zosangalatsa, zimakhala bwino bwino palimodzi! Yesetsani kugwiritsa ntchito nthawi yochepa ngati n'kotheka nokha. Kambiranani ndi anzanu, pitirizani kucheza pamodzi ndi kukambirana momveka bwino. Ndikofunika kuti nthawi yomweyo yesetsani kuyesera konse kuti mudziwe chomwe chinachitika, makamaka ngati simungathe kuyankhula za izo. Ingomuchenjeza aliyense kuti simukufuna kuyankhulapo ndipo muziyamikira ngati nkhaniyi isapitirize kubwerezedwa. Mwa njira, njira yabwino yolankhulana ndi gulu pa intaneti! Pezani malo ogwirizana ndipo molimba mtima mulowe ku msonkhano. Khalani omasuka kunena nkhani yanu, mvetserani kwa ena ... Ndani amadziwa, mwinamwake mmodzi wa iwo amakumana nazo zomwe zimakupangitsani kukhulupirira kuti, zedi, chirichonse sichili choipa kwa inu.

Osati njira yolakwika, inunso, dzipange nokha maphunziro. Lowani maphunziro ena osangalatsa. Phunzirani kuyendetsa galimoto, lankhulani ChiChinese, machulukidwe okhwima ... Zosankhazi sizikuwerengera ndipo zonse zimaganizira za kukumbukira munthu yemwe wakukhumudwitsani!

Kupitiliza. Ganizirani za zolaula. Yambani kusonkhanitsa chinachake. Zoonadi, kusonkhanitsa zosawerengeka za diamondi zingakhale zabwino, koma tiyeni tizitha kuchita izi, izi zimakhala mu thumba la magulu, koma timapepala ta statuettes, magetsi pa firiji, komanso mabotolo a shampoo, ngati zikanakhala zomveka komanso zathandiza kuiwala omwe angaganizire konse sindikufuna. Ngati zokondweretsa izi zikuwoneka kuti ndizoletsedwa, ganizirani nokha, zenizeni, zomveka bwino kwa inu. Ganizirani mafano a zinyama mumitambo, kusonkhanitsa nyemba, pangani nokha, palibe amene amadziwa chinenero ndikuyankhula nokha. Apa, monga mu nkhondo, njira zonse ndi zabwino.

Anthu ambiri amalakwitsa kwambiri pofuna kuyesa wokondedwa wawo ndi zakumwa zoledzeretsa. Ndidzanena nthawi yomweyo - njirayi si yabwino, koma iyenera kuthetsedweratu! Chifukwa chauchidakwa, nthawi zambiri anthu amachita zopanda pake. Ndizopusa makamaka, atatha kumwa mowa, munthu amayamba kuitana munthu yemwe anali naye pachibwenzi ndikukhumudwa ndi lilime lake kuyesera kuti adziwe chifukwa chake anachita. Ndikhulupirire, palibe chokha koma chifundo chochokera kwa interlocutor sichikuwuka. Koma sitiyenera kudandaula, sichoncho? Ndiye mchira ndi basisitere ndipo pitirizani!

Khoti lachitsulo likuwombera. Mwambi wodziwika? Bwanji osapindula ndi kuyesa kukumana ndi chikondi chanu chatsopano, chosangalatsa? Yang'anani pozungulira inu. Mwinamwake, pafupi kwambiri ndi inu pali mwamuna yemwe akhala akuyesera kukuwonetsani inu kuti simukumuganizira? Choncho mpatseni mwayi!

Ndipo, potsiriza, otsiriza. Mukufuna mwamsanga kuiwala wokondedwa wanu? Ndiye dzikondeni nokha, potsiriza, ndi kusiya kuikonda! Pitani ku salon, musinthe fano kapena ngakhale bwalo lolankhulana, makamaka ngati likugwirizana ndi inu. Sangalalani ndi moyo. Ndipo mu moyo wanu kumeneko sipangakhale malo ovutika maganizo.