Chachiwiri, ntchitoyi imakulolani kuti mukumva kuti mukufunidwa komanso mumakhala ndi chidaliro. Ndipo chachitatu, zimakhutiritsa zosowa zathu - mukulankhulana tsiku ndi tsiku. Amuna sali okhudzidwa kwambiri ndi maubwenzi ndi antchito - ndizofunika kwambiri chifukwa cha ntchito. Ndipo ubale wawo udzakhala wamalonda komanso pragmatic.
Akazi , mmalo mwake, amayamikira ndondomeko yokhayokha, ndipo zovuta mu timu ya amai zomwe zimayenda mobwerezabwereza zimawathandiza kuti azikhala bwino ndi maofesi akuluakulu ndi maofesi.
Samalani, njoka! Posachedwapa mwasintha ntchito. Munakumana ndi gulu lachimwemwe la amayi omwe ali ndi zinthu zachilendo. Chirichonse chinayenda bwino, mpaka mutayamba kuyimba bwana. Choyamba adakutamandani chifukwa cha anthu onse, kenaka anatumizidwa ku seminala yophunzitsira, ndipo tsopano akukuuzani inu ngati maudindo. Onse ogwira ntchito mwadzidzidzi anaima mwadzidzidzi ndi inu, zizolowezi zachabechabe ndi miseche zinakhala zachizolowezi, kumbuyo kumakhala kunong'oneza kwamuyaya.
Moyo wanu mu gulu la akazi omwe mulibe zovuta kumvetsetsa, sungathe kupirira, ndipo mukuganiza kwambiri kuchoka. Nchifukwa chiyani izi zikuyamba kudana ndi miseche, kuchokera pati, palimodzi ndi amayi okoma ndi okoma, pali ake ndi poizoni? Choyamba, ndi zachilendo kuti gulu la akazi likhale nsanje, nsanje, kupsa mtima, kukwiya. Ndipo, ngati theka limakhala lopweteka kwambiri (ndikupepesa, amuna) atatsimikizika kwambiri, timakonda kuwonetsa maganizo athu. Kuwonjezera pamenepo, inu nokha mukudziwa zomwe tikuyenera kuthana nazo: ntchito, nyumba, ana, mwamuna. Kotero nthawi ina-musandiimbe ine! Kungomatula. Chachiwiri, zambiri zimadalira mtsogoleri wa gulu ili lazimayi lomwe silingamvetsetse - izi ndi zofunika kwambiri kwa microclimate. Kawirikawiri, amai amatha kukonzekera kutsogolo pamaso pa chefina, omwe ali ndi timoyo ndi ziweto zawo. Chachitatu, vutoli likhoza kukhala lovuta ndi maonekedwe a munthu mmodzi yekha, amene akulimbana kwambiri ndi kuponyera zipolowe ndi miseche. Chachinayi, "njoka" zimakhazikitsidwa m'magulu a akazi, zomwe zilizonse sizikuyenda bwino: kaya ndizokwanira zowonjezera ntchito, kaya ndi malipiro ochepa omwe ali ndi ntchito zambiri, kapena ntchito yogawanitsa ntchito, ndi zina zotero. Mu gulu la amai lachizolowezi, komwe gulu la akatswiri ali ndi ntchito yokwanira komanso malipiro okwanira, izi zimachitika kawirikawiri.
Mgwirizano wa Akazi
Wakhala mukugwira ntchito mu gulu la akazi kwa zaka zingapo. Gulu lanu ndi laling'ono ndi lochezeka, palimodzi ndikukondwerera kubadwa ndi maholide, kupatsana wina ndi mzake zithunzithunzi zazing'ono, kubwerera kuchokera ku tchuthi. Pali, ndithudi, mikangano yaying'ono ndi zopanda pake, koma zimagwirizana ndi ntchito, ndipo motero zimathetsedwa mwamsanga. Pambuyo pa ntchito, nthawi zina mumapita ku cafe komanso kumwa khofi, kumbukirani mkangano ndi kuseka. Mungathe kunena kuti mwakhala banja logwirizana, kuti nthawi zonse mumvetsetse ndikuthandizidwa panthawi yovuta. Kotero nsanje, kukangana ndi miseche si nthawizonse chikhalidwe cha timu ya akazi? Chimachitika ndi njira ina?
