Mkazi wa nthawi yathu yakula akukhala wamphamvu ndi wamphamvu kwambiri. Munthu mosakayikira, koma ayambe kuwamvera. Ndipo, kodi iwo angachite chiyani, motsutsana ndi mabwana ndi akazi opondereza omwe amawalamulira iwo.
Ulamuliro wa amayi ndi maphunziro omvera mwamuna. Ngati ndinu mkazi wamphamvu kwambiri, ndiye kuti mukufuna kupeza munthu wofooka kuposa inu. Ndi kwa iye kuti mutha kukweza zomwe mukufuna. Inu mukhoza kupanga chirichonse kuchokera kwa iye, mwina kapolo. Chinthu chachikulu ndicho kuchita zonse molondola, maphunziro a phunziroli amafunika kusintha pang'ono ndi nthawi.
Poyamba, amuna oterowo amapembedza mkazi, amavala izo mmanja mwake ndi mophiphiritsira. Afuna kumupatsa mkazi zonse zomwe ali nazo ndi zina zambiri. Mzimayiyo amasangalala nazo ndipo amamuponyera pang'onopang'ono mkazi wake "pansi pa zidendene." Amuna ofooka samatsutsa makamaka, amasangalala kumvera. Kawirikawiri amunawa anali ndi amayi okhwima omwe nthawi zonse ankamuonetsa kuti ndi wamkulu kuposa amuna.
Kuti munthu wanu azigonjera ndikulephera kukuuzani za mawu, muyenera kuyamba kudziyika nokha. Kotero iye anadziwa mwamsanga malo ake enieni. Ngati mutangoyamba kukhala osasamala komanso abwino, kenaka muyambe kusonyeza zida zanu, ndiye munthu akhoza kuchita mantha ndikuthawa.
Munthu wofooka nthawi zonse adzakufunsani malangizo, adzawoneka mozama m'kamwa mwako ndikuyembekezera yankho lake lomwe liri lofunika kwa iye. Ngati inu mukukana izo, izo zikhoza kungokhala openga. Mumamuika ndi mayi ake wokondedwa, omwe amawopa kwambiri, koma panthawi imodzimodziyo amalemekeza ndi kuyamikira.
Kuphunzitsa kugonjera kwa munthu wofooka ndi kosavuta, adakupezerani kale modzichepetsa, okonzeka kukwaniritsa zomwe mumachita. Kumbukirani malamulo angapo oleredwa ndi kukulitsa.
Muyenera kumudziwitsa kuyambira pachiyambi kuti ndinu mutu wa banja;
Mawu anu ali oyamba, ndipo ake-apamwamba ndipo sangaganizidwe nthawizonse;
Ndiwe woyenera kukhala ndi ufulu pa chilichonse, ndipo ali ndi chilolezo chanu chololedwa;
Chikhumbo cha mkaziyo ndi lamulo losatheka kutsutsidwa;
Mkazi ndiye munthu wapamwamba kwambiri, iye akhoza kukhala wochepa kuposa Mulungu, koma osati wotsika kwa mwamuna;
Mukusankha zomwe mungachite ndi zomwe mukuchita, pangani chisankho, ndipo amamvera malamulo awa okha.
Kuchokera pa malamulo osavuta ndi osavuta, moyo wa Mbuye ndi Mtumiki wapangidwa. Koma kokha ngati mukufunadi kugula "nyumba zogulitsa nyumba", zomwe ziribe ufulu ngakhale kutsegula pakamwa panu kulungamitsidwa kwanu. Kotero kuti sakunena kuti adzalangidwa ndi wolakwa, ndipo akhoza kulangidwa.
Chilango chimasiyana, malingana ndi zomwe mumakonda. Zingakhale zilango zomveka ndi chilango cha thupi. Zilango izi zimakhala ndi chiyanjano cha kugonana pakati pa inu. Kotero kuti ndinene chithunzithunzi pamaso pa usiku wolakalaka. Kawirikawiri amuna oterowo amakhala ngati amamvera mkazi. Ngakhalenso kugonana, mkazi akhoza kugwira ntchito yaikulu, ndipo amamupangitsa kuchita chilichonse chomwe akufuna. Kuyambira kumpsyopsyona miyendo yake, kumaseĊµera olimbitsa thupi.
Mulimonsemo, kuti okwatirana asadzakulire m'banja lawo, chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti sayenera kukakamizidwa. Palibe chifukwa chochitira nkhanza munthu payekha, kumvetsetsa kwachilendo n'kofunika pa chirichonse.
Musanayambe "kusewera" m'banja la Mkazi ndi Kapolo, konzekerani ndi mkaziyo pa "gombe" momwe angayankhire. Ndipo, ngati ali wokonzeka kutero, ndiye kuti muyambe kuphunzitsa kumvera kwake. Ndipo muzimulamulira monga momwe mtima wanu umafunira. Iwe ukufuna kudzigonjera wekha kwa munthu, fufuzani woyenera woyenera. Wamphamvu kwambiri ndi wamphamvu, ndiyeno udindo wanu m'banja udzasintha, mudzakhala kapolo wa Mbuye wanu.