Koma palinso "okonda" omwe, mwa malangizo onse ndi zoletsedwa, amatha kusunga ntchito yawo yeniyeni ndi tsogolo lawo. Iwo amapita ku cholinga chawo kupyolera mu zopinga zambiri, ndipo, pamapeto pake, amakwaniritsa zawo. Iwo ndi anthu okondwa. Amayamikira chisangalalo cha ena kuposa chuma chawo.
Mosakayika, ntchito ya mphunzitsi wa sukulu yapamwamba ndi ntchito yothetsera chikondi chenicheni! Sizitchuka kwambiri pakati pa achinyamata amakono. Pambuyo pake, ntchito ya aphunzitsi ndi yaikulu, ndipo malipiro ndi ochepa kwambiri. Koma tiyeni tiyankhule za anthu omwe akusangalala omwe adasankha kupereka moyo wawo kukulera ana.
Pali ntchito zamakono zokondweretsa zomwe zimapangitsa chisangalalo pakati pa iwo ozungulira. Namwino amamukonda chikondi, mphunzitsi woyamba ndiye kukumbukira kowala kwambiri, komanso kukoma mtima kwa aphunzitsi achikulire ndi chidwi, mayi wachiwiri.
Pamene munthu ayamba kuphunzira nzeru zapanyumba, amadabwa kuti ndizofunika bwanji kuti agwire ntchito ndi ana, zomwe zimawoneka zosavuta kwa osagwirizana. Ndipotu, ndani sangathe kusamalira mwanayo, kudyetsa, kuyenda, kuwerenga nkhaniyo, kumutu pamutu.
Izi zikutanthauza kuti izi si zokwanira. Kuwonjezera pa chidziwitso ndi luso, wina ayenera kukondana ndi ana. Ndipo pokhapokha, pamene "chikondi" chimayamba, ntchito yeniyeni imayamba ...
Ana amayamba kukonda mosavuta, koma kuti chikondi chawo chikhale chovuta kwambiri: iwo amafunika kuchitapo kanthu. Maganizo osaganiziridwa m'zaka za kusukulu akutha msanga, popanda tsatanetsatane. Chikondi kwa ana sichimalowetsa chinyengo chilichonse - amapeza kusiyana komweko. Ndipo chofunika kwambiri - mphunzitsi ayenera kukhala woyenera chikondi, musadandaule mwa ana, ngati palibe chilichonse chitayika. Zimakhala zovuta kukhala ndi mawonekedwe nthawi zonse, pansi pa zochitika za ana onse olemekezeka. Iwo ali osamala kwambiri, awa a sukulu.
Ndipo ichi ndi ntchito yodabwitsa! Kugwira ntchito ndi ana kumathandiza kuti munthu asonyeze zinthu zonse zabwino zomwe ali nazo: zikhalidwe ndi uzimu.
Ndikumvetsetsa, koma luso ... Nthawi zambiri malusowa alipo, koma osati nthawi zonse kuti atuluke nawo ku "siteji yaikulu": kuimba, koma mawu sali okoma, kulembera ndakatulo, koma kuti asakhale kusindikiza, kupanga manja, koma kuti asatumize ntchito zawo zogulitsa, ndi zina zotero. Ndipo mu sukulu yamakono, matalente onse odzichepetsa akhoza kukwaniritsidwa ndi aphunzitsi, chifukwa ana ndi oweruza abwino kwambiri. Amayamikira zonse zomwe sangathe kuchita. Matalente onse amatha, aliyense amapeza kugwiritsa ntchito ndikusangalatsa chimwemwe osati kwa inu nokha, koma kwa onse omwe akuzungulirani, komanso poyamba kwa ana. Ana adzayamikira ndakatulo ndi nthano, zojambula ndi nyimbo, ndizofunika kwambiri - malingaliro anu, chifukwa ali olota kwambiri padziko lonse lapansi.
Aphunzitsi ndi ntchito yodabwitsa. Kuwonjezera kwina ndikuti kumapereka mpata woyang'ana m'dziko la ubwana, dziko la mwanayo. Ndipo ngakhale "tonsefe tinachokera muubwana," koma timaiwala mwamsanga dziko lamatsenga, osamvetsetsa ana athu omwe. Dziko la ana liri losangalatsa kwambiri, lopanda malire ndi lolemera kuposa dziko lachikulire. Ntchito ya aphunzitsi sikuti iwononge chisokonezo ichi cha mwana, koma kuti ayanjanitse, ndiko kuti, aphunzitsi ayenera kulankhula ndi ana m'chinenero chimodzi, amvetse.
Ndipo potsiriza, kodi n'zotheka kuti ambiri azikondedwa, kulemekezedwa, chitsanzo chabwino, chabwino? Aphunzitsi a sukulu amatha kupezeka, chilichonse chimadalira iye.