Mayi wa banja.
Pali gulu la amayi omwe chifukwa cha khalidwe kapena kulera ndi masiku ano amaganiza kuti ntchito yaikulu ya mkazi ndi tanthauzo la moyo wake ndi banja, ndipo ntchito ndi mbali yachiwiri ya moyo yomwe ingathe kunyalanyazidwa mosavuta. Azimayi a ku Russia amene asankha banja nthawi zambiri amatsogoleredwa ndi maganizo amenewa.
Azimayiwa amathera nthawi yochuluka panyumba, nthawi zambiri amadya kuphika, kusowa nsalu, amakhala kapena amafuna ana awiri kapena angapo, ngati bajeti yatha. Ndi kwa amayi oterewa kuti munthu akhoza kubwera kudzalandira uphungu kapena Chinsinsi, ali ndi mayankho a mafunso onse okhudzana ndi moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku. Iwo amadziwa zomwe angadyetse mwamuna wake, kuti asasinthe momwe angachiritse katsi ndi momwe angakhalire mwana.
Azimayi aakazi a mtundu umenewu amabisika mozama kapena aiwalika. Choyamba, iwo akunyalanyaza, amayi, ana aakazi ndi alongo, ndiyeno abwenzi okha ndi akazi okha. Ichi ndi chotsatira chachikulu cha amayi a Russia a mtundu uwu. Nthawi zambiri, iwo alibe gawo la ulemu umene ulipo pakati pa anthu ovuta komanso odzimana kwambiri.
Njira ya Kumadzulo.
Si chinsinsi chomwe kwa zaka zambiri takhala tikuyesera kukhala ngati Azungu, kusintha moyo wathu ndi malingaliro, zofunikira ndi zolinga. Azimayi a ku Russia aja, omwe adapanga fanizo la banja lachimereka la ku America, amatsatira miyezo ya azungu.
Akaziwa ndi amayi omwe amachoka kuntchito ndipo nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi ntchito yabwino kuti azisamalira ana komanso kusamalira amuna awo. Akazi athu amayesetsa kuti asamangoganizira za miphika ndi mapeyala okhaokha, koma amatsatira chitsanzo cha amayi achimereka achimwemwe omwe ali ndi zolaula, zomwe nthawi zambiri zimakhala ndalama zina. Amadzidalira kwambiri, chifukwa amadziwa udindo wawo mosiyana. Iwo sali azimayi okha, koma aphunzitsi, ophika, odziwa zachuma ndi oganiza bwino m'maganizo mwa munthu m'modzi, samangofunika kuphika ndi kuyeretsa, koma amakonza bajeti yawo, kuthetsa mikangano ndi kukhazikitsa ndi kukonza zosangalatsa za banja.
Zomwe zimapindula ndi chithunzithunzi cha mayi wotereyu m'moyo wathu wa tsiku ndi tsiku, ndi kovuta kuweruza. Ponena za akazi oterewa sitinganene kuti moyo wawo wonse umagwirizana ndi zofunikira za banja, ngakhale kuti, ndizo banja lomwe liri lofunika pamoyo wawo.
Otaika ndi osocheretsa.
Nthawi zambiri pakati pa amayi a ku Russia, pali ena omwe anakana kugwira ntchito ndi kusamalira banja osati chifukwa cha zikhulupiliro kapena zofuna zawo, koma chifukwa cha ulesi kapena kusakhoza kudziwonetsera okha kumalo aliwonse. Anthu ambiri amayesa kukana zifukwa zomwe amai amakhala amasiye, koma gulu la amai limasiyana kwambiri ndi ena.
Iwo sangakhoze konse kutchedwa amayi abwino. Ngati ndalama za mwamuna mnyumba zawo zimapereka lamulo loti akapolo ayesetse, mzimayi ena safuna kapena sangakwanitse kugwira ntchito zapanyumba zosavuta. Kawirikawiri amakhala ndi zinthu zambiri zomwe sizigwirizana ndi banja komanso ana. Azimayiwa alibe kukhutira kapena kunyada chifukwa cha chikhalidwe chawo, popeza kuti ndizovuta kwambiri kuti azikhala azimayi, chifukwa ali ndi bizinesi yaying'ono kwambiri.
Koma, pokhapokha ngati pali zovuta, monga momwe amayiwa akufunira, omwe mwayi woti agwire ntchito mu banja kapena kwina kulipindulitsa kwambiri pakusankha njira yotere ya moyo, tingathe kuganiza kuti izi zili ndi ziphatikiza zake .
Azimayi a ku Russia si mtundu umodzi wa amayi. Aliyense wa iwo amasankha kuti azisamalira banja chifukwa cha zifukwa zawo, nthawizina izi ndizoyeso zofunikira, nthawizina ndithudi ntchito kapena zotsatira za chikondi ndi kufunitsitsa kudzipereka zambiri kwa ubwino wa banja. Izi zimachitika kuti amai akhale amayi aakazi kwa kanthawi, mpaka ana akukula, izi ndizozimene zimachitika. Kwenikweni, amayi ali ndi chidwi chogwira ntchito ndi kupambana bwino osati kakhitchini, komanso m'madera ena. Koma nkofunikira kunena kuti amuna amayamikira omwe akugonjetsa mapeto a ntchito ndi omwe akukweza patsogolo pa chitukuko cha zachuma, zomwe zimatanthauza kuti kulemekezana, chikondi ndi kukhutira zimadalira osati zomwe mkazi amachita.