Choyamba, tiyeni tiwone mgwirizano umenewu kuchokera kwa ochepa. Kawirikawiri zimawoneka kuti ambiri mwa mafumu ndi oponderezana ndi njoka, ndipo molingana ndi lamulo lachinyengo, timakhala ndi zoipitsitsa. Iye amawona mkati mwanu malo opanda kanthu, kapena nthawi zonse akuwombera ndi kuzunzika zovuta zake. Koma, ngati mwaphunzira bwino kulankhula ndi bwana wanu, moyo wanu kuntchito umatha kukhala wolemetsa kwa inu.
Nthawi zina, ndiye momwe bwana amachitira ndi omvera ake amatsimikiziridwa ndi khalidwe lake, chifukwa kuti akhale mtsogoleri wina ayenera kukhala ndi makhalidwe abwino otsogolera. Ngati chinachake chikukukhumudwitsani mu khalidwe la wamkulu, mungayesere kulankhula ndi iye ndikumuuza za izo, mwinamwake adzakumbukira zofuna zanu. Ngati izi sizingatheke, yesetsani kusintha khalidwe lake.
Mtsogoleri Wachivomerezo sakonda kukambirana za zisankho zake, ayenera kuchita mosakayikira, kotero ngati mutayamba kufotokoza maganizo anu kwa iye, motsutsana ndi ndondomeko zake, mutha kukhala nawo mwayi wotsutsana naye.
Koma ndi mtsogoleri amene amatsatira maganizo a demokalase, khalidweli likhoza kupereka zotsatira zabwino. Mabwanawa, monga lamulo, amayamikira mphamvu yogwira ntchito mu gulu ndikufotokoza maganizo awo. Musachite mantha ndi bwana, ngati ali wamkulu kuposa inu, ayenera kutsimikiza koma osatsimikizirika kuti afotokoze maganizo ake. Ngati mumatsogoleredwa ndi mnyamata, mum'lemekezeni, musamuyese, ngakhale mutadziwa zambiri, koma mwapang'onopang'ono musamukakamize kuti asankhe bwino.
Ngati mtsogoleriyo akulira ndipo sakuyankhula, chitsanzo chotsatirachi chidzathandiza. Ngati mavuto ali pantchito, amupatseni njira zomwe angathetsere kuthetsa vutoli, kukangana nawo bwino. Kulankhulana naye popanda maganizo osafunikira, monga lamulo, anthu otere sakonda kwambiri, makamaka kuntchito. Ngati mwalakwitsa, chitani udindo, mutsimikizire kuti mwamvetsetsa zifukwa zake ndipo munapanga zogwirizana. Khalani achangu, musataye mwayi wophunzira china chatsopano. Malingaliro anu onse akufika kumapeto omaliza, dzipangani nokha mwa kukhazikitsa njira zingapo zothetsera vutoli. Yankhulani kwa mtsogoleri yekha pa mafunso ofunikira kwambiri, musamusokoneze pa zovuta, zomwe zingayesetse kuthetsa ndi mphamvu yake.
Ngati bwana akukutsutsani, muyenera njira yosiyana, koma musaiwale zomwe zalembedwa pamwambapa. Choyamba, tiyenera kudziwa bwana, mphamvu zake ndi zofooka zake. Kuti muphunzire bwino ntchito yanu, kuti munthu akhale woyenera kwambiri, ndiye kuti ndizomveka kuti ayambe kutsutsana ndi udindo wake, koma musayese kusonyeza kuti ndinu wochenjera kuposa abwana, choncho mumangodzivulaza nokha. Khalani otsimikiza, khulupirirani mu mphamvu yanu. Ngati bwana akuyamba kukuwombani, yesetsani kunyalanyaza zomwe zikuchitika ndikudzipatulira nokha, mwamsanga adzatonthozeka popanda kupeza yankho la nkhanza zanu mwa inu, koma mosasamala kanthu kuti sakuwoneka, izi zingayambitse zoipa.
Ndi mtsogoleri aliyense ndikofunikira kulumikizana ndi kupeza njira yake. Bwanayo sayenera kudziwa za zoperewera zanu, koma za zotsatira. Chida chabwino cha maganizo choyamba mawu pamene mukuyankhula ndi olamulira ndi "inde". Izi zikuwonekeratu kuti mukugwirizana ndi bwana. Pafupifupi choncho, "Inde, ndithudi vutoli limapezeka. Kodi mukuganiza kuti ngati tichita izi ndizo, tidzatha kuthetsa? " Pa nthawi yomweyi, nthawi imodzi mumapereka yankho lanu ku vuto, koma mawu omaliza atsala kwa bwana, omwe sangathe kulephera.
Mulimonsemo, khalani oyenerera, okhulupilika, okhoza kumvetsera ndi kupanga bwino maganizo anu, kunyengerera.
Tsopano tiyeni tipitirire pazinthu zina zomwe mtsogoleri ayenera kudziwa kuti apange malo abwino ogwirira ntchito mu timu.
Kawirikawiri, oyang'anira amawunika anthu omwe ali ndi udindo wawo, osati kuzindikira nthawi yomweyo zolakwa zawo. Iwo sali ndi chidwi ndi zomwe zimachitika mmoyo wa wogwira ntchito, zomwe zimamudetsa nkhawa, sangathe kukumbukira tsiku limene anabadwa. Ngakhale kuli kofunika kuti mukhale ndi chidwi ndi izi, ngati bwana akufuna kuti gulu likhale lotsogolera kuti lizigwira ntchito bwino komanso mogwirizanitsa.
Woyang'anirayo ayenera kukhala wokhudzidwa ndi mavuto a anthu omwe ali mukumvera kwake, koma muyenera kukhala osamalitsa komanso olondola mukamayankhula ndi munthu kuti musamuvulaze. Pezani zomwe aliyense wa gulu lanu akukhala, zomwe zimamukondweretsa, zomwe amakonda.
Ndikofunika kupereka mamembala a gulu mwayi woyankhulana wina ndi mzake, monga kugwira ntchito mu gulu logwirizana kuli kosavuta kusiyana ndi gulu lomwe aliyense ali yekha.
Thandizani munthu kuwululira luso lawo, apambane bwino ndipo adzagwira ntchito bwino poyankha. Kutamandidwa kulemekezedwa kumapangitsanso chidaliro kwa apansi, chifukwa aliyense amafuna kuti ntchito yake izindikire ndikuyamikiridwa, ndipo mwinamwake kulimbikitsidwa mwinamwake. Mtsogoleri, yemwe amamvetsera omvera ake, yemwe amamvetsera zochitika m'magulu, amatha kuyang'ana kusintha, kulepheretsa kuti mikangano ikhale yovuta ndipo potsiriza adzakhala ndi gulu logwirizana lotha kugwira ntchito pamodzi ndi bwino, kuthetsa ntchito zovuta kwambiri.
Mutuwake mwiniwake ayenera kuchita zinthu motero kuti akufuna kutengera chitsanzo kuchokera kwa iye, ayenera kukhala mtsogoleri m'zonse, panthawi imodzimodzi, osasunthika kuchokera ku gulu.
Kodi mungasunge bwanji ubale - abwana ndi antchito? Chinthu chofunika kwambiri pa chiyanjano ndi wogwira ntchito ndi abwana, monga mu chiyanjano china chilichonse - izi ndizitha kuyanjana, kuyanjana, kumvetsera ku mbali inayo ndikukumvetsetsa kuti bwana ndi wogonjera ndizofanana ndi inu, ndi mavuto ndi zolephera zawo.