Kawirikawiri ifeyo timalepheretsa kukhazikitsidwa kwa maloto athu, powona kuti n'zosatheka. Komatu zonse zimatheka! Zokhumba zawo ziyenera kulemekezedwa, ndipo kuti zithetsedwe ndikutheka komanso zofunikira kugwiritsa ntchito njira zosiyanasiyana ndi njira. Mwinamwake, ndiko kukhulupirira kozizwitsa zozizwitsa zomwe zidzawathandize kukwaniritsidwa ndi kukhala zenizeni.
SimoronChofunika kwambiri cha maphunzirowa, chomwe chinapangidwa mu 1998 ndi okwatirana ndi maganizo a Petra ndi Peter Burlans, ndi kuthandiza munthu kusintha khalidwe lake lachizoloŵezi ndikumupatsa mpata wokonzanso moyo wake. Maziko a njirayo ndi kuseka, kukankhira malire a zotheka ndikusandutsa anthu wamba kukhala matsenga. Koma nkofunika kuphunzira momwe mungapangire zolinga zabwino! Mwachitsanzo, ngati mukufuna kuti wokondedwa wanu akupatseni mwayi, musaganize za momwe zingakhalire zovuta kuti timupange chisankho pa gawo ili, tumizani bwino: lolani za tsogolo lanu palimodzi, mokweza ndi ukwati wokondwa komanso ulendo wopita kuzilumba zachilendo. Zinatuluka? Chabwino, ndiye nthawi yoyamba imodzi mwa miyambo.
Kulembera ku dziko
Mudzafunika envelopu, pepala lokongola ndi cholembera: tilemba kalata yeniyeni ku dziko lapansi! Lankhulani moni, ndikuuzeni mwatsatanetsatane ndi kulingalira za zikhumbo zanu zofunika kwambiri. Fotokozani aliyense wa iwo ngati kuti watha kale, ndipo afotokozere mwatsatanetsatane za mtundu wa malingaliro omwe mukukumana nawo nawo. Tsogolo la tsogolo, lankhulani za chirichonse pakali pano. Musaiwale kuthokoza dziko kuti zimakupatsani chisangalalo chachikulu, ndikumaliza uthenga wanu ndi mawu: "Ndipo zikhale choncho." Tsopano lembani minda yoyenera pa envelopu: malo anu owonjezera ndi "Wish Materialization Department", ndipo mu "Address Reverse" column ndi zokwanira kulemba dzina lanu. Envelopu imatsika m'mabuku apafupi kwambiri - ndipo dikirani yankho kuchokera ku chilengedwe.
Masewero a Magic
Tengani bokosi lofanana la masewera, liphimbe ndi pepala lofiira kwambiri ndipo lembani pepala lopangidwa bwino lomwe mbali zonse ziwiri: "Magic match". Tsopano muli ndi mitu yeniyeni yeniyeni: kuti muthamangitse kukwaniritsidwa kwa chilakolako, ndikwanira kuti mutenge machesi ndipo, pamene ikuyaka, kuti mudziwe nokha za maloto anu.
Zovala zamatsenga
Mwambo wodabwitsa uwu udzawathandiza iwo amene akulota zachuma kapena chikondi chatsopano. Choncho, malo apamwamba m'kati mwa nyumbayo ndi chinthu cha m'mimba mwake chofiira, posakhalitsa chilakolako chidzakwaniritsidwa. Amantha wofiira amayenera kutaya chandelier: kuima ndi msana wanu, nenani chikhumbo mu nthawi yamakono ("ndine wolemera") ndikuponyera bikini!
Kuwonetseratu
Kuwonetseratu m'maganizo ndi maganizo opangidwa ndi mafano kapena zochitika zomwe sizinachitike. Mwa kuyankhula kwina, munthu amalingalira njira inayake, chifukwa cha zomwe akufunazo zatsimikiziridwa. Ndibwino kuti malingaliro apangidwe, zidzakhalanso zophweka kuti adziwe njirayi ndikukwaniritsa zotsatira zomwe akufuna. Malamulo oti apange zofuna ndi chimodzimodzi: ganizirani pa nthawiyi, musalole zochitika zoipa. Zimakhulupirira kuti pa "malingaliro" oterewa malire a chidziwitso akufutukula ndipo munthu amakopera ndalama zambiri kwa iyemwini.
Kodi izi zimachitika bwanji?
