Lero tikambirana nkhani zina zokha za ubale pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi.
Malamulo ndi kukwezedwa
Malamulo amakhalidwe abwino samatanthawuza zolondola zapolitiki monga kudziŵa mavuto aakulu omwe amayamba pakati pa magulu osiyanasiyana a anthu. Makhalidwe a machitidwe a bizinesi amafunika kudziwa pang'ono za maganizo a zamalonda, ndi kukhoza kuchita mogwirizana ndi chidziwitso ichi.
Tiye tiwone kuti akatswiri a maganizo a m'magulu a ogwira ntchito akhala akudziwiratu kuti ngati muika dzina lachikazi kapena amuna patsiku lomwelo, zotsatira za kuyesedwa kwawo ndi otsogolera a mabungwe ogwirira ntchito adzakhala osiyana. Kuti athe kuyenerera udindo womwewo, wofunsayo ayenera kukhala ndi zowonjezereka, zowonjezereka komanso nzeru zoposa zomwe akufuna. Kodi izi ndizo khalidwe la abwana? Ayi ndithu. Komabe, zikhalidwe ndi malamulo a khalidwe la mkazi amene akufuna kupeza ntchito, amuphunzitseni kuvomereza kusagwirizana koteroko ndikupita ku malo omwe angakhale oyenerera kwambiri. Zosangalatsa, koma zoona: palibe njira zina zomwe akazi amachitira bizinesi.
Ngati mwakhalapo kale mu kampani, ndiye kuti mfundo zanu zachikhalidwe sizikutanthauza kusintha kosatha kwa ena. Zimadziwika kuti abambo amakonda kubisa maganizo kwa akazi ogwira nawo ntchito ndikuwapereka okha. Kawirikawiri zimawoneka ngati izi: wogwira ntchito wodziwa bwino komanso wokhudzidwa ndi kampaniyo akufunitsitsa kumvetsera maganizo onse a wogwira ntchito watsopanoyo, akugwedeza mutu wake, kenako amawachiritsa. Zimatengera mwezi umodzi kapena ziwiri, ndipo amamveketsa malingaliro ake pa dongosolo ngati lawo. Musapite motsutsana nawo ndi chotsegula chotsegula ndikupeza ubale. Chida cha mkazi ndichinyengo, kukhoza kuteteza malo ake mofatsa. Musamupatse lingaliro lonse kuti mulingalire, asiyeni ace mu manja ake. Ndipo ngati muwona kuti akupereka maganizo ake kwa anzako asanayambe anzanu, onetsetsani kuti mumatchula kuti ndinu mlembi. Osati mwachisokonezo, koma mofatsa. Mwachitsanzo, nenani: "Zikomo inu, Ivan Ivanych, kuti iwo adayamikira lingaliro langa, limene ine ndinakupatsani inu kuganizira sabata lapitalo. Ndimangokwanitsa kuonjezera ndi deta yofunikira, yomwe imanena kuti apa ndi apo ndikofunikira kuti mupite mosiyana pang'ono. " Palinso njira zenizeni zodzizitetezera ku zifukwa zomveka: kutumizani malingaliro onse kwa abwana anu ndi kopi ya bwana. Komabe, chisankho ichi chikhoza kukhala ndi otsutsa mu mawonekedwe a mtsogoleri wotsogolera.
Mtundu wina wamwamuna wa chauvinism mu bizinesi umatsimikiziridwa kuti amuna amatha kupuma pantchito wina ndi mnzake mu chipinda chosuta fodya kapena chipinda cha msonkhano, komanso pa madzulo kuti akambirane ntchito zofunika. Nthawi zambiri amasiya mwadala mwachangu antchito kunja kwa chithunzichi. Muyenera kukhala olimbikira komanso omasuka kuwapempha kuti alankhule. Yendani limodzi chakudya chamasana, tulukani ndi khofi mu chipinda chosuta, koma musakhale kutali ndi zokambirana zofunika.
Chikondi cha paofesi ndi kukondana kuntchito
Ena amatsinthana ndi machitidwe a ubale wamalonda pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi, zomwe zimafuna kuti azipewa kuyanjana ndi anzawo. Ndiye nthawi zambiri amalipira chifukwa cha kutaya kapena kuthetsa gulu.
Chowonadi ndi chakuti chikondi chaukwati kuchokera kwa abambo ndi amai chikhoza kudziwika ndi zofuna zachinyengo. Mayi angafunike kupeza mphamvu zina, zothandizira, kapena kukwezedwa. Mwamunayo angakonde kukwera kwa kompyutayi kunyumba kwake kuti aphunzire momwe amaberekera malingaliro ake abwino. Nthawi iliyonse mukamawunikira buku kuntchito, ganizirani kasanu musanavomereze. Izi zikhoza kukhala vuto lalikulu kumanga ntchito yanu.
Ndipo panthawi imodzimodziyo, ndi bwino kudziwa kuti malo amodzi omwe anthu okwatirana okondwa amasonkhana pamodzi ndi ntchito. Anthu ambiri safunikira kuyenda kumapeto kwa dziko lapansi kuti apeze mwayi wawo, ndipo ntchito ndi imodzi mwa malo asanu otchuka omwe okwatirana amakumana nawo. Iye amapitirirabe mwa mwayi wopanga banja lachilendo malo odziwika monga ma clubs ndi mabwenzi oyandikana nawo mwachidwi, kumangokhalira kuyanjana ndi abwenzi komanso okondedwa pa tchuthi pafupi ndi nyumba. Choncho ngati pali chigwirizano, ndipo ntchito zanu sizinagwirizane, musadalirana wina ndi mzake, bwanji osapatsirana ndi chifundo chomwe chingatheke pakati pa mwamuna ndi mnzake wogwira naye ntchito.
Chinthu chinanso-kukwatukumula kuntchito. Ngati zolemba zothandiza nthawi zambiri zimakhala zomasuka kwa ogwira ntchito osakwatira komanso osakwatiwa, ndiye kuti onse amatha kukangana ndi achikondi.
Kwa zaka zambiri zakhala zikudziwika kuti kukondana kungakhale chida chachikulu chokwaniritsira cholinga mu bizinesi. Amagwiritsidwa ntchito ngati chida chowongolera amuna ndi akazi. Azimayi amavala zovala zovuta kwambiri, zomwe zingawoneke ngati zamalonda, koma zimakhala ndi mzere wochepa. Izi zimathandiza nthawi zina kugulitsa mapulogalamu kapena kuteteza malipoti.
Amuna amagwiritsanso ntchito chithumwa chawo osati malonda okha, komanso kuti amenyane ndi mdani wa ufulu wokweza. Pankhani zowonerera, pali mfundo imodzi: Kugonana mosagwirizana kumakhudza chifaniziro cha mwamuna ndi mkazi. Munthu wamalonda akunyengerera ndi mnzake yemwe akukambirana naye sakuwoneka moipa kuposa iyeyo. Mzimayiyo, yemwe amamuyang'anitsitsa, komanso mkazi wachikondi, amataya mfundo zingapo m'maso mwa ena nthawi yomweyo. Choncho, pankhani zodyera, lamulo lofunika ndilo kuthetsa vutoli. Musatenge zizindikiro za chidwi pazokambirana ndi misonkhano, ngati mkazi sakufuna kuti mawu ake awoneke osakhulupirira. Muyenera kukhala ndi mphamvu zowonongeka poyesa kukopana, kuyesera kuganizira za aliyense pazochitikazo.
Kudziwa mafunso awa osavuta a machitidwe a zamalonda kudzakuthandizani kupewa mavuto ambiri kuntchito komanso mu bizinesi yanu.