M'mayiko amakono a ku Ulaya, kawirikawiri anthu amatha kuwona m'misewu ya mizinda, omwe alephera kuyang'ana momwe amavala. Zikuwoneka kuti kuwonjezera pa malaya, jeans ndi masewera - zovala zambiri siziripo. Koma izi sizikukhudza aliyense. Pali zitsanzo zomwe zimafuna kukhala zokongola nthaŵi zonse. Nchifukwa chiyani atsikana amafuna kukhala okongola? Nchiyani chimaponyera iwo pa izi? M'madera amakono pali mavuto ochuluka omwe nthawi zina mumaiwala dzina lanu. Koma, ngakhale kuti pali mavuto, pali akazi omwe amapeza nthawi, koma samayang'ana ngati munthu. Ndipo kuwakankhira iwo pa izo ndi zochepa kuposa amuna okhawo. Ndi kwa amuna, makamaka, atsikana nthawi zonse amafuna kukhala okongola.
Kuvala, zovala za otsiriza zojambula zojambulajambula, kupanga zojambulajambula zapamwamba, kumagwiritsa ntchito maola ambiri kuti wozungulira aziuluka, kuti akhale wokongola nthawi zonse. Atsikana okongola nthawi zonse amafunidwa pakati pa abambo. Ndikufuna kutsimikizira kuti, ndithudi, mwamuna adzasangalalira kulankhula ndi mkazi wokonzekedwa bwino, wovekedwa bwino, atavekedwa, zomwe zimatsindika osati kokha kuwonetsa kwake, koma ulemu wake, kusiyana ndi mayi wina mu njinga, jeans ndi maseche. Koma kodi tikuchita izi kwa amuna okha? Kuti izi ndi zoona ndipo ndikufuna kufunsa funso lopambana - limatanthauza kuti, timadziyang'anira tokha, timabvala bwino, timakhala maola ambiri ku salons komanso kumalo ena kumene kuli kotheka kubweretsa kukongola.
Ntchito yowonongeka, itatha kudya chakudya chokoma ku lesitilanti, kuthandiza kuti chiwerengerochi chikhale chachilendo. Kodi izi zonse ndi za amuna okhaokha? Mwinamwake, sizinali chirichonse ndipo osati nthawizonse kwa amuna. Choyamba, mtsikana aliyense amafuna kukhala wokongola nthawi zonse. Ndiyang'anitsitsa ndekha pagalasi, ndikufuna kuona maonekedwe okongola mmenemo, osati mahhhhsheshechku oyipa. Chachiwiri, khalidwe labwino likufuna izi, mwina izi ndizomwe zimakhazikitsidwa zakale za dziko la CIS ndi Russia. Ndipo, chachitatu, kukongola kwa kunja sikofunikira kwambiri, kwa ambiri, kukongola kwa mkati n'kofunika kwambiri. Miyendo yaitali, zovala zokongola, mapangidwe okongola, manicure abwino ndi pedicure, muyenera kuvomereza kuti zonsezi si zokongola ngati palibe kukongola kwa mkati. Ndipotu, kukongola kwenikweni nthawi zonse kumagwirizana ndi kukongola, komwe kumayambira ku nutria.
Tsoka ilo si anyamata okongola onse ndipo samamvetsa izi nthawi zonse. Poyesera kuti akhale okongola , ambiri amaiwala za kukongola kwa mkati ndikukhala zidole. Kuwonjezera apo, mawu omalizira ndi owawa, oona, moyo. Pambuyo powerenga magazini a mafashoni, kupanga mawonekedwe a mafashoni a maso, zokongola zambiri samakumbukira ngakhale zamkati mwawo. Nanga n'chifukwa chiyani atsikana amafuna kukhala okongola? Ndikufuna kukhulupirira kuti osati kukongola kwake kunja.
Ndipotu, masiku ano anthu akhala akukongoletsera maphunziro apamwamba, komanso kupeza ntchito yabwino. Ndipo kuti mutenge malo awa muyenera kukhala pamwamba. Pamwamba pa osati kunja, koma mkati. Mu dziko lathu, abambo ambiri abambo, atabwera kuntchito, choyamba inu mudzapunthwa pa kuyang'ana kwa abwana anu. Ndipo ngati wogwira ntchitoyo ndi mkazi, lingaliro limeneli lidzakhala lachiwiri molimba. Mwina, chifukwa mtsikanayu nthawi zonse amafuna kukhala wokongola. Kuyambira pachiyambi cha mtundu wamakono kwa msungwana wamakono: "Kukongola ndichinsinsi cha kupambana."