Ndiye, mumayamba pati? Choyamba, nkofunikira kumvetsetsa kuti ndife okha omwe ali ndi udindo pa mantha athu, zochitika, maganizo ndi maganizo. Munthu aliyense amatha kupanga kusankha - kaya amukwiyire kapena ayi, kulira kapena kuseka, kuwombera kapena kutamanda. Pambuyo pake, zochitika zathu zonse zimayambidwa osati ndi zochitika zokha, koma ndi maganizo athu kwa iwo. Mphindi iliyonse kuzungulira ife chinachake chikuchitika koma chifuniro chathu. Ndipo mwa mphamvu zathu zodziwira zochitika izi monga momwe tingafunire. Kusagwirizana ndi bwana kapena wogwira ntchito, mvula pamsewu, kuwonjezeka kwa malipiro - malingaliro pa zochitika izi (osayankha kapena kuchita mwa njira ina) timasankha tokha. Popeza mutapereka ndalama zochepa kuti musamangodzimvera, mumapeza zotsatira zodabwitsa! Mudzakhalanso odekha, okhudzidwa kwambiri ndi zokondweretsa kuyamba ungwiro wanu - kuwongolera luso lolankhulana ndipo mukhoza kupeza ulemu.
Kulankhulana sizomwe timanena m'mawu, komanso kumawoneka, manja, ndi kumakhudza. Mwa kuyankhula kwina, chilankhulo cha thupi. Yesetsani kuonetsetsa kuti mawu omveka ngati "Good Day", "Moni", "Moni" amveka mokoma mtima, otchulidwa ndi kumwemwetulira, pamodzi ndi kuyang'ana mofatsa, mwinamwake ndi kugwedeza kwa manja. Ndiye iwo omwe mawu awa akuwalankhulidwawo sadzalandira iwo okha, komanso mauthenga anu osalankhula.
Ngati mukufuna kukondweretsa bzinthu ndi munthu wodalirika, muyenera kuyang'ana olemekezeka, osonkhanitsidwa, olimba . Zonse mwa manja anu ziyenera kukhala zosalala, koma zamphamvu, komanso zofunika kwambiri - ziyenera kusonyeza bwino zomwe mukufunikira panthawiyi. Mvetserani momwe mawu anu akumveka? Ayenera kukhala wodekha, wodalirika, wokondweretsa. Osati tanthauzo lomaliza ndilo siginecha yanu. Chizindikiro choyera chimakopa chidwi ndipo mosakayikira chimapangitsa ulemu. Zonsezi zikutanthauza mawonetseredwe akunja anu. Koma bwanji ngati wina ali pamaso panu amene sakugwirizana kwenikweni ndi kufotokoza kwa munthu wamalonda?
Akatswiri ambiri amalingaliro aluso amalangiza polankhulana ndi anthu oterowo kuti aganizire mozama m'maganizo mwawo. Mwachitsanzo, ngati bwana wanu akukwiyitsa, akukwiya ndi kukwiya, muwone bwino ndikumuchitira chifundo. Ndipotu, sangakhale wosasangalala kwenikweni, koma ayenera kuthetsa mafunso osiyanasiyana ovuta. Mwina, kupatula pa izi, adakali ndi mavuto ena. Tangoganizirani pa tchuthi, panyanja, kupumula mwakachetechete ndi mwamtendere. Ndiye kuti mawu anu osalankhula adzasinthidwa pang'onopang'ono, kuchepetsa mikanganoyo kukhala yopanda pake. Kugwiritsa ntchito njira zosavuta kumva, mudzazindikira kuti nthawi zambiri anthu amakuuzani za momwe iwo aliri omasuka pamaso panu.
Pali malingaliro angapo omwe simungakwanitse kupita pamakwerero a ntchito, komanso kuti mukambirane payekha.
Pakulankhulana, yesetsani kukangana mopanda pake ndipo musakhale ndi gulu. Anthu onse amakonda kuchita zolakwitsa, kuphatikizapo inu. Kodi mumadzikhululukira nokha zolakwa zanu? Ndiye bwanji osawafunsa ena? Ndi zophweka. Momwemonso, mudzapeza zambiri!
Osakhumudwitsidwa ndi ndemanga ndi zofufuza za ena , aziwone ngati kusintha kwa nyengo. Simukukhumudwa ndi dzuwa kapena mvula? Chitani zomwezo mu chiyanjano - ganizirani, koma musadalire nazo. Tsegulani "ambulera" yanu ndipo molimba mtima mupite patsogolo bizinesi yanu mu "nyengo iliyonse".
Aloleni ena akhale osiyana. Palibe chifukwa chowombera brunette kapena blonde chifukwa cha tsitsi lake. Mofananamo, sikungakhale kwanzeru kutsutsa munthu chifukwa chokhala ndi maganizo osiyana ndi moyo. Landirani anthu momwe alili. Sinthani maganizo anu olakwika, ngati muli nawo, chifukwa cha chidwi. Zonse zachilendo nthawi zonse zimakondweretsa! Pezani chidwi ndi munthu uyu, mwinamwake, mutaphunzira za icho chatsopano, mukumvetsa kuti munthu uyu si woipa monga momwe mudaganizira pachiyambi.
Khalani ndi udindo komanso mosamala ntchito yanu , zilizonse. Pambuyo pake, munasankha. Lolani utsogoleri ndi anzako asakhale ndi kukayikira pang'ono pokhumba kwanu. Osadandaula za izi, monga kupempha mnzanuyo malangizo kapena thandizo. Ndi bwino kufunsa ndi kuchita osati kuti afunse ndikusiya ntchito yosakwaniritsidwe kapena osakwaniritsa nthawi yomaliza.
Ngati muli omasuka panthawiyi - thandizani anzanu . Musakayikire, iwo adzalandira zofuna zanu. Koma musalole kuti mutengeke, mwinamwake, pafupi ndi inu ndi iwo amene akufuna "kukwera pa akaunti ya wina."
Onetsetsani miyambo yogwirizana ndi makampani , ngati akuvomerezedwa mu bungwe lanu. Pambuyo pake, simuyenera kusokoneza maganizo anu komanso ntchito yanu yamtsogolo chifukwa cha mawonekedwe a nsapato kapena zina. Pansi panu pali malo osiyanasiyana omwe mungathe kuwoneka momwe mukufunira.
Ndipo, mwinamwake, imodzi mwa zosavuta komanso panthawi imodzimodzizo zowonongeka kwambiri - khalani oona mtima . Pambuyo panu ndi pamaso pa iwo omwe moyo wawo ukusinthika amavala pamsewu pafupi ndi inu.
Ndikoyenera kukumbukira kuti mbiri yanu ndi imodzi mwa zinthu zodula komanso zopindulitsa kwambiri. Kuti mupindule, muyenera kugwiritsa ntchito tsiku limodzi. Koma, atalandira kale, zidzakuthandizani kukhala ndi mwayi wazaka zambiri. Dzikondeni nokha, kuyamikira khama lanu ndi kusamalira mbiri yanu, chifukwa tsopano mukudziwa momwe mungapezere chinthu chofunika kwambiri mu timu - ulemu.