Dziwani zambiri.
Kotero, tiyeni tiyankhule za zomwe ziyenera kuchitidwa kuti akope wothandizira? Choyamba, pofuna kukakamiza ofuna chithandizo kuti apeze chinachake, nkofunika kuti apambane ndi chidaliro chake. Ndipo amapeza bwanji chikhulupiliro cha wothandizira? Kodi ndingagwiritse ntchito chiyani kuti ndikope, ndipo, chofunika kwambiri, kuti ndikhale ndi chidwi chake? Ndipotu, sikovuta kukopa munthu wothandizira. Inu, kwenikweni, simukusowa zambiri zoti muchite. Mwachidule, muyenera kudzidalira nokha ndi mankhwala anu. Ili ndilo lamulo loyambirira, motsogoleredwa ndi zomwe, mudzapita patsogolo kuti mupambane mwachangu ndi kolondola. Choyamba, choyamba, muyenera kutsimikiza kuti wothandizira amakhulupirira kuti mumadziwa bwino zomwe mumagulitsa. Ndipo chifukwa cha izi ndikofunika kudziwa bwino katundu ndi ntchito zomwe muli nazo pandandanda. Muyenera kudziwa bwino momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito malonda anu. Inu simukuyenera konse kupanga chinachake kuchokera kwa inu nokha ndi kupereka chokhumba chanu cha chenicheni. Wothandizirayo amatha kuchita chirichonse kuti atsimikizire kuti zenizeni zanu ndizoona. Komabe, mukhoza kutumiza uthenga kotero kuti zikumveka mwa mawonekedwe opindulitsa kwa inu. Nthawi zonse yesetsani kukumbukira zambiri momwe mungathere. Chowonadi ndi chakuti makasitomala ambiri amakonda kufunsa mafunso enanso. Ngati munthu akuwona kuti simungawayankhe, mosakayikira mukuganiza kuti mwangophunzira mawu ena, ndipo simukudziwa china chilichonse. Vomerezani, izi zidzasokoneza fano lanu. Choncho, yesetsani kudziŵa zambiri zowonjezera. Mwachidziwitso, wogulitsa aliyense amayamba kuyembekezera mafunso ambiri omwe anthu amawafunsa. Choncho, zimangokhala kukumbukira mayankho a mafunsowa. Mwa njira, yesetsani kuwayankha mwakachetechete ndi momveka bwino. Musalankhule mofulumira kapena mochedwa kwambiri. Musasonyeze kuti mukuda nkhaŵa, mwinamwake wofuna thandizo sangakukhulupirireni.
Musakhale oprusive.
Lamulo lina - musamangokakamiza makasitomala. Kumbukirani kuti kukhutira mu chinachake ndikutulutsa anthu kunja kwawo ndi chinthu chosiyana kwambiri. Ngati kale, amalonda osiyanasiyana komanso otsatsa malonda anali atsopano, tsopano pali zambiri zomwe anthu safuna kupita ku sitolo, ngati sangakakamize kugula kachiwiri. Choncho, ngati mukufuna munthu kupeza chinachake, mumupatse ufulu wosankha. Simukusowa kutsatira wina. Ndi bwino kudzidziwitsa nokha, kupereka mankhwala anu, ndipo ngati munthu akunena kuti akukupemphani thandizo, ngati kuli koyenera, mvetserani bwino. Koma, izi sizikutanthauza kuti simuyenera kumvetsera kwa wogula ndikukhala kutali. Munthu wamalonda wodziwa zambiri nthawi zonse amadziwa pamene anthu akusowa thandizo. Ndipo kuthandizira kumafunika pafupifupi nthawi zonse, pokhapokha ngati munthu wabwera kudzagula zinthu zinazake, zomwe angagule pazochitika zilizonse, kuti iwe usamuuze. Apo ayi, khalani kutali ndipo penyani. Ngati muwona kuti wogula sangathe kusankha, pitani kwa iye ndikufunseni ngati mungamupatse uphungu, koma, mulole kuti adziwe ngati angagwiritse ntchito kapena ayi. Pamene anthu sakukakamizidwa, koma amafunsidwa, iwo, nthawi zambiri amachita zambiri mokwanira ku zopereka za wogulitsa ndikumumvetsera mwakachetechete. Kawirikawiri, ndi njira iyi yomwe mungakonde chidwi ndi kasitomala ndikumugulitsa chinachake chimene poyamba sanafune kugula.
Komanso, ngati mukufuna kukhala ndi chidwi ndi kasitomala, ndibwino kumvetsera kuti ndi mtundu wanji wa mankhwala omwe amamukwanira pamtengo wamtengo wapatali. Choncho, yesetsani kuphunzira kudziwa mtundu wa ndalama zomwe ofuna kasitomala ali nazo. Simusowa kupereka chinachake chomwe mwachiwonekere n'chokwera kwa munthu. Kwa ambiri zimangokhala zokhumudwitsa. Ndibwino kuti mudzifunse nokha kuchuluka kwake komwe akuyembekeza, ndipo, pogwiritsa ntchito zomwe adalandira, kupereka katundu kapena misonkhano.
Khalani owona mtima.
Kumbukirani kuti anthu sakonda otsatsa okwiya komanso okwiya. Koma, komanso, sikoyenera kulola kukhala ndi ogula ngati muli abwenzi. Kukoma mtima ndi kudziŵa sizodziwika. Choncho, yesetsani kuphunzira kusiyanitsa pakati pa mfundozi. Makasitomala anu adziwe kuti mukufuna kuwathandiza kusankha zosangalatsa zokha, koma panthawi imodzimodziyo, sangalowemo miyoyo yawo. Ngati mukuchita mwanjira imeneyi, ndiye, nthawi zambiri, makasitomala amayamba kuchitira ogulitsa mochuluka.
Ngati katunduyo ali ndi gawo, makasitomala ambiri amayamba kukayikira khalidwe lake. N'kofunikanso kufotokozera molondola kwa chithandizo chomwe chiri vutoli. Pambuyo pake, masitolo, nthawi zambiri, sali chifukwa chogulitsa katundu kapena ukwati, koma chifukwa makampani amachepetsa makamaka mitengo ya katundu wina, kukopa makasitomala. Komanso, katunduyo akhoza kukhala ochepa, komanso omwe nthawi zambiri amapeza. Ntchito yanu ndi kuuza wothandizira chifukwa chomwe chikuchitidwa kuti asakayike. Choncho, ngati mukudziwa kuti masitolo ena amayamba masitolo, onetsetsani kuti mufunse zifukwa zowagwiritsira ntchito, kotero kuti kasitomala aliyense akhoza kupereka zambiri.
Ndipotu, sikovuta kukopa wogula kugula chinthu china kapena ntchito. Mwachidule, muyenera kukhala otsimikiza, kukhazikika ndikuphunzira kumva chikhalidwe ndi chikhalidwe cha ofuna chithandizo. Musayambe kuvala ndi kumwetulira ndi kulankhula ngati robot, kunyalanyaza kwathunthu malingaliro ndi zokhumba za ofuna chithandizo. Yesetsani kukhala owona mtima nthawi zonse, ndipo zidzakhala zosavuta kuti mugulitse zomwe mukufunikira.