Maganizo omwe amayi omwe akuyembekeza akukumana nawo panthawi yomwe ali ndi mimba amawongolera maganizo ake okhudzidwa ndi mimba, pachiyanjano ndi bambo wa mwana wake, pokonzekera mimba yokha, pazochita bwino ndi kulephera kwa ntchito zamaluso komanso pazifukwa zosiyanasiyana kuphatikizapo zomwe tatchulidwa kale. Ndipo malingaliro onse amatsogoleredwa ndi mitsempha. Ndipo ngati mayi wam'tsogolo akudandaula, ali m'mavuto, kapena mantha, mahomoni omwe amayamba pamene magazi alowa m'kati mwake, ndipo amakhudza thanzi la mwana wake. Maganizo osiyanasiyana olakwika ndi omwe amachititsa kuti zinthu zikhale zovuta, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti chifukwa cha mahomoni opsinjika maganizo, kachilombo ka mwana wosabadwa kamakhala kowonjezereka, kamene kamakhudza kukula kwa ubongo. Ndipo zotsatira za chikoka ichi ndi kubadwa kwa ana, omwe kenako amaulula mavuto osiyanasiyana ndi khalidwe. Komanso, makanda nthawi zonse amakhala amantha nthawi zambiri, amawopsya, amawopsa, ndi madandaulo a colic.
Ngati panthawi yomwe mayiyo ali ndi pakati, amayi omwe akuyembekezera amakhala ndi maganizo abwino, mapophins ndi encephalins omwe amapangidwa motere amathandiza kuti mwanayo akhale ndi thanzi labwino.
Koma kodi zonse zimakhala zovuta bwanji kuti muchepetse maganizo anu panthawi yomwe muli ndi pakati. Kuthamanga ma hormoni, kumene thupi silinazolowere, silinasinthidwe, limayambitsa kudumpha ndi kusinthasintha maganizo ngakhale pazifukwa zomwe sichikhoza kulamulira zinthu zakunja. Izi ndizo kuti amayi omwe ali ndi pakati amakhala odekha, oyenerera, ndipo pakapita nthawi anali akulira kale, ndipo sangathe kufotokoza momveka bwino chifukwa cha misozi yambiri. Momwemo mayi wamtsogolo angakhudzire zonse zonse: kuchokera ku mawu omwe amamveka mwangozi ku mawonekedwe osamvetsetseka. Zoona, mothandizidwa bwino ndi anthu oyandikana nawo, komanso mwa khama lawo, mayi wamtsogolo angaphunzire mosavuta kuthetsa kusiyana kumeneku m'malingaliro ake, omwe amatha, pafupifupi gawo lonse loyamba la trimester. Mu gawo lachiwiri ndi lachitatu, ndi kayendedwe kabwino ka mahomoni, sipadzakhala kusintha koteroko. Ndipo mayi wamtsogolo ayenera kuthandizira maganizo ake payekha.
Ndipo izi zikutanthauza kuti mayi aliyense wamtsogolo ayenera kuyesetsa kuti mwana wake abadwe wathanzi. Zomwe muyenera kuchita kuti muchepetse nkhawa zanu. Kodi tingachite chiyani izi? Choyamba - dzivomerezeni nokha kuti muli ndi pakati. Choncho musayese kuchita kunyumba ndi kuntchito monga momwe munachitira kale. Musaganize kuti kutenga mimba kumakhudza njira ya ntchito yanu komanso kukula kwa ntchito yanu, pewani nthawiyi phindu lanu, patula nthawi yopuma ndi kumasuka.
Musadzipangire nokha kuwonetsetsa kwa chimwemwe, dzipatseni nokha nthawi izi, musamawabwezeretsenso. Osadandaula ngati chinachake chikulakwika monga momwe mudakonzekera. Mutha kumva kutopa, kunyoza, kuthamanga, koma zonsezi zidzadutsa. Dzivomerezeni nokha kuti ichi ndi chodabwitsa, ndipo sikuyenera kukhala mantha chifukwa cha izo.
Konzekerani zodabwitsa zilizonse. Palibe amene amadziwa momwe mimba yako idzadutsa. Kubeleka kungayambe masabata angapo m'mbuyomo kusiyana ndi nthawi yomwe adokotala adayika, mungafunikire kugwirizana ndi mpumulo wa bedi, ndipo ngati mwakonzekera zonse mkati, sizidzakupangitsani inu kupsinjika.
Yesetsani kusunga kugwirizana ndi achibale anu onse. Aloleni iwo apitirize, pamper, akuthandizeni. Ndipotu, simuyenera nokha kuthana ndi chilichonse. Ndipo ngati anthu oyandikana nawo akupereka chithandizo chawo, omasuka kuvomereza, ndipo kondwerani kuti mwazunguliridwa ndi anthu achikondi ndi achikondi.
Ndipo, chofunika kwambiri, musatseke m'dziko lanu, mu nyumba yanu. Ndipotu, kutenga mimba si matenda. Choncho ichi si chifukwa chokana kulankhula ndi anzanu ndi achibale. Ngati simukukondana ndi khalidwe lawo, muwauzeni za izo, ndipo musakhumudwitsidwe ndi iwo, musakwiye. Ndipotu izi zidzasintha thanzi la mwana wanu.
Patsiku la kubadwa kwa nyenyeswa zanu, khalani chete, mutsimikizire kuti zotsatira zake zidzakhala zosangalatsa za mimba ndi kubereka, mwachimwemwe mwa zomwe mungathe kuziwona ndi kuzigwira mmanja mwanu, osati kungomva mumtima mwa munthu wamng'ono wokondedwa wanu. Tsopano mumadziwa momwe mitsempha, misonzi, kumalira zimakhudza mwanayo panthawi yomwe ali ndi mimba. Chikondi, kondedwa ndi kukhala wokondwa.