Ziribe chifukwa chake, kukakamiza mkazi kukwaniritsa mapamwamba a ntchito, kupambana kwake kuli kochepa kuposa kupambana kwa amuna. N'zotheka kupereka zitsanzo za amayi madokotala, ndale, anthu amalonda amene apambana ambiri mu nkhondoyi. Koma nthawizonse kupambana pa ntchito ndi kofanana ndi kupambana mu moyo wa banja.
Mkhalidwe lero
Lero mu moyo wa mkazi wamakono, monga lamulo, pali maphunziro apamwamba, banja, ntchito yabwino. Koma kukwera kwa ntchito kwa mkazi nthawi zonse kumakhala kovuta. Pazigawo zake zofooka pagawo kawiri - kupereka kwa moyo wa banja ndi ntchito. Koma muzochitika zonsezi, kwa mkazi wa Chirasha, chinthu chachikulu ndicho kudzidzimva, kudzikula kwanu ndi kukwaniritsa zolinga zomwe zaikidwa. Komabe, nkoyenera kuzindikira kuvomereza kuti mkazi wogwira ntchito nthawizonse amalephera chinachake kwa banja lake. N'zoona kuti mungagwire ntchito yachinyumba, wosamalira nyumba, koma izi sizingakhale moyo wa banja pamene mayi akulera ana, osati munthu yemwe ali kunja. Kuwonjezera pamenepo, mkazi amakumana ndi zovuta zambiri kuntchito, nthawi zambiri sathandizidwa, koma mosiyana, deta yapansi ndi kusokonezeka maganizo zimadodometsa. Amuna amawunika ngati "chida chofooka", ndipo zimatengera khama lalikulu kuti zitsimikizire.
Maudindo ndi maudindo a amayi
Inde, pali mabanja omwe maudindo aumunthu a amuna ndi akazi asintha pang'ono. Pankhaniyi, mkazi akhoza kudzipereka yekha kuntchito, kupereka ntchito kwa mwamuna wake. Kenaka udindo wawo waukulu ukutengedwa mopepuka, ndipo palibe mikangano kaya m'banja kapena kuntchito.
Koma mulimonsemo, kupambana kwa mkazi nthawi zonse kumayesa mphamvu za ubale. N'zosadabwitsa kuti akatswiri a zaumidzi amanena kuti akazi abwino ndi ambiri pakati pa akazi osakwatiwa. Sikuti aliyense angathe kulekerera yekha ndi bizinesi yomwe ili ndi mphamvu komanso mphamvu.
Mwamwayi, zenizeni za moyo wamakono ndizo zomwe nthawi zambiri mkazi amakakamizika kugwira ntchito kuti apeze moyo wabwino wa banja lake (ndi aang'ono okha azimayi omwe amasankha ntchito yokha kuti akwaniritse). Pachifukwa ichi, kupindula bwino kwa ntchitoyi n'kofunika, koma kumakhalanso misozi mzimayi. Ndipo ana samvetsa nthawi zonse zochita za amayi awo. Ndipo, pofika pamadera ena, mkaziyo akuyamba kukayikira ngati zochita zake zinali zomveka, monga zikuwonekera kale?
Ukwati ndi ntchito
Azimayi ena amaima pakati pa kusankha "banja ndi ntchito" chifukwa chosiyana. Ukwati ndi kubadwa kwa ana zimawabweretsera chisangalalo choyamba ndi zina zabwino m'moyo. Komano kukonda ndi kukakamiza kulankhulana kumapangitsa kuti ntchito zapakhomo ndi moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku zikhale zachizolowezi. Ndiyeno mkaziyo akuganiza kuti yankho la mavuto ake ndi kukula kwa ntchito. Amapeza ntchito kapena amapita kusukulu, kupitiriza kukwaniritsa maudindo a banja. Komano sizimayima nkhawa, kuphunzira ndi ntchito zimakhala zofanana monga momwe banja linkachitira. Zopambana mu ntchito sizikuwonetsedwa, banja limasokonezeka ndipo chinthu chokha chomwe tingayembekezere muzochitikazi ndikumvetsa chisoni ndi kutopa kwa moyo. Ndibwino kuti, ngati pali munthu wanzeru ndi wachikondi pafupi ndi inu yemwe angathe kuthandizira ndikuthandizani kuthetsa vutoli pakapita nthawi: lolani ntchitoyi ikhale njira yodzikongoletsera, njira yodzidziwitsa nokha, mwambo wodzisangalatsa, wopita kuntchito yapamwamba. Pomwepo mungathe kuyembekezera chisangalalo cha iye ndi kumvetsetsa pakati pa banja.
