Kulankhulana
Mawu opweteka awa amasonyeza, molingana ndi dikishonale ya maganizo, "kuthekera kukhazikika ndi kusunga maubwenzi oyenera ndi anthu ena. Kuyankhulana kwabwino kumakhala kofanana: kukwanitsa kumvetsetsa bwino mabwenzi, kumvetsetsa bwino momwe zinthu zilili komanso nkhani yolankhulirana (kutsimikizirika mozama kumvetsetsa mkhalidwewu kumathandiza kuthetsa mavuto, kumatsimikizira kukwaniritsa zolinga ndi kugwiritsa ntchito bwino chuma). Kusukulu izi sizinaphunzitsidwe: ntchito yaikulu ya achinyamata ndikulankhulana, ndiye malo ena, akatswiri, pang'onopang'ono akubwera patsogolo. Ndipo kuyankhulana kumakhala kovuta kwambiri komanso kofunika: Timadziwa kuti sitifunikira kukonda aliyense ndi aliyense, timapeza kalembedwe kathu, timadziŵa omwe tikufuna kukhala mabwenzi, ndi omwe ali okwanira kuti azikhala bwino.
Ngati mutakhala ndi moyo wachikulire simungalekerere kutsutsidwa, kuchokera kwa yemwe amachokera, simungathe kumulembera kwa munthu wachilendo, osakhoza kuchotsa osowa osowa ndikuthandizira zofunikira, osadziwa kukambirana - mwinamwake, ndi luso loyankhulana lomwe mulibe wapanga. "Amachizidwa" ndi maphunziro apadera ndi maphunziro.
Maganizo oyenera
Kusukulu, sindinathe kuphunzira nthawi zambiri za ma verb English kwa nthawi yaitali - mpaka mphunzitsi atatenga chizindikiro pa bolodi momwe onse analiri, ndipo panalibe ambiri a iwo. Ku yunivesite, sindinathe kumaliza kuwerenga "Zaka 100 Zokha" pamene ndinaganiza zojambula mtengo wamtundu wa banja la Buendia - ndipo pambuyo pake panalibe chisokonezo m'maina omwe anandichititsa kusangalala nawo.
Maphunziro amatipatsa ife mwayi wozindikira dziko ngati dongosolo la mgwirizano, momwe zochita zonse ziri ndi zotsatira zake - kotero maulamuliro agwera wina ndi mnzake. Kawirikawiri, sayansi iliyonse sitingamvetsetse mpaka mapeto, ngati simumvetsa momwe zimagwirira ntchito komanso momwe zimagwirira ntchito - monga momwe zimakhalira. Ngati muwona ntchito ya akatswiri ofufuza mabuku - Holmes kapena Poirot - zikuwoneka kuti amangobweretsa ungwiro kuti amvetse mgwirizano pakati pa zinthu, anthu ndi zochita.
Zoonadi, ntchito ya woyang'anira kapena, mwachitsanzo, wofufuza zachuma - awa ndi aerobatics, omwe aliyense sangathe. Koma ngati inu ndi lero simukuzindikira dziko lonse lapansi, koma malo anu akuchita ngati chisokonezo chenichenicho ndikuganiza kuti kukumbukira kukutsogolerani chifukwa mumadziwa njira imodzi yokumbukira-kusokoneza, zikutanthauza kuti malingaliro omwe sanagwire ntchito . Izi zikukonzedwanso mwina ndi maphunziro owonjezera omwe ali ndi aphunzitsi abwino, kapena odzikonda komanso odzikonda okha.
Kupititsa patsogolo
Kumadzulo, luso limeneli ndi losavuta - limasankhidwa kusankha maphunziro ndi masemina pampempha wophunzirayo. Timalandira kuchokera ku Soviet system nthawi zina zimakhala ndi zinthu zambiri zomwe sizikuwonekera kwa wina aliyense komanso chifukwa chake zikufunikira, komanso nthawi ndi zinthu zomwe amafunikira kuti azigwiritsa ntchito. Kuti mumvetse zomwe zili zofunika kwa inu komanso ngati diploma yofiira ya kuyesayesa kugwiritsira ntchito kuyesa ndi kudutsa osati zopanda malire kapena kukonda ndalama zokhazokha ndi ntchito yomwe si ana onse a sukulu, omwe amasintha kuti apeze sukulu yabwino kuti apeze sukulu pawokha, amayendetsa. Koma, monga lamulo, ife tikuyandikira chisankho cholandira maphunziro apamwamba apamwamba kale ndi mutu wozizira, pozindikira kuti tikufuna kutenga izi ndi chifukwa chake. Koma nanga bwanji ngati zaka zisanu za moyo zatha kale?
