Ndi njira ziti zomwe mungadziwe kuti mkazi ali pabedi bwanji? Khalani ndikuwonetsa kuti mbuye wanzeru ayenera kukhala wokonda, atcheru, atcheru. Amtengo wapatali komanso amatha kuganiza zokhumba zogonana ndi wokondedwa, komanso kumusangalatsa m'njira zosayembekezereka. Ndipo kodi mukufuna kukonza maluso anu kuti muwonetse zodabwitsa kwa wokondedwa wanu nthawi zonse? Ndiye werengani pa!
Kupaka minofu
Kawirikawiri amayi amaiwala kuti amuna amafunikanso kuti asadzaloledwe kugonana. Ndipo imodzi mwa njira zabwino kwambiri zowonjezeretsa chilakolako chidzakhala masewera ovuta. Kukaikira? Ndipo mumayesetsa kuzindikira zinthu zofunikira pazithunzizi ndikuwona momwe maso a wokondedwayo adzaonekera.
Tiyenera kumvetsetsa kuti misala yosasangalatsa sikuti imakhudza thupi, zomwe zingathe kukulitsa kugwirizana pakati pa abwenzi, ndipo ngakhale mutapanga minofu kwa nthawi yoyamba, musachite mantha, chifukwa chinthu chachikulu apa si njira, koma kuya kwakukulu komwe kungaperekedwe ndi sitiroko. Mwachidziwikire, ngati mkazi sakhala ndi maganizo omwe ali wokonzeka kugawana ndi mwamuna, palibe chabwino chomwe chidzabwere.
Kupaka minofu kwachidziwitso - ichi ndi chiyanjano chokha chimene sichitha kudzudzula kokha, koma komanso kukankhira malire aumunthu, kupanga opanga nawo chidwi kwambiri. Mkaziyo, nayenso, adzatha kusonyeza momwe alili pulasitiki, momwe amamvera thupi lake ndipo amatha kulandira ndi kupereka zosangalatsa ndi zosavuta.
Ndikofunika kuti mkazi athe kusamalira mphamvu zake, kumutsogolere ku njira yolondola ndikupanga kusinthanitsa ndi mwamuna. Pamene mukukaka minofu, musamalankhule - lolani zokambirana zanu zikhale motsogoleredwa ndi manja anu. Yesetsani kumva momwe mumakhudzira munthu wanu, phunzirani kufotokoza malingaliro ndi malingaliro anu ndi mtima wanu ndipo mwamsanga mudzamvetsetsa kuti mudatha kuukanso mgwirizano wanu.
Zosayembekezereka ndizo zathu zonse
Zoonadi, kuchita zolaula koteroko kumatichitikira tsiku ndi tsiku, zomwe timagwiritsa ntchito ndikuziwona ngati chakudya cha tsiku ndi tsiku. Ndipo, nthawizina, ndimafuna tchuthi! Musati mudzikane nokha mtundu wa zosangalatsa, makamaka ngati munthuyo ali pafupi, ndi nthawi yokwanira. Onetsetsani kuti wokondedwayo adzakondwera ndi kukopa ndi kukondana.
Mwachidziwikire, mkaziyo amafunika nthawi yochulukirapo kuti apitirize kuchita zinthu zowonongeka, koma kuti mutenge mwamsanga, yang'anani pa munthu wanu: kuwonetsa maso ndi chikhumbo chosasangalatsa sizinthu zabwino zokhazokha?
Podziwa kukonda mwachikondi, mudzalandira chikwapu chomwe kugonana kosakonzedweratu, makamaka ngati chikuchitika m'malo osayenera, ndi njira yabwino yokhutiritsa chilakolako ndikumverera kuti chilakolako choterechi ndi chenichenicho.
Ndinadabwa ndi wokondedwa wanu
Amuna ndi osachepera azimayi, amakonda zodabwitsa. Ndikofunika kuti muone kuti zochita zanu ziyenera kukhala ndi mabwenzi okondweretsa ndipo musawopsyeze mnzanuyo. Poyamba, mungasinthe machitidwe anu achizolowezi. Mwachitsanzo, ngati poyamba mutagona pabedi ndi mwamuna, ndiye tsiku lina mumupatse njira ina ndikukhala okhudzidwa kwambiri. Kodi mumagonana mu malo okondedwa awiri? Proshtudirovanie Kasmasutra ndi kusankha malo angapo atsopano. Chodabwitsa chodabwitsa ndi chomwe mungavomereze kugonana ndi abambo, zomwe amayi ambiri ali nazo pazifukwa zina. Koma ngati mukukonzekera bwino, mphatso yotereyi idzakumbukiridwa kwa nthawi yaitali ndi inu nonse. Ndakuuzani kale momwe mungakonzekerere kugonana koyamba koyamba.
Zosayembekezereka ndizo zomwe anthu amayamikira, koma malonda anu ayenera kubweretsa chisangalalo kwa inu nonse. Apo ayi, lingaliro losangalatsa lingasanduke kusamvetsetsana kwathunthu.