Zizindikiro 12 zokhudzana ndi kugonana

Ambiri a ife tamva za kuledzera monga mankhwala osokoneza bongo komanso mowa. Komabe, m'zaka zaposachedwapa, chiŵerengero chowonjezeka cha anthu akuvutika ndi chiwerewere. Akatswiri amanena kuti monga chakudya, mowa, mankhwala osokoneza bongo, kugula kapena kutchova juga, chinthu chodalira chingathe kugonana. Kudzidalira pa kugonana, kapena kuledzeretsa, kumatsogolera munthu mpaka amalephera kulamulira maganizo ake, zochita zake ndi malingaliro ake.

Zizindikiro za kudalira kugonana

Madokotala amakhulupirira, ngati kugonana kumayamba kukhala moyo wambiri wa munthu, iye akudwala ndi chizolowezi chogonana. Malingaliro ake onse, maloto, zilakolako, mabuku, mafilimu, zokambirana osati zokhudzana ndi kugonana basi. Kwa anthu omwe amadalira kugonana, kuphatikizapo anthu otchova njuga kapena otchova njuga, khalidwe laumunthu lodziletsa komanso njira yomweyo yoganizira ndizobadwa. Chidwi cha anthu oyandikana nawo, osakhala ngakhale antchito ndi okondedwa awo, mwa anthu omwe ali ndi chizolowezi chogonana amadziwonetsera okha ngati akuwonekera ngati chinthu chogonana kapena mosiyana.

Zizolowezi za kugonana, komanso zizoloŵezi zina, zikuphatikizapo kuwonjezeka kwa mahomoni achimwemwe ndi chimwemwe, zimapangitsa anthu oterewa kuti aziwachitira anthu mofulumira, oopsya komanso osocheretsedwa (ndikoyenera kutchula kuti si munthu aliyense wodalira kugonana ali m'gulu la chiwerewere ma maniacs kapena opotoza). Kawirikawiri, kusayenerera kwa malingaliro awo achiwawa okhudzana ndi kugonana nthawi zambiri kumayambitsa chisokonezo, kupsinjika maganizo, kusintha kwadzidzidzi m'maganizo, zomwe zimabweretsa "kuphwanya" kwakukulu.

Achipatala anawona zochitika 12 zapadera kwa anthu omwe akuvutika ndi chiwerewere:

1. Kawirikawiri maliseche (mwa njira, katswiri wa zamagetsi a ku Kiev, dzina lake Alexander Chumak, amakhulupirira kuti kugonana sikunalowe m'malo, koma ndi changu chachikulu, ndi chovulaza);

2. Ubale wogonana kunja kwaukwati ndi kugonana kosawerengeka;

3. Kusakhutira posankha anthu ogonana, nthawi zambiri "usiku umodzi";

4. Kuwona mobwerezabwereza ndi kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula;

5. Kugonana popanda kugwiritsira ntchito makondomu ndi njira zina zothandizira kubereka, komanso kugonana ndi anzanu atsopano;

6. Kugonana kwa foni ndi kugwiritsa ntchito maulendo ambiri pazokhudzana ndi kugonana pa malo ochezera a pa Intaneti ndi pa intaneti;

7. Chithandizo chopitilira mu maulendo operekera;

8. Chiwonetsero;

9. Kafukufuku wokhazikika kwa abwenzi atsopano kupyolera muzithandizo zosiyanasiyana za chibwenzi;

10. Voyeurism (kufufuza pa kugonana kwa anthu ena);

11. Kuzunzidwa kuti akwaniritse malingaliro awo ogonana;

12. Kulakalaka kunyozedwa chifukwa cha kugonana ndi chiwawa.

Mpata woti munthu akudwala ndi chizolowezi chogonana ndipamwamba ngati khalidwe lake likugwirizana ndi zizindikiro zinayi zomwe tatchulazi.

Chithandizo cha kudalira kugonana

Ambiri mwa anthu omwe amavutika ndi chiwerewere amakhala otsimikiza kuti zonse zili bwino. Kulimbikitsana kwa munthu kuti vuto liripo ndilo lofunikira kwambiri komanso loyambanso kuchipatala. Mwatsoka, nthawi zambiri palibe chomwe chimapangitsa munthu kukhalapo kwa matendawa, monga mantha - kuchotsedwa ntchito, kutha kwa banja kapena mavuto akuluakulu azaumoyo.

Pakalipano, kuchotsa kugonana, pali njira zosiyanasiyana komanso mapulojekiti a maganizo. Zotsatira zabwino zitha kupezeka mothandizidwa ndi gulu la mankhwala, ndizodabwitsa pamene pali mwayi wothandizira pamodzi ndi anthu pafupi ndi wodwalayo.

Panthawi yovuta kwambiri, limodzi ndi khalidwe lodziletsa, dokotala akhoza kulangiza mankhwala omwe ali ndi mphamvu zowonongeka. Komabe, ndikofunikira kuona kusiyana kwa mankhwala ozunguza bongo, ludomania, mowa ndi kusewera kwa masewera, chifukwa pofuna kuchiza chizolowezi chogonana, madokotala samaumirira "pachiyambi" ndi kugonana, ndipo iyi ndi nthawi yabwino kwambiri!