Chimene mukusowa mtsikana mu chiyanjano ndi mnyamata

Kugonana kwakukulu pakati pa abambo sikubadwa mwamsanga. Kawirikawiri amatenga nthawi yaitali kuti apeze munthu yemwe akufunadi kumangiriza nthawi yayitali, ndipo mwinamwake ubale, ubale. Pa nthawi yomweyi, ndithudi, munazindikira kuti chilakolako cha atsikana, ndipo mwina ngakhale chosowa, chimabwera pang'ono kwambiri kusiyana ndi anyamata. Ndipo chifukwa chakuti timakula mofulumira, timadziwa kuti m'moyo uno ndi zovuta. Ndipo, mwina, tikusowa chinachake kuchokera kwa munthu amene timakumana naye. Mu mutu wakuti "Mtsikana amafuna chiyani pachibwenzi ndi mnyamata" tiyesera kukumba mozama m'maganizo athu ndi kumvetsetsa: chifukwa chiyani atsikana onse akudikirira ubale weniweniwo ndipo mwamsanga akufuna kukhala ndi mimba ya banja lamtsogolo?

Kotero, mtsikana amafuna chiyani pachibwenzi ndi mnyamata? Yankho lake ndi losavuta: ngati mtsikanayo wakula kale, ngati atayendayenda ndi anyamatawo ndipo asankha kusankha munthu mmodzi, ndiye kuti amamva kuti ndi munthu uyu adzakhala ngati khoma lamwala. Ndipotu, mtsikana aliyense ayenera kumva kuti akutetezedwa, koma ndani amene angakhale chithandizo chodalirika kwa iye, ngati si munthu wokondedwa?

Chikhumbo chokhazikitsa banja, kapena, kukhala ndi chibwenzi cholimba, makamaka chimachokera ku chibadwa cha amayi chomwe chimakhala ndi mkazi aliyense. Mwazindikira kuti atsikana ena amakwatirana msanga ndikuyamba ana, ena amakhala "atsikana achikulire", osati nthawi zonse chifukwa palibe amene amawatenga pansi pa mapiko awo okhulupilika. Sitikulankhulanso za nkhaniyi pamene banja likumangidwanso mwamsanga chifukwa cha mimba ya atsikana. Tikukamba za dala loyipa komanso lodziwika lomwe likuchitika mosasamala za msinkhu. Ndi mmodzi wa ife amene akukula kale, koma chibadwa cha amayi ichi sichifulumira kwa wina. Komabe, chikhalidwe chimadziŵa bwino pamene ndi ndani amene ayenera kukhala ndi chibwenzi cholimba.

Inde, chifukwa chofotokozedwa pamwambapa ndi chokhazikika. Masiku ano chirichonse chiri chovuta kwambiri. Pano, makolo athu - amakhala ndi zida zina, panali zochepa zochepa mimba zosafuna, ndipo ukwatiwo unali wamtengo wapatali monga chinthu chosasunthika ndi chokhazikika. Tsopano, nthawi zina, maukwati amapanga chisokonezo chifukwa cha "tchuthi lofunidwa" - ndipo, monga mukudziwa, kwa nthawi yaitali mabanja amenewa salipo. Chifukwa chomveka chotero sichingakhale maziko odalirika a banja.

Kodi ndi chiyaninso china chimene mtsikana angachifunike kwa mnyamata, kupatula kukhala wotetezeka? Mwina tingayankhe pang'ono, koma palinso chifukwa chake. Ndalama zimakopa atsikana ambiri, makamaka omwe anakulira m'banja losagwira ntchito. Kuperewera kwa ndalama ndi chikhumbo chofuna kuchoka mu chipinda chochepa chomwe inu munkayenera kugawana nawo ndi abale anu moyo wanu wonse, nthawi zina zimakhala zamphamvu kuposa momwe mumamvera. Ndipo asungwanawo, kusiya chiyembekezo chachikondi ndi chuma, amakonda kugwiritsa ntchito chochitika chosangalatsa chogwera ndi kusankha chuma chokha, popanda chikondi.

