Ndikuganiza kuti msungwana aliyense kamodzi pa moyo wake ankafuna kukongola kwake kochititsa chidwi, ndi kumwetulira kofewa, kuti amusonyeze poyambirira ndi kumudziwa ... Koma bwanji izi sizikuchitika? Ndipo chifukwa chiyani, ali ndi manyazi kuchita naye? Ponena za momwe mungasiyire kukhala chete ndikudzidalira, mudzaphunzira kuchokera m'nkhani yathu.
Oimira ena a hafu yokongola yaumunthu amakhulupirira kuti izi ziyenera kuchitika "palokha", koma monga momwe moyo umasonyezera, chinthu choyamikira chanu sichidzabwera kwa inu (ngakhale kuti ndinu wokongola kwambiri), koma muwuzeni kuti muwerenge nyuzipepala kwa mtsikana yemwe alibe mawonekedwe a maso iwe, ndipo osati zovala zoyenera. Ndipo chifukwa chiyani? Chifukwa ngakhale inu mumamva kuti ndi kuchokera mkati mwa matsenga, chinsinsi chomwe ife tonse palimodzi tidzakonza.
Ukazi wakhala nthawizonse wopambana, ndipo ngati zikuwoneka kuti anyamata ndi atsikana amasiya kusonyeza zizindikiro za chidwi, ndiye kuti ndibwino kuonetsetsa makhalidwe omwe ali m'chilengedwe?
The Great Ranevskaya kamodzi anati:
"Iwe sungakhoze kuzoloŵera kuvala." Ndi nthawi yomwe iwe ukati - "ah, ndimakhala ndiketi zodzaza pakhomo" - umasiya kukhala mkazi ... "
Inde, mtsikana akamabvala nsalu, nsapato ndi chidendene, zimakhala zosiyana: zolaula, zofatsa, kukopa chidwi. Manja, mawonekedwe, kayendetsedwe ka zinthu, amasintha mwamsanga ... Nthawi yomweyo m'maso muli ntchentche, zomwe zimazindikiridwa ndi aliyense! Amakomera mtima kwake pagalasi, pamene ena amamuyamikira ndi maso. Ngati mwadzidzidzi msungwana akuzoloŵera kukongola, ndiye kuti "matsenga" adzasanduka moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku ndipo manja ofatsa adzatha, kuyang'ana kudzakhala kozizira, ndipo ntchentche idzatuluka pang'ono.
Kotero musaiwale kudzidandaulira nokha, kuyima pagalasi! Lekani kutsutsa fanizo lanu, ndipo samalirani zomwe muli ndi maso odabwitsa, milomo, mapewa, mapepala! Ndiwe nokha ndipo ndiwe wamtengo wapatali! Mwatsoka, sikuti asungwana onse samadzidzudzula okha. Ziwerengero zimasonyeza kuti amadzikonda okha ndikuganizira zokongola za mtsikana yemwe sali wodabwitsa kwambiri. Ndipo ngati ndinu wokongola, ndiye chifukwa chake zikuwonekera kuti chinachake chikusowa! Khalani otsimikiza!
Kukonda nokha kumathandiza mtsikana kupeza chiyanjano cha thupi ndi moyo. Mwinamwake simungamvetsetse chifukwa chake munachitira izi, kapena bwanji. Kunyada kwachiwiri pamaso, kutembenukira pang'ono kumbali kumbali, kuyang'ana pansi - miyoyo yotereyi, yosamvetsetseka m'malingaliro ndi kufotokozera ndi mtima wokha, kukupangitsani inu kusakumbukira, kokongola, chachikazi ... Chilengedwe chakupatsani inu khungu lokhazikika komanso lowonetsa nkhope , komanso mphamvu zamatsenga, kunyezimira, kamangidwe komwe mumayenera kudzipeza nokha tsiku lililonse, kuti musayambe kuwala, koma kuti mukhale ndi chimwemwe.
Mukamaphunzira kudziyesa nokha, ndiye kuti ena adzamva kuti mukukopa. Mukakhala osangalala, ena adza kukupatsani chidutswa cha moyo wanu! Dzikondeni nokha ndipo dziko lidzasintha mosiyana kwambiri, mitundu yowala ...
Ndipo kotero, muchoke panyumbamo, yendani mumsewu, ndi kukomana naye! Inde, inde, brunette yemweyo ndi mawonekedwe odabwitsa, kumwetulira kofewa ndi nyuzipepala ya "Messenger". Inu nokha simuli chabe mtsikana wokongoletsedwa wokhala ndi maonekedwe abwino, koma nthano yeniyeni ... Ndinu amene mumakhala ndi chimwemwe ndi maso mumaso mwake, kukhudzidwa ndi mantha komanso pang'ono ndiivety ... Kusuntha kwanu kuli kofewa komanso kosalala, koma mtima wanga ... Mtima wanga ukuwoneka kuti ukufuna kuchoka pachifuwa changa, chifukwa akukuyang'ana iwe, ndipo iwe ukuzindikira kuti mnyamata uyu akubwera kwa iwe, ndipo apa pali nthawi ina, ndipo akubwera kwa iwe: "mtsikana, ine ndikutsimikiza kuti takhala tikukumana ... Ndikudziwa ... kuti ndiwe tsogolo langa ... "Ndipo mudzadzifunsa nokha kuti" Inde, ndine zodabwitsa, ndi zonse chifukwa ndikudzidalira ndekha. "