Ndayiwala za ena onse. Chifukwa chofuna kukhala wophunzira wabwino - nthawi zonse choyamba muzonse, mwakayiwala za kupumula. Kudzilola kuti mupumule pang'ono, simusangalala ndi kupumula, ndikudzimvera chisoni chifukwa cha "khalidwe losasamala." Ngati simungalole nthawi kusiya zosangalatsa, yesani kupuma mpumulo ngati ntchito yofunikira. Pamene munthu ali ndi vuto la nthawi, sangathe kugwira ntchito. Mwa njira, momwe mumagwiritsira ntchito nthawi yanu yopuma ikukamba za kupambana kwanu. Ndi chinthu chimodzi chogona pabedi kutsogolo kwa TV, ndi wina-kuti adzike. Nthawi yokwanira yaufulu, mwayi wopumula kumene mukufuna, ndi zolinga zomwe mungayesetse.
Woweruza kwambiri. Zoonadi, "wophunzira wopambana kwambiri" samangoganizira za ntchito, komanso malingaliro a maonekedwe, chisankho cha wokondedwa m'moyo, kulera ana. "Society" kapena "kulemekeza" kwa ife kumapanga chikhalidwe, kulongosola kuunika kwa chidziwitso, zochita zathu. Koma chizindikirocho ndi chinthu chokhazikika. Kumbukirani mnzanu wa m'kalasi yemwe analibe "wabwino" ngakhale kuti anakumana ndi mavuto, chifukwa mu maphunzirowo anayamba ndege ... Ndipo ayenera kukhala woyamba pa zonse. Mwana wolemekezeka amafunika kuti wina amuvomereze ndipo amamukonda. Kodi ndizotheka kuti tsitsi likhale lopanda tsitsi ngati mayi anu akuyamika tsitsi lanu nthawi zonse? Choncho tiyenera kupanga masikiti abwino ndi kupanga mapulogalamu a tsitsi ovuta kuti tisakhumudwitse makolo. Pokonzekera cholinga china, yankhani funso lakuti: "Kodi ndikuchita ndani?" Mukangoyamba kuchita zofuna zanu, mudzawona kuti mudzakhutitsidwa ndi zotsatira zochepa. Ndipo simukusowa kuti mukhale wophunzira wabwino kwambiri ndipo musakhale woyamba pa chilichonse. Ngati sizinali malingaliro a abwenzi, mungakumane ndi msilikali wabwino yemwe anabwera ku ofesi yanu. Ndipo msiyeni iye asakhale ndi maphunziro apamwamba, koma iwe umamukonda iye kwenikweni. Iye ndi wanzeru, wokondwa, wokongola komanso wokonda osati inu nokha, ndinu otsimikiza za izo.
Black kapena yoyera. Mutadya mkate wochuluka, mumadzitcha nokha "ng'ombe", yomwe simungathe kukana; atalakwitsa mu lipoti - kudula, kumene kulibe chidwi. Inu mumakonda kukhala oyamba muzonse, simungakhululukire nokha zochepa, choncho nthawi zambiri mumakhutitsidwa nokha. Koma gaffes yaying'ono yomwe timayesetsa nthawi zonse - sitiyenera kulola kuti iwononge kudzidalira kwathu. Phunzirani kulandira nokha mosasamala kanthu za kupambana. Zokwanira kukhala nthawi zonse wophunzira wabwino kwambiri! Zokwanira kuti mukhale oyamba pazonse! Kukonda zophophonya zanu, kuwachitira iwo monga mbali zowala za umunthu, mudzakhala osangalala komanso osangalala. Metko akuti: "Kugonjetsa nokha ndiko kupambana kumene mwayi ulibe gawo." Richard Sheridan, wojambula wachingelezi wa Chingerezi.