Ngati mtsikana akuganiza kuti akusowa chibwenzi, izi sizikutanthauza kuti akufuna kupanga banja limodzi ndi kubereka ana. Mwina, msungwana akadali pang'ono vzbalmoshna ndipo zimangochititsa maonekedwe a munthu? Sikunatchulidwe kuti iye akufuna kukwanitsa kutchuka m'mabwalo ena, ndipo akukonzekera kugwiritsa ntchito mwamuna woyenera pa izi. Mgwirizano wotere ukhoza kukhala wopindulitsa, komabe, wopanda mphamvu. Inu nokha mumvetse chifukwa chake. Pambuyo pake, atakwanitsa cholinga chawo, msungwanayo sadzafunikanso kuyenda ndi mwamuna uyu - adzasowa wina, "mofulumizitsa", chifukwa zilakolako sizilipo.

Komabe, chinthu chomwe tachoka kwathunthu ndicholinga chotsutsana ndi malonda. Ndipo, ngakhale kuti zochitika zoterezi zimachitika kawirikawiri m'moyo wathu, izi sizikutanthauza kuti palibe chowala ndi zabwino m'dziko lathu lino zatsala, ndipo maubwenzi onse ndi achinyengo ndi aluntha.

Ndipotu, mtsikana aliyense yemwe ali pachibwenzi ndi mnyamata wokondedwa amafunikira, poyamba, wachikondi, kumvetsetsa, chikondi ndi chikondi. Ndikufuna kuti azidandaula za inu ndi kuitanitsa theka la ola limodzi - ngakhale ngati zikuwoneka kuti zikukukhumudwitsani, komabe kusamalira koteroko kumakhala kosangalatsa kwambiri mkati! Ndikufuna kuti akuphimbe mokongoletsa ndi bokosi pakati pa usiku ndikumupsompsona m'kachisi, poganiza kuti wagona kale. Ndikufuna kuti adziwe momwe mumakhalira ndikumvetsetsa zofuna zanu zonse.

Koma pali mitundu ina ya atsikana, mosiyana kwambiri. Tiyeni tiyitane ichi "maganizo a amayi" mwachikhalidwe. Nchifukwa chiyani "mayi-mayi"? Chifukwa chakuti msungwana woteroyo mu chibwenzi sasowa mwamuna kuti amutenge iye kwa mwana wamng'ono, azichita zonsezi ndi kuziwerenga. Ayi, zonse zimatsutsana kwambiri: amafunika kusamalira mwana wake (mwa njira, izi sizodziwika kwambiri). Mtsikana wotero ayenera kusamalira munthu ndi kuphunzitsa. Adzadyetsa mwamunayu, akuwongolera luso lake lophika kuti akonzekere wina phwando la m'mimba. Mayi madzulo adzagwiritsira ntchito mpanda wozizira kwambiri kwa mwana wake. Adzawonetsa kuwala kwa pansi ndi mipando, kotero kuti abwenzi a anyamata ake adanena kuti: "Mulungu wanga, muli ndi bizinesi yotani!" - ndipo mawu amenewa adzamupatsa chisangalalo chosadabwitsa. Vuto lokha - si amuna onse amene amayamikira akazi amtundu uwu, wina amafunikira mayi wochepa. Ndipo kuti "mayi-mayi" angakhale njira yabwino kwambiri yothetsera ukwati, amamvetsa kokha pamene mphindi yatha.

Pali atsikana a vampire. Ayi, izi sizikutanthauza kuti mkazi wotero amamwa magazi ... koma amadya mphamvu, makamaka mamuna. Kwa mtsikana wotero palibe chabwino kuposa kumuuza wina. Ndipo zimakhala zokondweretsa kwambiri ngati ndizoimira wogonana wamphamvu. Iye akuyang'ana "chiwombankhanga", mwamuna yemwe ali wokondana naye kumakutu ndi yemwe ali okonzekera izo pafupifupi chirichonse. Ndi munthu wotereyo ali womasuka - msungwana wa vampire sakonda kupsinjika popanda chifukwa. Koma sikuti munthu aliyense, kaya akhale wofooka bwanji, amalola kuti mtsikanayo adzinyoze kwambiri. Choncho, chifukwa ichi, kuchokera pa mndandanda wa "morbidly -nchibadwa".

Ndipo, makamaka, mtsikana aliyense amafuna chibwenzi chake kukhala mwamuna weniweni: wamphamvu, wokhoza kupanga zosankha zofunika, zomwe sizikhumudwitsa ndipo sizikhumudwitsa. Ndipo kotero inu mukufuna kuti msungwana aliyense wopezeka mu moyo wake ndi wokondedwa ndi mwamuna weniweni - chifukwa izi ndi zophweka, koma chisangalalo chachikazi chotero.