Mayi Teresa
Mtundu woyamba umene tikutcha "Mama Teresa". Kwa iwo pali atsikana omwe amayesa nthawi zonse kuthandiza aliyense ndikuwona zabwino mwa onse. Ngati awona mnyamata yemwe amamwa osamwa, amapeza tsatanetsatane wa izi, kunena, mwachitsanzo, kuti analibe chikondi ndipo tsopano akumwa chifukwa cha chisoni. Ngati simukugwira ntchito, msungwana woteroyo amamuthandiza, pofotokoza kuti mnyamata sangathe kudzipeza yekha, chifukwa talente yake imawoneka kwa aliyense ndipo amagwira ntchito kwa awiri, pomwe adzikhala pamakompyuta, kusewera masewera kapena kuyang'ana TV.
Ngati muwona kuti ndinu "Mayi Teresa", ndiye kuti mukufunika kuchitapo kanthu mwamsanga kuti aliyense azidandaula. Iwe umakopeka ndi amuna oterowo, chifukwa iwe umamanga malingaliro ako pachisoni kwa iwo, ndipo iwo, nawonso, amagwiritsa ntchito kukoma mtima kwanu. Ngati mwana amamwa, izi sizikutanthauza kuti akuvutika ndi apongozi ake. Mwachidziwikire, mnyamatayo ndi wofooka ndipo sangapeweke ndipo mmalo mwake adzipanga pamodzi ndi kuyamba kuchita chinachake, amasankha njira yosavuta. Munthu sangapeze ntchito chifukwa ndi waulesi kwambiri ndipo sasamala zomwe zidzachitike ndi moyo wake. Kotero kuti maedwe omwe ali ndi uphungu wamtundu uwu akudutsa-mbali ya iwo amene akufuna kukhala achisoni ndipo chirichonse chidzayenda bwino ndi inu.
Dona-Bwana
Akazi oterewa amangodandaula kuti pambali pawo pali akazi osakwatiwa, koma zida zenizeni. Amangoopa mantha osankhidwa awo, amanong'onong'onong'ono muzonse, sanganene zambiri ndipo sangasonyeze khalidwe lililonse. Akazi amakonda kuti munthu wokondedwa m'malo mokhala womuteteza, amamangirira kumbuyo kwake ndi kumalira, ngati galu kakang'ono pamsana.
Nthawi zambiri, vuto limabuka kwa iwo amene amakonda kulamula. Azimayi mosamalitsa amasankha madona awo, omwe amavomereza nthawi zonse muzonse, sakonda kusonyeza kuyambitsa ndi tadaleye. Odziimira okha ndi osamvera, amadutsa mbali. Koma vitoga, zomwe zimakhala ngati mwamuna akudandaula, monga chidziwitso cha China, amavutitsa ngakhale msilikali wonyada kwambiri ndipo akuyamba kudandaula ndi abwenzi ake za chibwenzi chake kapena mwamuna wake, kumuneneza kuti alibe spinelessness.
Amayi awa akhoza kulangizidwa kuti azidziletsa okha ndi chikhumbo komanso nthawi zonse kulamula. Ngati mukufuna kuti munthu azikhala pafupi, osati galu pamsana, ndiye kuti muyenera kukhala ngati mkazi, osati ngati mtsogoleri wa gulu. Phunzirani kupereka kwa amuna, kuyanjana, kuwapatsanso mwayi wodzilamulira okha. Choyamba, poyamba zidzakhala zovuta, koma ngati mutatopa kwambiri ndi anyamata omwe ali okonzeka kumpsompsona chikondi chanu, ndiye kuti mukumva zochepa ndipo pamapeto pake pakhomo weniweni adzaonekera patsogolo panu.
Chilengedwe
Kwa anthu oterewa, chikondi ndi gawo lofunika kwambiri la chizoloŵezi cha munthu. Ngati amamupatsa maluwa ndi nyimbo, amatha kuimba pansi pawindo ndipo amatha kukonza mapepala am'nyumba dzuwa litalowa, mtsikanayo amangosungunuka, amadzichepetsa ndipo amatsata mnyamatayo mpaka kumapeto kwa dziko ndikukhala m'nyumba. Kenaka amatha kudutsa nthawi ndipo akuyamba kudandaula za kuti mwamuna amakhala "wagwedezeka", alibe ntchito yeniyeni, chifukwa amalenga, komanso amakhala wodekha, wosalankhula komanso wosagwirizana ndi moyo weniweni. Ndipo mtsikanayo saganiziranso za chikondi, koma ali wokwiya chifukwa pali phiri la mbale pakhoma, ndipo mnyamata wake akung'amba chithunzi china cha chithunzi chake chosadziwika ndipo alibe kanthu kochita ndi mavuto a tsiku ndi tsiku.
