Kusokonezeka maganizo
Ngati munthu akukudwalitsani ndi malingaliro anu, ndiye kuti musayambe kutero. Mnyamata akamanena kuti sakuleka kukukondani kapena kunena kuti simukumukonda, chifukwa simukumukwaniritsa, pali mfundo imodzi yokha - simumasowa. Ubale wotere sunakhalepo ndipo sudzakhala wabwino. Chifukwa chake, sikoyenera kutero ndikupanga chinthu chomwe sichiri kwenikweni. Anthu oipa ndi okhwima okha amangopitirira. Apo ayi, anthu nthawi zonse amapatsa okondedwa wawo ufulu wotsata. Mukawona kuti mnyamata akuyesera kukutsogolerani ndi chisokonezo, ndiye mumamufunira zifukwa zina zozunza, osati chifukwa amakukondani. Mwinamwake mnyamatayo anabwera ndi fano ndipo akuyesa kukulowetsani inu. Pachifukwa ichi, amakonda mtsikana wake wamaloto, koma simusamala zakumverera kwanu. Chinthu choyenera kwambiri ndikuti musangogonjera. Mwinamwake munthu amvetsa kuti akuchita zolakwika. Koma mwinamwake, mudzayenera kugawana nawo. Ndipo khulupirirani ine, iyi ndiyo njira yabwino kwambiri. Ndi bwino kuvutika tsopano kusiyana ndi kuzunzidwa ndi blackmailer mu moyo.
Ganizirani zovuta zotheka
Ngati ndi funso lodziwika bwino, pamene mukuopsezedwa ndi kulonjezedwa kuti adzasokoneza moyo wanu, ngati simungakwanitse kukwaniritsa zofunikira zanu, yesetsani kufufuza zomwe zingatheke. Kumbukirani kuti blackmailers sakhala otsimikiza. Mwachitsanzo, ngati adamuuza kuti amupatse ndalama kamodzi, ndiye kuti adalonjeza kuti adzakusiyirani nokha - musakhulupirire. Anthu onse sasiya ndalama, koma amaletsedwa ndi makhalidwe abwino. Anthu ngati chibwenzi chanu alibe makhalidwe. Iwo adzabwera kwa inu mobwerezabwereza, ndipo pempho lirilonse likukula. Tsono ganizirani ngati mungaperekepo kanthu kuti musayese.
Panthawiyi, mungaganize kuti simungathe kuchita mosiyana. Koma izi siziri choncho. Anyamata akulonjeza kuti akufotokozerani zakukhosi kwanu. Pankhaniyi, mtsikana aliyense amayamba kuda nkhaŵa za abwenzi ndi makolo omwe angamuganizire. Musaiwale kuti omwe amatikonda adzapitirizabe kukonda ngakhale titapunthwa. Choncho, ngati mutsimikiza kuti banja lanu ndi abwenzi anu amakukondani, ndiye musaganize ngakhale pang'ono kuti munthu woterewa angakhudze bwanji chibwenzi chawo. Inde, mukhoza kunyodola ndi zina zotero, koma palibe amene angakane. Ndipo khulupirirani ine, ngati ziri zoyenera mu chirichonse kuti muvomereze kwa makolo choyamba, zidzakhala zabwino kwambiri.
Zingakhalenso kuti simudziwa za chikondi cha banja komanso anthu. Pankhaniyi, musamamvetsetse bwino mawu a anthu awa. Mabwenzi oterewa sali oyenera kwa inu, ndipo ngati mumalankhula za makolo anu, ndi bwino ndalama zomwe mumapatsa kwa wamanyazi, kuchotsani nyumba yanu ndi kuchokapo kusiyana ndi moyo wanu wonse kuchokera kwa wina, kudalira. Dziwani, ngati makolo sangakuvomerezeni ndi zolakwitsa zanu, ndiye kuti anthuwa sayenera kupita ku nsembe zofanana za radishes. Kumbukirani zotsatirazi: ndi bwino kukhala nokha, koma kukhala wodzisunga nokha, kubodza mwachinyengo chokhala ndi abwenzi ndi abwenzi, pamene muli ndi wina woopa wina aliyense pa moyo wanu wonse.