Ngati simunaphunzire kumvetsetsa zosowa zanu ndikumvetsetsa zomwe zili zofunika kwambiri kwa inu, ndi zomwe mumasowa kwambiri, ndi zomwe mungakane (izi zikukhudzana ndi ntchito ndi anthu), ndipo nthawi zambiri amalola ena kuthetsa izi Mafunso paokha - zikutanthauza kuti ndi nthawi yokonza zofunika. Choyamba, muyenera kungotenga pepala ndi kufotokoza za tsogolo lanu muzaka zisanu, kenako ganizirani zomwe mukufuna kuti mukwanilitse. Pomwe pali cholinga, zofunikira zimayikidwa mosavuta.
Kusamalira nthawi
"Nthawi Management", kapena nthawi yosamalira, ndizo zomwe ophunzira onse alibe. Usiku umangoyamba nthawi yophunzira kapena kukamaliza maphunziro, amatsenga amatha kudziwa nthawi ya semester tsiku limodzi popanda chakudya, koma ndi malita asanu a khofi (ndipo mumasakaniza khofi nthawi yomweyo ndi Pepsi-Cola kuti musagone usiku usanasanafike)? - Inde, chikondi, koma zimangowonetsa kuti simungathe kusamalira nthawi komanso semesita yonse sizinaphunzire maphunziro ndi luso la akatswiri, koma chinachake chosagwirizana ndi kuphunzira, kaya chikuyenda pansi pa mwezi, kukambirana ndi foni ndi chibwenzi Chachiwiri, gulu limodzi ndi ophunzira anzathu, kapena ankafuna kuthetsa funso wosatha: "Bwanji kuitana?" Inde, popanda inayake m'mbuyomo kasamalidwe nthawi sizigwira ntchito - ndi sangakhoze kumvetsedwa popanda prioritizing zomwe ndi ofunika kuthera nthawi wapatali.
Luso la kupambana, lomwe silikusowa ife, amene amapereka lipoti kapena lipoti lapachaka asanu mphindi isanakwane kutha, sichibadwa konse kuchokera ku jini iliyonse-yomwe ikhoza kuphunziridwa. Mabuku amalembedwa (mwachitsanzo, "Drive Drive: Tingasamalire Bwanji Kukhala ndi Kugwira Ntchito" ndi Gleb Arkhangelsky) ndipo maphunziro apadera ndi maphunziro amapangidwa, nthawi zambiri phindu la makampani omwe tiyenera kugwira ntchito. Mwanjira ina sizomveka kuti olemba ntchito akudera nkhaŵa nthawi yathu kuposa ifeyo, simukuganiza?
Maluso afufuzidwe
Diploma yanga ya filologist sinatanthawuze ngakhale pang'ono kuti ndikudziwa kuti ndingayikane bwanji ichi kapena comma, koma ndikudziwa kuti ndi zotanthauzira zotani ndi mabuku omwe angatanthauzire kulamulira. Sikoyenera kusunga zonse zokhudza ntchito yanu pamutu mwanu - ndikokwanira kumvetsetsa komwe mungapeze komanso zomwe mungaphunzire. Mwamwayi, osati ku yunivesite iliyonse izi zimaphunzitsidwa - tiyeni tinene, za chitsimikizo chotere cha sayansi, ngati mabuku osamveka, ndinadabwa ndikuphunzira pokhapokha pokonzekera kulondolera diploma. Kukhoza kufufuza ndi kupeza kumapanga maziko abwino a maphunziro aumwini: simungathe kuwerenga mabuku onse ofunikira ku yunivesite (ndipo nthawi zina sizingatheke), koma mukhoza kubwerera ku pulogalamuyi ndi kudzaza "mabowo" ndikuwonjezera mbali zina za chidziwitso chanu. Ndipo pofuna kukhalapo bwino pamsika wogwira ntchito ndi kusunthira ntchito, muyenera kudziwa zomwe zikuchitika m'ntchito yanu.