Ndipo ndizoona - zimadalira anthu omwe amagwira ntchito pamodzi. Ndipo amayi amatha kugwira ntchito ndi kudzipatulira kwathunthu, zimakhala zosavuta kupeza chinenero chimodzi ndi kugwirizana, amakhala ochezeka komanso okoma mtima kusiyana ndi amuna. Chifukwa chake: Nthawi zonse mumatha kumvetsetsa ndi kumvetsetsa. Ngati muli ndi vuto kapena zovuta, amai adzatonthoza, kuwathandiza, ndipo ndithudi adzalowa m "mene mukufunikira kuchoka mofulumira; Kuphatikizanso momwe mungagwirizane ndi gulu la amai nthawi iliyonse (komanso opanda mlandu). Kuposa kuchiza genyantritis? Kapena mungapange bwanji saladi? Kodi mtundu wabwino wa kindergarten ndi uti? Kapena kodi kugulitsa kuli kuti? Palibe vuto! Pali yankho la funso lililonse; Mukadzabwera kuntchito, mudzadziwa nkhani zatsopano ndi miseche - amayi osawadziwa. Za moyo wa nyenyezi kapena dera lapafupi - ziribe kanthu. Mudzakhala ndi "mbiri" nthawi zonse. Mukudziwa, n'zotheka kulembetsa "pluses" kwa nthawi yaitali, choncho musataye mtima kuti mutha kupeza gulu lanu la amai, limene mungagwire ntchito mosavuta.
Kulowetsedwa kwa malamulo
Koma, ndithudi, musanyalanyaze malamulo a khalidwe "atsopano" mu timu, kuti musadye "kuyambira pachiyambi. Kumbukirani, ziribe kanthu momwe akumvera anyamata achichepere, onetsetsani nawo ndi kutsatira malangizo awa: Mukabwera ku gulu la amai, yang'anani pozungulira. Tengani malo osamalitsa ndipo mutha kumvetsa zomwe magulu omwe ali mmenemo ndi omwe amatsogolera gulu (mwa njira, izi sizingakhale nthawi zonse bwana); Zikuwoneka kuti pano pali malamulo ndi malamulo omwe sanalembedwe, omwe (makamaka poyamba) muyenera kuwatsatira; Musataya nthawi pa zokambirana zopanda kanthu, yesetsani kumvetsetsa maudindo anu ndi kupambana mu ntchito. Mvetserani zambiri, ndipo musanene;
Yesetsani kusangalatsa antchito anu: kutenga nawo mbali pazochitika zomwe zimagwira ntchito, ndikuthandizira kugwira ntchito zapakhomo (zowonjezera mbale kapena madzi maluwa); Pang'onopang'ono kukhazikitsani oyankhulana: kambiranani za inu nokha pokhapokha mukafunsidwa. Musachedwe kuyandikira kufikira mutasintha. Kutseguka momveka, monga kusungulumwa, kumabweretsa miseche, koma simukusowa. Mulimonsemo, nthawi ina idzapita kuti mukhale gulu la amai, ndipo antchito adzakuzoloŵerani. Ndiye zolephera zanu ndi zolephereka sizidzakhalanso zoonekeratu, mudzakhululukidwa zambiri ngati mutangokhalira kugwira ntchito komanso kulankhulana komwe kuli kofunika pa malo a ofesi. Mikangano ya zamagetsi imayesetsa kuthetsa nthawi yomweyo pakugwira ntchito, ndipo kukhala bwino bwino kuti asayambe. Ndipo tenga mawu akuti: "Lembani miseche yonse ikhale ine!" Ndipo kumbukirani lamulo lalikulu: kuntchito mukuyenera kugwira ntchito, ndipo musayambe kuwunikira ubalewu.
Kodi mungapereke chiyani kwa mkazi wamalonda? Mwa njira, mwachitsanzo, mudzakhala ndi zinthu zitatu zokha kapena maulendo oyendayenda: manicure atayikidwa mu chikopa cha chikopa kapena thumba la zikwama za chikopa. Wokongola kwambiri ndi mphatso ya siketi yachitsulo kuchokera kwa wokonza wotchuka. Nkhani zam'mutu ndizozikumbutsa mtundu wa mafuko.