Chimene sichiyenera kuchita.
1) Tembenuka ndikugona.
Zikuwoneka kuti mutu uwu sudzatha konse. Mmodzi amangotchula kuti mabwenzi anu omwe ali okhulupirika amakhala ndi chizoloŵezi chokopa mphindi zingapo pambuyo poyerekeza, chifukwa nkhanizi zidzayamba kutsanulira, ngati kuchokera ku cornucopia. Kwa wokondedwa wanu sanaganize kuti kugonana kwa inu - kungokhala m'malo mwa mapulogalamu ogona, simuyenera kugona, mutangotuluka mukutentha kwakukulu. Perekani maminiti pang'ono kwa mnzanuyo, amve kuti muli ndi chinachake kupatula kugonana. Mwachitsanzo, chikondi.
2) Kuthamanga mu osamba.
Ayi, ukhondo uyenera. Musangomaliza mzere womwewo pamene mukung'amba wina ndi mnzake. Izi zikhoza kukakamiza mnzanu kuti lingaliro lakuti kugonana ndi iye sikukukongoletsani zokha, komanso kukondweretsa. Tengani nthawi kuti mupsompsone wokondedwa wanu kapena wokondedwa wanu, kenako pitani ku bafa.
3) Lembani mwatsatanetsatane nkhaniyi.
Kumbukirani kuti mudangolong'onezana komanso kuyesa kusunga maganizo amenewa kwa kanthawi. Ngati mwamsanga mutatha kugonana mumalimbitsa nyimbo yayitali pa ndale kapena mupitirize kukambirana pa chakudya chamadzulo, mwachitsanzo, pokonzekera, mnzanuyo sakayikira ngati mwawona zomwe zinali pakati panu miniti yapitayo ndipo ngati munapanga kugonana kwachisokonezo chofunika kwambiri .
4) Zimapezeka kuti kugonana sikunali kovuta kwambiri. Mwinamwake sindimakonda kujambula kwatsopano, mwinamwake panalibe chiwonongeko, kapena mwinamwake sichinawonongeke. Ngati simunayambe kukonzekera ndikulephera kukonza chinachake, simukuyenera kunama wina ndi mzake mutayesa kuti chirichonse chinali chabwino. Ngati muli okhudzana ndi chinthu china osati kugonana, ndiye kuti kulephera sikungasokoneze ubalewu, ndipo mudzapeza mosavuta zomwe mungachite komanso momwe mungatonthozane.
5) Musayese kuyambitsa bizinesi yayikulu nthawi yomweyo mutagonana ndi mchitidwe wamantha. Kaya ndikuyeretsa, kupita ku notary kapena ntchito, kuyika zinthu kwa ola limodzi, ziribe kanthu momwe iwo alili ofulumira. Ngati mutangokhalira kuganizira mofulumira, kukondana kwa ubale kumatha msanga, ndipo zinthu zidzatengedwa ndi mutu. Ndipo sindikufuna kudumphira mbatata kapena kutsuka mbale. Ndizosangalatsa kwambiri kumakhala ndi mphindi zochepa mmanja.
Chochita ndi wina ndi mzake?
1) Bwerezani.
Ndipo bwanji? Ngakhale ngati gawo lachiwiri silinaphatikizidwe mu ndondomeko yanu, ngati zikuwoneka kuti palibe mphamvu ndi zokhumba zokhutira kwathunthu, chilakolako chikhoza kuyamba ndi mphamvu yatsopano. Musati mudzikane nokha izi, ndi nthawi izi zomwe zimakumbukiridwa kwa nthawi yaitali.
2) Ngati mukuganiza kuti chinthu choyamba choyenera kuchita pambuyo pa kugonana ndi kupita ku bafa, chitani pamodzi. Ulendo wodziphatika kusamba ukhoza kukhala wosangalatsa kusiyana ndi zomwe zakhala zikuchitika pakati panu. Kuonjezera apo, ali mu moyo nthawi zambiri kumakhala mobwerezabwereza mwachisoni.
3) Chinthu choyamba chimene maanja ambiri amachita pambuyo pa kugonana ndi kusuta. Musanene kuti izi ndi zothandiza kwambiri, koma ndizodziwika. Ngati mumakhala ndi moyo wathanzi, nkosavuta kuti mutenge ndudu ndi zakumwa.
4) Mukhoza kubwezeretsa mphamvu yanu mwa kugona m'mimba. Kupsompsona pang'ono, mau ochepa osangalatsa - ndicho chomwe chimapangitsa loto lokhalira losangalatsa ndikupulumutsani kuzinyozetsa ndi kutsutsa.
5) Mungasankhe kanema ndikuyang'ana popanda kugona. Mafilimu abwino nthawi zonse ndi ofunika kusankha filimu yomwe imakonda. Ndiye mutha kukhala ndi chinachake chokambirana ndi omwe mungagawane nawo malingaliro anu.
6) Ngati mulibe chikondi ndipo simukuona kuti ndinu anthu akuluakulu, ndiye kuti mungasankhe chinthu chachilendo. Mabanja ena, akungopuma mpweya, akukonzekera nkhondo ndi pillow, akuwonetsa kuchokera kuchapa, kusekemera, mafilimu osangalatsa - koma ndi ochepa bwanji, momwe mungasangalatsane! Chinthu chachikulu ndicho kuti mukhale bwino pamodzi.
Monga mukuonera, pali mitundu yambiri ya "masewero a kama". Ngati mumakayikira kuti mumakonda mnzanu, musazengereze kufunsa funso. Chinthu chachikulu sikuti muchite chilichonse chimene simungachifune. Ngati mukuganiza kuti kuti muwone kuti munthu yemwe alibe mnzanuyo akunyalanyaza, musadzitembenuze nokha. Ngati simukufuna kumva nkhani zovuta zandale mmalo mwa kuvomereza chikondi, musayambe. Ingochita zomwe mukuganiza kuti ndi zabwino ndipo musaiwale zakumverera kwa wokondedwa wanu, ndiye theka lanu silinganene kuti mutatha kugonana mumachita mwankhanza kapena mopanda chifundo.