Abale okondedwa
Ngati munagwera m'manja mwa mnzanu wakuda, koma muli ndi abale okondedwa, ndiye mavuto onse athetsedwe ngakhale mofulumira. Musawafunse anyamatawo kuti awathandize. Ngakhale atakukwiyitsani, vseravno kwa mlongo, m'bale aliyense "amathyola" wolakwirayo. Komanso, abale si makolo, kotero ndi kosavuta kuti iwo afotokoze zomwe zinachitika. Ndikhulupirireni, mu mkhalidwe uno, mphamvu yamunthu ya pulayimale ikhoza kuthetsa vutolo. Munthu wotere, makamaka, ali wamantha komanso wofooka. Iwo akhoza kukuopani inu, koma ngati iwo akuyendera ndi gulu la achinyamata omwe amamvetsetsa bwino kuti kusokoneza sikudzatsogolere ku ubwino uliwonse, pafupifupi nthawizonse amunawo amawopa ndipo amakayiwala za iwe. Atsikana ambiri, akukumana ndi vutoli, amapanga kulakwitsa kwakukulu - amangokhala chete. Izi ndi zolakwika. Ndi khalidwe lotere limene blackmailer amawerengera. Iye ali otsimikiza kuti iwe udzachita mantha, iwe sudzayankhula kalikonse kwa wina aliyense, ndipo motero, sipadzakhala wina woti akuteteze. Kotero, izo zidzakhala zodabwitsa kwambiri kwa mnyamata yemwe abale ako adzawonekera ndi abwenzi omwe iwo angakhale nawo ochuluka nawo. Ndipo patangopita kanthawi kochepa, koma kukambirana kosalekeza, mwinamwake, blackmailer adzasintha maganizo ake mwadzidzidzi podzasokoneza moyo wanu ndipo adzasamalira zanu, ndikuiwala zabwino.
Musazengereze kufunafuna thandizo ku mabungwe ogwirira ntchito
Kumbukirani kuti si blackmailer iliyonse yomwe ingathe kuthetsedwa payekha. Choncho, ngati mukudziwa kuti munthu sali woyenera pazochita zake, osati inu nokha, komanso okondedwa anu, mukhoza kuvulazidwa-funsani apolisi. Ndipo musanayambe kuuza banja lanu. Monga mukudziwa, apolisi athu, amatiteteza, koma osati nthawi zonse, choncho ndikufuna. Choncho, ngati mumvetsetsa kuti vutoli likutha, musayesetse kuthetsa chinthu chanu. Kumvetsetsa kuti mmalo mokhala kunja, mudzamanga mpira kwambiri. Choncho musataye nthawi yanu ndipo musapange zifukwa zanu. Osati aliyense akhoza kufotokoza chinachake, koma aliyense akhoza kupanikizidwa ndi mphamvu. Ndipo ngati mutachita izi mofanana, ndiye kuti muli ndi ufulu kuti muyankhe mofanana. Kotero, ziribe kanthu momwe iwe uliri wamanyazi, kusonkhanitsa chifuniro chako kukhala nkhonya ndikupita kwa apolisi. Ndikhulupirire, pamene munthu ali ndi vuto ndi psyche, akhoza kupita chirichonse. Pali milandu pamene olemba anzawo amafikira kuphedwa kwa ozunzidwa awo kapena kuwabweretsa kuti anthu aike manja awo paokha. Palibe manyazi kwambiri kuposa kuperewera kwa thanzi la munthu, chifuniro chake ndi moyo wake. Mwamanyazi, mutha kuthamangira kumzinda wina kapena ngakhale ku dziko lina. Anthu omwe ali pafupi nafe adakayikira kuiwala zonse panthawi yake. Koma ngati thanzi lanu likudwala chifukwa cha manyazi kapena mutayika moyo wanu, palibe chomwe chingathe kukhazikitsidwa.