- Sankhani zomwe mukufuna kwenikweni. Kukwaniritsidwa kwa chikhumbo chosankhidwa chiyenera kukhala kwa inu mtheradi!
- Zonse zomwe zingatheke, ganizirani zomwe mukufuna. Ngati mukulota za galimoto yatsopano, ganizirani pa chilichonse: ziwonetsero za mtundu wanji, mipando yamtundu wanji, bokosi la magalimoto, mtundu, malo osungirako magalimoto ndi zina zotero.
- Yambani kuyang'ana galimoto yanu yamtsogolo. Khalani osangalala, ganizirani za chinthu chokoma, ponyani pamutu mwanu zakukaikira kwanu, mantha ndi mavuto anu. Mukuyenera tsopano kukhala omasuka monga momwe mungathere. Onetsetsani chilakolakocho, osayiwala ngakhale mfundo zochepa kwambiri. Pano iwe upite kunja kwa nyumba, mutsegule chitseko ndi kulowa mugalimoto yomwe mumaikonda. Dziwani chimwemwe chokhala ndi zokwanira - ichi ndi chozizwitsa pa magudumu anu, ndipo izi ndi zanthawizonse!
- Chotsalira kuti musiye chilakolako cha dziko lapansi: lekani kulingalira za nthawi yomwe idzakwaniritsidwe ndipo, ngati n'kotheka, yesani kuiwala maloto anu palimodzi.
Njira iyi ndi yofanana ndi kuyang'ana, koma mfundo yake ikugwira ntchito mosavuta. Kulingalira mu psychology ndi chidule chachidule (mawu omveka), kubwereza komwe kumapangitsa m'maganizo athu kukhala ndi maganizo ena ndipo motero kumalimbikitsa kusintha kwabwino. Koma kuti malemba awa athandize kwenikweni malotowo kukwaniritsidwa, iwo ayenera kupangidwa mwanjira yapadera. Mawu anu amatsenga ayenera kutchulidwa pakali pano, sayenera kukhala ndi tanthauzo la "osati" ndi zina zopepuka, zenizeni momwe zingathere ndikubweretsanso chisangalalo pamene akunenedwa, mwachitsanzo: "Ndimasangalala ndi dongosolo langa!" Ndi bwino kupanga mawu anu omwe amasonyeza zokhumba zanu zokha . Ndibwino kuti uwayitane mokweza (mukunong'oneza), koma ngati izi sizingatheke, mukhoza kuzilemba, kunena, maulendo 50 mzere m'buku. Ndipo kumbukirani, kutsimikiziridwa kumodzi ndi chikhumbo chimodzi!
Nsalu Yotota
Njira inanso yokopa moyo ndi yofunikanso - kuvala zibangili ndi zithumwa zosasinthika - pendants ndi mikanda. Chilichonse chokongoletsera chikuimira maloto anu enieni ndipo, monga momwe akuganizira, chidzakuthandizira kuti chikwaniritsidwe. Mukuyembekeza kuti chaka chomwe chidzabwera mudzayenda mochuluka - funsani njuchi ngati ndege monga mphatso, mukufuna kuti mupereke thandizo ndi dzanja ndi mtima mwamsanga mwamsanga - sankhani mapepala achikondi, kugula nyumba - .
Zojambulajambula
Njira yakaleyi idagwiritsidwanso ntchito ndi agogo aakazi athu. Kuyambira nthawi yaitali nthano imakhala ngati zamatsenga, zomwe zingakhale zothandiza komanso zowopsa. Mwachitsanzo, chizindikiro chakale chimati ngati mutasuka zovala, mukhoza "kusoka" kukumbukira kwanu. Akatswiri a zojambula zamatsenga akulangizidwa kuti ayambe mwambo ndi mwezi ukukula ndipo, ngati n'kotheka, chitani nokha.
"Njira Yopempha"
Pukutani chingwe chachitali (chiyenera kukhala chokwanira pafupipafupi 40) ndipo, pochiyika mu singano, nenani chokhumba chanu mokweza. Pa tsiku loyamba muyenera kumangodula, kenaka singano imamangirira mu nsalu ndipo chojambulacho chimasinthidwa mpaka mawa. Pakadutsa masiku makumi anai, mumayenera kuchita chimodzimodzi tsiku lililonse. Pambuyo popanga ndondomeko yotsiriza, nenani chikhumbo chanu mofuula ndikumangiriza chingwe ndi mfundo yochepa. Tsopano dikirani, kwa masiku 40 otsatira chikhumbochi chiyenera kukwaniritsidwa.
