1. Mpikisano
Chinthu choyamba chimene chimagwira maso anu mu timu ndi mpikisano wa anzanu kuti tipeze malo padzuwa. Sizinatchulidwe ngati zikanakhala ngati ambiri mwa antchito anali amuna, koma izi sizikutanthauza kuti mpikisano palibe. Akazi amakonda kuoneka bwino, kuchita bwino. Zikuwoneka, zotsalira zina. Koma chidziwitso cha mpikisano wa amayi ndikuti amaonetsetsa kuti sakuchita bwino, koma mpikisanowo ndi woipa. Choncho, izi zimakhudza ntchitoyi molakwika.
Miseche
Azimayi sangaganizire popanda kukambirana kwambiri. Kukambirana kumatenga nthawi yochuluka kwa amayi, makamaka mbali zawo zimakambirana, achibale, mndandanda, abwana ndi zina zonse. Miseche pamagulu amodzi imakula mofulumira - zimapangitsa winawake kuti amvepo kanthu, monga malingaliro ndi malingaliro amatha kufika malire onse osalingalika ndi osaganizirika. Kawirikawiri miseche imabweretsa mikangano pakati pa anzanu okha, komanso pakati pa ogwira nawo ntchito ndi akuluakulu. Choncho, kuti mupulumuke mu gulu la amai, muyenera kutseka pakamwa panu, musalankhulane mochuluka ndipo musawerenge kukambirana komwe mwakumva.
3. Ziphuphu
Kuti akwaniritse zolinga zawo, amai amakhala okonzekera zambiri. Koma ndizovuta kwambiri. Kulunjika ndi kwina kwa akazi mofananamo ndi amuna, kotero gulu lazimayi ndi malo abwino kwambiri. Kunja chirichonse chimawoneka ngati changwiro - aliyense akusekerera wina ndi mzake, aliyense akuyesera kuthandiza, aliyense ndi waubwenzi. Koma ndibwino kuti wina apunthwitse, alakwitseni, mwamsanga pamene amaika pamalo pomwe akuwoneka mu kuwala kosakondweretsa. Mchere wonse suyenera kujowina mgwirizanowu uliwonse, koma kuti usalowerere. Ziribe kanthu momwe mukufunsidwira kuthandizira, kanizani. Kwa otayika nthawi zonse mumakhala munthu wodziwa zambiri, choncho bizinesi yanu ndi phwando.
4. Nsanje
Nsanje ya amayi imadziwika kwa ambiri. Musaganize kuti akabwera kuntchito, antchito amasiya maganizo awo pakhomo. Gulu la akazi ndi malo omwe nthawi zonse amakhalapo munthu yemwe ali ndi malaya abwino a ubweya, mwamuna ndi wokoma mtima, ndipo malipiro ake ndi apamwamba. Kawirikawiri kaduka kawirikawiri kumayambitsa kusokoneza. Koma akhoza kupindula mwachindunji kuti zitheke. Mwachitsanzo, ngati mutanyalanyazidwa pazifukwa zina ndipo simulitenge kwa nthawi yayitali, mugawire masiku osungika bwino, nthawi yanu yopuma. Ndikofunika kufotokoza momveka bwino kuti popanda kusonkhana ndi anzanu, simukuvutika. Mwinamwake, mudzaitanidwa nthawi yotsatira, ngakhale kuti simungasangalale, pamene anzanu akung'ung'udza. Koma musapitirire. Ngati muli ndi nsanje pazinthu zambiri, ndiye kuti amayi sangakhale osasamala za njira ndipo adzapeza njira yakuwonongera moyo wanu. Choncho, dziwani chiyeso ndipo musadzitamande konse.
5. Mvula yamkuntho.
Potsata choletsa, gulu lachikazi ndi lochepa kwambiri kwa amuna. Koma izi sizosadabwitsa. Pa vuto limodzi m'banja, lina linasankhidwa ndi bwana, PMS wachitatu, chigawo chachinai, chisanu chachisanu chikusudzulana, chachisanu ndi chimodzi chikukwatirana - zilakolako zikuwotcha, monga mabukhu a TV ku Brazil. Choncho, chifukwa cha chinyengo chachikulu chingakhale chinthu chaching'ono. Zikuwoneka kuti amayi odekha ndi oganiza bwino sangathe kuyang'ana nyamakazi, koma pazifukwa zina amalola. Njira yanu yokha ndiyo kutetezera, musagwe chifukwa cha nyambo. Ngati muwona kuti mayiyo sali mu mzimu ndipo mwachiwonekere akuyang'ana chifukwa chodzipweteka munthu wina, ndiye kungochidutsa. Mulole kuti aziwotcha kuti amasulidwe kwa wina.
6. Kuperewera kwa malingaliro
Azimayi nthawi zambiri amachita mwachikhalidwe. Osati chifukwa chakuti sangakwanitse kuchita zinthu zomveka, koma chifukwa chakuti amatha kukhumudwa. Amuna nthawi zambiri amadandaula ndi khalidwe lawo. Gulu la azimayi limagwira ntchito malinga ndi malamulo ake, omwe simukufunikira kukhala nawo, ngakhale mutakhala mkazi. Khalani ngati iwo, ndipo musadzitsutse nokha kwa iwo. Nthawi zina nthawi zina zimakhala zovuta kwambiri, motero kusankha kwanu nthawi zovuta - kukhala osadziŵika kwambiri kuposa anzako. Zosatheka kufotokozera ndi kuchuluka zochita zanu zidzakhala chitetezo chodalirika chomwe chingakutetezeni ku zowawa ndi ntchito zachilendo.
Inde, zifukwa zomwe ambiri amakhulupirira kuti gulu la amayi ndi chilango chenichenicho, zambiri. Mungathe kutsutsana kapena kuvomereza, koma omwe kale anali nkhosa zakuda kusukulu, sukulu, masitolo komanso m'mabungwe ena, kumene gulu lonse ndilo akazi, amavomereza kuti sikungatheke kugwira ntchito nthawi zina. Chinthu chachikulu ndicho kukhala chete. Mukangotaya mtima, mudzakhala m'munda wa adani, kumene mungakhale ochepa. Komabe, n'zotheka kupanga malo abwino kuntchito, ziribe kanthu zomwe ogwira ntchitoyo ali, ziribe kanthu zomwe akugwirizana, ogwira ntchito. Perekani chitsanzo cha momwe mungagwirire ntchito ndi kuchitira ena. Anthu abwino sangawapweteke kwambiri amayiwo, ndipo mwinamwake kuti mwamsanga mudzakhala wokonda dziko lonse.