Azimayi ambiri amagwira ntchito m'magulu a amuna ndikudziwiratu kuti zimakhala zovuta bwanji kuvomereza amuna awo ntchito kuti akonze ntchito ndi kukwaniritsa kuwonjezeka kwa nthawi yaitali. Amuna nthawi zambiri amadziona okha ndi anzawo anzawo kuti akhale ochenjera, oyenerera, ogwira ntchito, komanso sakufuna kuzindikira kuti akazi ogwira nawo ntchito samawavomereza.
Kuntchito, akazi amafunika kuchita bizinesi mwanjira imeneyi, nthawi zonse akumverera chidani chosavuta kuchokera kwa anzawo. Komabe, pali njira zingapo zomwe zingathandize ophwanya anzanu kuti akhale oponderezana nawo:
1. Onetsani maganizo pang'ono.
Amuna samalola "zosafunikira" m'maso mwawo, makamaka kuntchito. Kuphatikiza apo, mayi yemwe nthawi zambiri amawawonetsa, amalingalira mkazi wonyansa. Kuti musamawononge mbiri yanu ya bizinesi, khalani ololera, musati muchitire kuwonongeka kwanu. Mwachitsanzo, ngati mukuganiza kuti mwanyozedwa, onetsetsani makumi awiri, lankhulani ndi wozunza mwachidwi, muyimire. Chilichonse chimachitika, usadandaule, zochitika zoterezi zimakumbukiridwa kwamuyaya.
2. Sonyezani malingaliro anu moyenera.
Amuna amalemekeza akazi abwino, koma ambiri sawakonda, amakhudza kwambiri kudzidalira kwa amuna. Choncho, ngati mukufuna kudzikonda nokha mu gulu lachimuna, malingaliro ndi odzichepetsa kwambiri kuti anzanu azikuyamikirani, komanso alibe chifukwa chochitira mantha. Zonse mwa malangizo anu, ngakhale zogwirizana kwambiri, amamudziwa ndi gawo la zolakwika. Pa chifukwa chomwechi, munthu yemwe amakuona kuti ndiwe mpikisano sangafanane ndi zochitika zake ndi iwe, kuti iwe usakhale wochenjera kuposa iye.
3. Phunzirani kumvetsera.
Mayi mu gulu la anthu ayenera kuphunzira kumvetsera zambiri, kuti akhale ndi nthawi yomvetsera ndi kumvetsa malingaliro a anzawo anzawo, kuti awone ndi kuwakumbukira. Ngati mumvetsetsa yemwe ali mu timu ya abambo, mukhoza kupeza njira ya munthu aliyense payekha.
4. Musalole kuyankha kwanu ntchito.
Zimadziwika kuti akazi amakhala omvera ndipo nthawi zambiri amakhala opanda mavuto poyerekezera ndi "amuna opanda pake". Pachifukwachi, amuna amagwiritsa ntchito izi, kuyankhula ndi zopempha zosiyana ndi ntchito, zomwe iwowo safuna kukwaniritsa kapena ndiulesi. Chotsatira chake, kwa mkazi izi zingayambitse kusokoneza, ndipo amakoka khofi tsiku lililonse, kusamba makapu kapena kupanga gulu lonse lolemba. Phunzirani kuyankha mwakachetechete kukana pempho lomwe silikugwirizana ndi zomwe mukufuna.
5. Sungani chithumwa chanu.
Chikondi ndi chida chapadera chimene mkazi aliyense ali nacho, koma pamalo ogwira ntchito ayenera kugwiritsidwa ntchito mwachindunji. Chovala chokongola, kudzipangira komanso kupatsa "m'chiuno" sichidzakuthandizani kuti mukhulupirire pakati pa anzanu, chifukwa mu malo ogwira ntchito akuwoneka mwa inu osati amayi ambiri monga akatswiri, ndipo zizoloŵezizi sizikhoza ngakhale kuzindikira.
Ndi bwino kugwiritsira ntchito zigawo zoterezi monga makhalidwe abwino, zosangalatsa, kukwanitsa kunyamula mokwanira pakati pa anthu komanso kusonyeza kudzidalira.
6. Samalani ndi kukonda ena kuntchito.
Amuna ena pantchito yolimbana ndi akazi amagwiritsa ntchito masewera olimbitsa thupi. Iwo amadziwa kuti mkazi, wokonda kwambiri, amadziwa mosamalitsa. Mkhalidwe uwu, iye amalephera kukhala maso, ndipo munthuyo amagwiritsa ntchito mosavuta, mwachitsanzo, akudzipangira yekha mosamveka poyimira mokweza maganizo. Ndipo amuna omwe akunyengerera ndi kukonda ena, angakhumudwitse, ndikuyesera kukumana nanu nthawi zina. Choncho, muzichita masewera olimbitsa thupi kuntchito.
7. Musamanamize ndipo musakweze nkhani "zachikazi" pokambirana.
Kulankhulana ndi anzako panthawi yopuma kapena masana a masana, ndithudi, simungathe kuyankhula za ntchito, komabe musalephere kukambirana nkhani za "akazi": za kuphika ndi ntchito zina zapakhomo, za moyo wanu komanso za ena, za umoyo ndi zodzoladzola. Kumbukirani, abambo anzanu sakukudziwani inu ngati bwenzi (ngakhale ngati gulu likulumikizana), nthawi zonse amayesa makhalidwe anu. Inu simukufuna kuti muyesedwe ngati miseche, ndipo musamakhulupirire bizinesi yaikulu.
8. Khalani katswiri, nthawi zonse phunzirani ndi kusintha.
Mzimayi yemwe amagwira ntchito mu gulu lachimuna (kapena wina aliyense) sangadziteteze kuti adziŵe bwino zapadera, kukula, ndikukula. Ngakhale gulu lachiwawa limayamikira ntchito yeniyeni ndipo pang'onopang'ono imayamba kukulemekezani monga wogwira ntchito yofunikira.
Choncho, mayi wogwira ntchito mu gulu la amuna ayenera kuphunzira zambiri: kuteteza zofuna zake, osati kusonyeza zofooka, kumanga ubale wabwino ndi anzako komanso kukhala ndi udindo pa kukula kwa ntchito zawo ndi ntchito zawo. Pankhaniyi, sangathe kumangokhalira kumuthandiza mnzanuyo, koma kumuthandizanso kuti akhale mnzanu kuntchito kapena mumamuyamikira.