Inde, injini zofufuzira ndizo mthandizi wathu wokhulupirika (ngakhale muyenera kuzigwirizanitsa), koma ndi bwino pamene simukuwoneka mwachisawawa, koma muzinthu zowona. Mungathe kuyankha funso la mnzanu kapena akuluakulu: "Sindikudziwa izi, koma ndikudziwa komwe angapezeke"? Ngati sichoncho - ndiye kuti tiyambe kuyambira pa intaneti yomweyi kuti tipangire malo osungira eni ake.
Maluso Okambirana
M'mayunivesites apakatikati, iwo ankakonda kwambiri mtundu woterewu wa ntchito monga kukangana. Pa nthawi yomweyi, ophunzira omwe adagwira nawo ntchito sankamamatira kumalo owonetsera, koma adaphunzira kusankha mfundo zolondola ndikupanga zolankhula zawo kuti zitsimikizire. Kotero, mwa njira, mawu akuti "woimira mdierekezi" adawoneka: wotchedwa wotsutsa adasankhidwa kukhala wokamba nkhani kuti ateteze maganizo awo. M'dziko lamakono, ambiri angakhale othandiza kuti athe kumangirira mawu omveka bwino, kufotokoza maganizo awo ndi kutsutsana nawo, ndikumvetsera kwa mdani mpaka mapeto ndipo nthawi zonse kumbukirani kuti pali malingaliro osiyana. Zokwanira kupita ku intaneti iliyonse kukumbukira ndi kuusa moyo mawu a Voltaire: "Sindimagwirizana ndi zomwe mumakhulupirira, koma ndikupatsani moyo wanga kuti muwafotokozere."
Ponena za kukwanitsa kulemba analemba Dale Carnegie, luso lomweli limagwiritsidwa ntchito kunthambi yonse ya mapulogalamu a psychology - neyrolinguistic, kutchuka kwa maphunziro a chikhalidwe kumakula chaka chilichonse. Pitirizani kuwonjezera luso limeneli kuti muzimvetsera omvera, ngakhale mutagwirizana naye, musapite kwa anthu otentha ndipo musaganize kuti cholinga cha zokambirana ndi kupambana pa mtengo uliwonse.
Kudziwa zambiri
Sikofunika kokha kuti masewera asonyeze. Masiku ano, pamene Webusaiti Yadziko Lonse ikukuthandizani kuti mupeze chidziwitso chirichonse pododometsa phokoso, zikuwoneka kuti chidziwitso chakhala chopanda phindu. Komabe, ngakhale simukusewera "Kodi? Ali kuti? Ndi liti? ", Erudition akuwonjezerabe mfundo kwa inu ngati interlocutor yosangalatsa ndi katswiri waluso. Chidziwitso chodziwitsa nzeru ndi luso, pamodzi ndi luso la kulingalira, chimatithandizanso ife, kuphatikizapo, kuti tisagonje ndi mantha. Erudition ndi yabwino kwambiri mu kampani ndi luso lofufuza ndikupeza zambiri. Chinthu chachikulu - musaiwale mfundo zofunika nthawi yomweyo tsamba lidatsekedwa.
Mwamwayi, luso limeneli ladzaza mosavuta - pamaso pa chikhumbo chofuna kuphunzira ndi kuphunzira zatsopano, chidwi cha dziko lapansi, chomwe chikuwoneka kuti chiri ndi ana okha. Moyo ndi chinthu chosangalatsa kwambiri, ndipo pamene tiphunzira zambiri, zimakhala zosangalatsa kwambiri. Ndiponsotu, kufunika kwa chidziwitso sikungogwiritsidwe ntchito kokha, komabe ndi chisangalalo chopeza china chatsopano, mopanda chithunzithunzi cha anthu chomwe sichingatheke. Tinayenda mlengalenga chifukwa chakuti kwa zaka mazana ambiri tinalota kuphunzira zambiri za nyenyezi.