Pankhaniyi, atsikana ayenera kukumbukira mosamala izi: Chikondi chimodzi simudzakhala odzaza. Inde, ndizobwino pamene munthu apanga manja okongola. Koma ngati amazichita mochulukira komanso nthawi zambiri, m'pofunika kuganiza. Chowonadi ndi chakuti amuna enieni sangathe kukhala achikondi kwambiri. Ichi ndi gawo la madona okondeka amene akulota, kudandaula za masewera olimbitsa thupi ndikulira nthawi iliyonse. Ndipo anyamatawa akuganiza momwe angakonzekere galimotoyo ndi kupeza ndalama zambiri. Ngati mutu wa mnyamatayo umangokhala ndi chikondi, ndiye kuti alibe nthawi yokhala ndi moyo wamba wa anthu wamba. Kotero zimatsimikizira kuti mu zotsatira za moyo wokhudzana ndi anyamatawa amasanduka chizunzo.
Chifukwa chake, ndibwino kuti anthu olenga akumbukire kuti kutsutsana osati zomwe zimakopeka. Mkazi wachikondi ayenera kuyang'anitsitsa amuna omwe amapatsa maluwa kutali ndi tsiku lonse ndipo chikondi chonse cha mawu chimadziwonetsera mwachidule "Ochepa, Ndine Wolimba", ndipo, kamodzi kokha, koma okonzeka kugwira ntchito zitatu, amathamangira kwa inu awiri m'mawa, nthawi zonse onetsetsani kuti simukusowa kalikonse. Ndi bwino kuphunzitsa munthu wotero kuti akuuzeni ndakatulo ndikukonzekera zokondweretsa (ndipo izi ndizotheka, khulupireni) kusiyana ndi nthawi yonse yakumva ndi chikondi chimene simukumvetsa kanthu m'moyo weniweni.
Msungwana wamng'ono wosauka
Ndipo mtundu wotsiriza wa amayi omwe tidzakambirana nawo ndi otchedwa Akhungu Osauka. Amayi awa nthawi zonse amadziyesa kuti sachita chilichonse ndipo sangathe. Wodzichepetsa, wodekha, ngati mwana, msungwanayu nthawi zonse amafuna thandizo ndi chitetezo kwa mwamuna. Amafuna kuti aliyense am'chitire zonse ndi kuthetsa chirichonse, sakuyesera kuthana ndi mavuto ake yekha ndikuyesera kuti adzichotsere pazinthu zofunika. Koma nthawi imatha komanso damsk amayamba kukwiya kuti wokondedwa samamulolera yekha, salankhula za mavuto ake ndipo samamvetsera maganizo ake.Ndipo pamene ayesa kudziwonetsera yekha kapena kupereka yekha kusankha kwake, munthuyo amachiphonya ndi makutu kapena Mau otsogolera akunena kuti iyi si ntchito yake. Mwachibadwa, msungwanayo akukhumudwitsa khalidweli, amapeza mnyamata watsopano ndipo zonse zimayambiranso.
Atsikana oterewa ayenera kusiya kuyesera kuti aziwoneka ofooka kusiyana ndi wophunzira, kuposa momwe iwo aliri. Inde, ndithudi, tonse timafuna anyamata kuteteza ndi kuteteza. Ndipo timachita chiyani ndi ana? - tetezani, chitetezeni ndi kulamulira chilichonse. Ngakhale mwana akayesera kuchita zinthu yekha, makolo amazindikira kuti ndiwopseza ndipo amalembanso. Amuna, maganizo omwewo kwa amayi a mtundu uwu. Amawakonda ndi kuwasamalira, koma sadzaloledwa kukhala odziimira okha, chifukwa samangokhulupirira kuti munthuyu ali ndi mphamvu iliyonse. Choncho, ngati mukufuna kuti awiriwa adziwonekere, poyamba muwonetse nokha ngati munthu wamkulu, wanzeru, wopanga umunthu. Ndiyeno chirichonse chidzakhala bwino.