Chotsani chiletso pa chikondi.
Kumbukirani kangati mmoyo mwanu mumamva zotsutsa ndi zolakwika za zochita zanu kapena makhalidwe anu? Zoonadi, osati pang'ono. Makolo, aphunzitsi, abwenzi ndi anthu akunja samapepuka maganizo athu pamene akuyesera kutiuza maganizo awo kapena zonena zawo. Zonsezi zosatha: musadandaule, khalani chete, tulukani, chitani chinachake nokha. Zosonyeza malemba: ndiwe wamanyazi, wosalankhula, wopusa. Kodi zimathandiza kudzikonda nokha? Ayi ndithu.
Kuwonjezera apo, anthu onse oyandikana nawo ali ndi mtundu wina wa chithunzi, chomwe ife, molingana ndi iwo, tiyenera kufanana. Makolo, abwenzi, anzako akuyembekezera zinthu zina kuchokera kwa ife, ndipo pamene sitimayeserera zolingazi, amakwiya. Kumbukirani - sitiyenera kutsata zolinga za anthu ena. Tonse tili ndiyekha ndipo tili ndi ufulu wosiyana, wosiyana ndi aliyense.
Kumbukirani mawu onse ndi mawu anu adilesi omwe anakhudza kwambiri. Taganizani za izo. Kodi ndiwe wotsika kwambiri, wopusa kapena wolankhula? Mwinamwake, zimakhala kuti nyumba yanu ndi yabwino kwambiri, mumadziwa momwe mungachitire zinthu ndipo simungathe kukhala maola pazinthu zopanda kanthu. Lekani malemba omwe anthu ena adakupatsani. Dziloleni nokha kukhala chomwe inu muli kwenikweni.
Vomerezani.
Choyamba, ndi wekha. Mwina koposa zonse - ndi ine ndekha. Mukamvetsa za inu nokha zomwe simukuzikonda kwambiri, mukalakwitsa, zindikirani - ndi zachilendo. Palibe anthu angwiro, tonse timachita zinthu zomwe timachita manyazi, zotsatira zake zomwe zimawononga miyoyo yathu. Ndikofunika kuzindikira kuti mwakhumudwa, koma mukhoza komanso mukufuna kukonza chinachake.
Mwachitsanzo, nthawi zambiri mumadzuka. Inde, ndizoona. Koma inu mumayesa kuchita ntchito zambiri masana ndipo nthawi zambiri mumakhalabe nthawi yatha ntchito. Iwe umakhala wofulumira-inde, koma iwe sumabisa nkhawa zako, usasocheretse anthu ndipo mwamsanga uchoke.
Yang'anani chirichonse cholakwika ndi chabwino, chiyenera kukhala pamenepo.
Iwo adadzitamandira okha.
Onetsetsani kuti mudzitamandeni nokha pa chilichonse chomwe chiyenera kutamandidwa, koma zinthu zoterezi mu moyo. Iwo adadzitamandira okha chifukwa chachabechabe ndi zopindulitsa zazikulu, musaiwale kuzindikira mawonekedwe abwino ndi kugula bwino, ntchito yomalizidwa ndipo idzayendera mphamvu kuyendera dokotala wamazinyo. Ndiwe munthu wapafupi kwambiri amene muli nawo, dzipatseni nokha.
Sakanizani mwachidule.
Ngati mukuganiza kuti palibe chifukwa chodzikondera nokha, pezani pepala, pomwe mukulemba zolakwa zanu zonse ndi ulemu wanu wonse. Zilibe kanthu kuti gawo lalikulu ndi liti, ndikofunika kuti mumvetse - muli ndi kukongola kwakukulu mwa inu. Ganizirani za anthu angati omwe amakukondani ndikukuyamikirani. Ndithudi, iwo ali ndi chifukwa, chifukwa chikondi chopanda chilolezo chiri, kani, kuchokera kumalo a malingaliro. Ngati mutakhala munthu woopsa, mukanakhala ndi anzanu ambiri, kodi makolo anu ndi anzanu angakuyamikeni?
Yang'anani nokha.
Musaiwale kuti anthu okonda ndi okonda anzawo amakhala osavuta. Yesani kuyang'ana bwino ngakhale nokha ndiwekha, ngakhale kuti simudzasiya nyumba. Maonekedwe anu ayenera kukukondweretsani, koma musadandaule. Mudzakhutira ndi inu nokha monga mwathunthu ndipo mudzavomereza mosavuta zolakwa zanu. Kuonjezerapo, yesetsani kupambana muzonse zomwe mumachita. Musataye mwayi wokhala wabwino, wopambana, wolemera, wochenjera komanso wokondweretsa. Phunzirani chinachake chatsopano, phunzirani, kuwerenga, kuyenda, kutenga zinthu zatsopano. Musagwire ntchito, ndiye mutha kuyamba mwamsanga kulandira zotsatira za ntchito zanu.
Izi zikutanthauza kuti muyenera kudzikonda nokha, koma sizili zosavuta momwe zikuwonekera. Nthawi zambiri timadzilanga tokha mochuluka, chitonzo pazinthu zazing'ono. Ifeyo ndizo zovuta kwambiri pazochita zathu, ndipo chikumbumtima sichitipatsa ife mwayi wokhutira ndi tokha. Koma aliyense wa ife ndi munthu wapadera, momwe muli zabwino zambiri. Ndipo aliyense wa ife ali ndi ufulu wokonda.