Masanjano
Zimakhulupirira kuti mtundu wosankhidwa bwino wa zokongoletsera ndi mtundu wa ulusi udzakopa kwa inu maloto. Mwachitsanzo, zikopa zofiira ndi golidi, zikopa ndi ndalama zimabweretsa ndalama zokongola, zofiira ndi zofiira, maluwa ndi mitu iwiri (mwachitsanzo, makanda awiri, nkhunda kapena swan) - kufufuza bwino kwa theka lachiwiri, makanda ndi angelo - kubadwa kwa mwana , ndi zokongoletsera za nyumba ndi nyumba zamatabwa, motero, zingathandize kuthetsa vuto la nyumba.
Pa Chaka Chatsopano
- Lembani chokhumba pamapepala achikuda, pangani mtengo wa Khirisimasi kuchokera pa iwo ndikuupachika pamwamba pa mtengo. Pansi pa nkhondo ya chimes mutenge "mpira" wanu, bwerezani chikhumbo ndikusunthira ku mbali ina.
- Lembani chokhumba papepala kakang'ono, ikani zipika pa mbale ndikuyiyatsa. Pamene ikuyaka, ganizirani zazuntha ngati kuti zakhala zikuchitika kale. Kenaka mutsegule zenera ndikuyamba phulusa mumphepo. Phulusa likhoza kutsanuliridwanso mu kapu ya champagne ndikumwa pamene chimes akugunda.
- Lembani khadi lofunira zabwino - zonse zomwe mukufuna kuti muzipindule mu chaka chomwe chikubwerachi, pewani mu mpukutu, muchisindikize ndi phula kuchokera ku kandulo ndikuchiyika pamtengo wa Khirisimasi kwa masiku asanu ndi awiri. Mukamaliza zilakolako zanu, pendani maloto omwe akwaniritsidwa.
- Nthawi zonse muzivala ngongole yaikulu mu thumba lanu. Mawu akuti "Ndalama ya ndalama" amagwiradi ntchito.
- Gula kachikwama kofiira kapena golide. Malingana ndi nzeru za kummawa za feng shui, mitunduyi imayambitsa mphamvu ya ndalama ikuyenda ndi kukopa ndalama.
- Miyambo ya Simoron kukonda ndalama kunyumba. Musanayambe kusamba pansi, yambani zokongoletsera za golidi ndi siliva m'madzi awa. Kusintha madzi akuda kuyeretsa, nthawi iliyonse kuchepetsa zokongoletsa pamenepo - ndi zina zotero mpaka pansi mnyumba yonseyo ikhale yoyera.
Munthu aliyense ali ndi "malo olamulira" ake: kotero, ngati mukuganiza kuti umoyo umadalira inu nokha, ndipo mumakhala ndi chisangalalo chenichenicho, ndiye kuti zonse zimakhala bwino ndi "locus" wanu. Nanga bwanji za ena onse, pamene, mmalo mwa kuzindikira zilakolako, kodi dziko limayambitsa mavuto atsopano? N'zosadabwitsa kuti m'mikhalidwe yoteroyo timakhala ndi chiyembekezo cha chilengedwe chonse. Njira "zamatsenga" zoterezi zimapangitsa kukhala ndi chidziwitso chachidaliro cha chinthu chopanda mphamvu, chodalirika. Ngakhale tidziwa bwino kuti "lingaliro lopusa", zingakhale zosangalatsa kusewera - pukuta maso ndi kufunsa ndi mphamvu zanu pa chinthu china chofunika kwambiri! Pamene zinthu zoterezo zimachitika mosalekeza, zimakhala zothandiza: kaya zimathandiza kukwaniritsa zokhumba, sayansi siinakhazikitsidwe, koma palibe kukayikira kuti boma lachikhalidwe likuyimira. Nthawi zina, ngakhale anthu amphamvu ndi odalirika nthawi zambiri amauka "kulingalira zamatsenga", ndipo amapita ku chilengedwe ndi zofuna zosiyanasiyana. Ndipotu chikhulupiriro chimatha kuchita zozizwitsa, chifukwa chake zimachitika mmiyoyo yathu. Koma kudalira kwambiri miyambo ndi chizindikiro choopsa kwambiri, kumbuyo kwake ndi nkhawa yamkati komanso kukhala wopanda mphamvu.