Chochitika chotero chingatchedwe choyenera, awiri awiriwa amakhala osachepera. Koma mabanja osapambana - ambiri. Chifukwa chiyani? Osati bwino. Koma zomwe zinganene motsimikizika, ndizokuti amuna amatha kudzidalira atatha kugawana ndi chibwenzi chawo chokondeka.
Mwamuna ndi wamwamuna, ayenera kupambana mkazi, chifukwa asungwana samadandaula kwambiri za izi, koma amuna ... Amakhala ndi zovuta zomwe zidzawathandize kuti asawadziwitse atsikanawo. Choipa kwambiri kwa amuna omwe akhala ndi mtsikana kwa nthawi yaitali muukwati, koma opanda ana, ndiyeno - chisudzulo. Amayamba kumvetsa kuti ali kale msinkhu, ndipo mwayiwo ukukhala wochepa komanso wochepa tsiku lililonse.
Pambuyo pa kusudzulana, mwamuna samayang'ana kufunafuna mwamuna, koma amaganizira za kale. Iye akudzifunsa yekha funso lakuti: "Bwanji kuchotsera malingaliro za mkazi wakale." Pa intaneti, mitu yambiri ndi dzina limene anthu amayesa kuthandiza bakhali, koma ambiri mwa anthuwa sanadzipeze kuti ali ndi vuto lomwelo. Ndipotu, kuiŵala choyambiriracho n'chosavuta, chifukwa malingaliro a mkazi wakale - izi sizongokhala phunziro kwa ubongo. Mwamuna alibe kanthu koti aganizire, kotero iye akuphimba mutu wake ndi momwe moyo wake sunakhalire, kuti chirichonse chiri choipa, mkaziyo amusiya iye. Koma moyo suima pamenepo. Tiyenera kupitiliza kukhala ndi kupitiliza kusangalala ndi moyo. Mwamuna amene ali panopa, aseka mawu awa, ndipo anene kuti izi sizingatheke. Koma sanayese ngakhale.
Amuna adagawidwa m'magulu angapo. Mofananamo, osati ngakhale. Maganizo awo amagawidwa m'magulu angapo. Alipo omwe amaganiza za zomwe zidzakwaniritsidwe kwa amayi awo akale ndipo samayesa kuchotsa malingaliro okhudza mkazi wakale, koma pali ena amene amaganiza okha.
Choyamba, owerenga ayenera kumvetsa maganizo ake omwe amalamulira. Poyamba zimakhala zovuta kuchita izi, koma nkofunika kuyesa, chifukwa ndizomwe mukuchita zomwe mukuchita.
Ngakhale ... Izo sizidalira kokha pa inu. Zambiri zimadalira mayi yemwe mukuyesera kuiwala. Kumbukirani momwe adakuuzani kuti akuponyera? Kodi iye anafotokoza chifukwa chake? Kodi iye anena chilichonse pa izi? Ngati ndi choncho, pewani ndime yotsatira, ndipo ngati si ... ndiye werengani mosamala.