Zikhulupiriro Zokhudza Moyo Wa Banja
Ziribe kanthu momwe akazi akutsutsana ndi zosiyana, simungathe kudzipereka kwathunthu kugwira ntchito popanda kuwononga banja. Zonsezi ndi nthano zomwe zimawoneka ndi amayi omwe akuwopa kuvomereza kuti zolinga zawo zogwira bwino panthawi yomweyo pazigawo ziwiri zagwa. Mmodzi mwa mbali zonse za moyo akuvutika, ngati kulimbika kwa ntchito kumagwiritsidwa ntchito kumbali inayo. Choncho, mkazi wamakono ayenera kuika patsogolo payekha - chofunika kwambiri, banja kapena ntchito. Ndipo molingana ndi izi mumapeza "golidi" kutanthauza, pamene banja ndi ntchito zidzakhala zosangalatsa. Ena amapeza kupambana koyamba mu malo ogwira ntchito ndipo kenako amalenga banja. Chabwino, mwinamwake iyi ndi njira yabwino.
Koma ngati izo zinachitika kuti pa zifukwa zosiyana muyenera kugwirizanitsa banja ndi ntchito, ndiye yesetsani kutsatira zotsatizana za mayankho a maganizo.
Choyamba , ndipo, mwinamwake, chinthu chachikulu - osatsutsa ntchito ya banja komanso mosiyana. Lolani zimbalangondo ziwirizi zikugwirizana bwino.
Chachiwiri - kusiya nthawi yogwira ntchito, ndi nthawi yaulere - kwa banja. Gwiritsani ntchito maola amtengo wapatali mmawa ndi sabata, nthawi yamadzulo ndi tchuthi ndi ana. Matenda awo ovuta ayenera kupeza kumvetsa kwanu, khalani ndi nthawi yoti mumvetsere ana anu. Aloleni amvetsereni ndikumvetsetsa chifukwa chake mukukakamizidwa kuti mugwirizane ntchito ndi banja.
Chachitatu - musazengereze kusintha gawo la ntchito zapakhomo kwa okondedwa anu. Kusamba kwapafupipafupi ndi kuchapa zovala nthawi yomwe ana amakhala otanganidwa kapena akugona kapena kuchita nawo anawo. Ndi bwino kukhala mbuye woipa kuposa amayi ndi amayi oipa. Nthawi zambiri, mungagule munthu amene akubwera mnyumbamo.
Ganiziraninso momwe mumaonera ntchito yanu, kodi nkofunika kugwira ntchito nthawi zonse? Mwina ndi bwino kungotenga nthawi ya pakhomo?
Posakhalitsa kusintha mavuto otha msinkhu ndi kupatukana kwa moyo wanu kumapangidwe awiri si kosavuta, koma n'zotheka. Zosangalatsa kwambiri, ngati mavuto otere sakuwuka. Ngati ndinu mmodzi mwa amayi okondwa omwe sakana chirichonse kwa banja lawo ndipo apambana bwino mu ntchito zawo - zikondwerero! Ndiwe mmodzi wa ochepa. Koma ngati chinachake sichiri kukuthandizani - musataye mtima, kumbukirani kuti nthawi zonse mumakhala njira yothetsera vuto lililonse. Mukungoyenera kumwetulira ndi kuwona dziko kuchokera kumalo osiyana.