Amuna samaganiza kuti akazi ndi ofanana. Iwo ali ndi lingaliro lodzimvera kwambiri pa akazi omwe amagwira nawo ntchito, kotero iwo amaweruzidwa kokha mwa mawonekedwe awo. Inde, amuna ali mwamtendere mwamtheradi ponena za amayi omwe amapereka ntchito yawo, ndiko kuti, amasindikiza, kupanga mapepala ndi zina zotero. Amagwiranso ntchito kwa amayi omwe ali pansi pa udindo wawo. Amaganizira mozama udindo wa mtsogoleri, ndipo akaziwa samapikisana nawo. Mu gulu lomwe muli amayi ochulukirapo, amuna amakhala pamodzi malinga ngati zonse zili m'manja. Koma amayamba kumva kuti ndi osowa pakati pa amai, omwe ali ofanana nawo pa chitukuko.
Pakalipano, akazi akupikisana kwambiri ndi amuna m'minda yawo. Amakhulupirira kuti ali ndi amuna omwe ali pa barolo imodzi, mwachitsanzo, akuyesera kulera malipiro awo. Amuna amayesetsa kupeŵa akazi oterewa mpaka pamtunda. Chifukwa cha ichi, amayi akhoza kukhala ochotsedwa pa gulu. Zonse zowathandiza nthawi zambiri zimadutsa, chifukwa amangoziphatikiza okha.
Koma, koposa zonse, abambo amatha kuchitanso nkhanza ndi khalidwe loipa la amayi. Izi zikhoza kuchitika mwachinyengo, mlanduwo kapena miseche. Chosaipitsitsa kwambiri ndi miseche ya chiwerewere. Kaŵirikaŵiri amakamba za momwe mkazi wapitira patsogolo mu ntchito yake - osati chifukwa cha malingaliro ake, koma kupyolera mu kama. Kotero ngati mkazi amapita patsogolo mu ofesi yake mofulumira, iye amakhala chinthu cha miseche.
Musanayankhe zochitika zotero, onetsetsani kuti khalidwe lalikulu ndi inu. Pambuyo pophunzira chikhalidwe ndi umunthu wa mdani wanu. Izi zidzakuthandizani kuthana nazo mofulumira. Ndi bwino kumuyankha ndi nthabwala, chifukwa zimachepetsanso mphamvu.
Mukhoza, ndithudi, kuyesera kukwaniritsa chinachake mwa kuthandizidwa ndi misonzi. Koma kuti agwiritse ntchito chinyengo ichi, amayi amagwira ntchito kamodzi kokha, ngati sichidzatengedwa ngati munthu yemwe sakudziwa momwe angapewere maganizo ake.
Pofuna kupewa zoterezi, onetsetsani kuti aliyense adziwiratu zomwe zakwaniritsidwa. Komabe, musaiwale za chithandizo cha ubale wabwino ndi abambo kuntchito: ndi bwana ndi anzanu. Mwachitsanzo, ngati aliyense mu gulu lanu amakonda masewera, ndiye kuti muyenera kudziwa zatsopano zomwe zikuchitika m'dera lino. Nthawi zina zimathandiza kutembenukira kwa amuna kuti awathandize. Koma muyenera kuchita ndi amuna, monga ogwira nawo ntchito, osagwiritsa ntchito udindo wa mkazi wofooka. Ndipo phindu la utsogoleri muyenera kulingalira patsogolo. Mwachitsanzo, ngati pali amai ochepa mu timu yanu, ndiye mukufunikira chiyani?
Amayi ambiri amakumana ndi chiwawa cha amuna. Mitundu yake ya mawonetseredwe ikhoza kukhala yosiyana kwambiri: zizindikiro, zolemba, zoyesera kuti zigwirizane, komanso, kuyesa kugwiriridwa. Izi zikhoza kuyembekezedwa kuchokera kwa anzako ndi abwana. Mwamuna amene ali mu mkhalidwe umenewu samatsogoleredwa ndi zofuna zogonana, koma ndi chikhumbo chake chokhala wamkulu.
Akazi, monga lamulo, ndi amanyazi kwambiri kutsutsana ndi amuna, osafuna kupanga phokoso. Koma pamene chikho cha chipiriro chake chidzasefukira, ndiye iye akhoza kuchita mochuluka mopanda phokoso, akudzimverera yekha.
Mmene mungachitire zinthu zofanana? Njira yosavuta kuti mukhale otetezeka ndiyo kuyamba kuteteza zonsezi. Kwa nthawi yoyamba, sintha mutu wa zokambiranazo. Komabe, ngati malingaliro amenewa ndi ofewa, ndiye kuti muyenera kuyankha mwanjira yomweyo, popanda kumukhumudwitsa. Kawirikawiri khalidwe la amuna pankhaniyi ndilochibadwa. Koma ngati zowonjezera zikupitirira, ndiye zowonjezerani kuti mukhoza kulembera kalata kwa bwana wanu kapena kulembera zokambirana zanu pa dictaphone, yomwe filimuyo idzapezekanso ndi loya.