Akazi - awa ndi zolengedwa zomwe zimafunikira kupeza chifukwa. Mwachitsanzo, taganizirani izi: Kodi mukufuna kugonana ndi mkazi wanu, kodi angayankhe chiyani? Iye sangakuuzeni: "Sindikufuna," kapena "Ndikudwala." Adzapeza chifukwa ichi, akhoza kukhala wopusa komanso wovuta, koma akadali chifukwa, mwachitsanzo, momwe yankho lake lidzamvekere: "Mutu wanga ukuwawa." Chabwino, apa. Tsopano tiyeni tiyambe pa izo. Ngati mkazi nthawi zonse amapeza yankho, ndipo samayankha mwachidule: "Ndimasokonezeka ndi iwe, choncho ndikuchoka," ndiye pali chifukwa china chowoneka. Mukuyenera kudziwa. Yesani kumuitana iye ndikumuitanira kukakumana naye pamalo amtendere. Kenaka amayamba kunena kuti sakufunanso maubwenzi ndi iwe, koma uyenera kumuuza, kukhala chete, kuti ufunenso kukambirana zomwe zinachitika. Mu 80%, amavomereza. Pamsonkhano, khalani chete komwe kumadzetsa chidaliro, kwa inu, komanso theka lanu lachiwiri. Atangobwera, mufunseni zomwe akufuna kulamula. Khalani okoma kwa iye, ngati kuti pa tsiku loyamba. Atangokuyankhira, musamufunse funso lomwe limakufunirani. Mufunseni za moyo wake wamakono, momwe wasinthira kuyambira pamene achoka. Ndipo pamene mumakonda kulankhulana wina ndi mnzake, pitani ku funso loyenera. Funsani chifukwa chake anachoka, chifukwa chake chinali chiyani. Koma musatenge mayankho monga: "Munasiya kundikonda." Ili ndi yankho labwino kwambiri. Atangomaliza yankho la funso lanu moyenera, mukhoza kupitiriza kukhala ndi madzulo abwino pamodzi naye, mutatha kufufuza mayankho ake onse. Muyenera kumvetsa zomwe zinali zolakwika, kuti sanakonde kwambiri mwa inu. Nchiyani chinali chifukwa chake.
Kotero, tiyeni tipitirize. Tsopano mukudziwa chifukwa chomveka chogawanitsa. Muyenera kuganizira zolakwika izi, zikonzeni nokha. Izi zikutanthauza kuti, kuti mukhale bwino, onetsani malingaliro anu okhudza mkazi wakale omwe tsopano muli bwino, ndipo ngakhale wanu wakale sali woyenera inu. Mvetserani, tsopano sakufuna kukhala ndi inu, ndipo inu muli naye. Tsopano ndi mlingo wotsika kuposa iwe. Ziribe kanthu momwe izo zikuwonekera zachilendo, koma ziri.
Tsopano ganizirani momwe moyo wanu ukukhalire tsopano, taganizirani kuti sangakhale ndi malingaliro ake, akukuganizira nokha, ndipo sangathe kudzithandiza yekha. Ndipo pano inu muli! Muli ndi theka labwino, tsopano ganizirani za tsogolo lanu. Konzani izi, mukhoza kuzilemba pamapepala. Tangoganizani mtsikana wokongola kwambiri pafupi naye, ayenera kukhala wokongola kusiyana ndi wanu wakale mpaka 2 ngati n'kotheka. Tangoganizirani nokha, tsopano ali wokonzeka kutero, kuti akhale ndi iwe.
Maganizo sangawonongeke mwamsanga. Zili ngati kukumbukira komwe kukuyenera kudzazidwa kuthetsa chidziwitso chosatha. Ndipo ndi chiyani chomwe chiyenera kuchitidwa kuti mudziwe zambiri? Ndiko kulondola ... muyenera kuyamba kuyambitsa ndondomeko yanu, mwinamwake sizingatheke, koma mukuyesera, muyenera kupeza theka la lingaliro lonse.
Mwa mawu, zonse ziri bwino, koma pochita ..., si onse amakumana ndi mtsikana ndikupeza chifukwa. Mungayesere kulankhulana naye pa mutuwu pa foni, koma pali mwayi waukulu kuti angowonongeka foni, zomwe zingakulowetseni kuipa kwambiri.
Apa ndibwino kuti musayese zoopsa ndikupita njira ina. Kambiranani ndi atsikana, pitani tsiku. Muyeneradi kupeza izo. Lembani zonsezi mmenemo, zogwirizana ndi atsikanawo, mwinamwake kutuluka kudzadutsa mkati ndipo mudzapambana. Ndiyeno muyenera kufunsa kuti: "Nchifukwa chiyani pali atsikana ochuluka kwambiri? ". Ndi zophweka, mumasonyezanso kuti ndinu woyenera kwambiri, pali atsikana ambirimbiri, ndipo ambiri a iwo akhoza kukhala oipa kapena abwino. Mukusamala kwambiri ndikusankha zabwino, mudzasangalala kumvetsera nkhani zawo. Zonsezi zidzachotsa chidziwitso choyambirira, chomwe chidzakhala nthawi yabwino.