Lingaliro la "mayi wa nyumba" linawoneka posachedwa ku Russia, likupangitsa ulemu pakati pa ena, kunyalanyaza ena, ndi chisokonezo muchitatu ... Mwa njira ina, nthawi ina, tonsefe tiyenera kukhala pakhomo kwa kanthawi (chiweruziro, fufuzani ntchito yatsopano , nthawi yaitali tchuthi - pangakhale zifukwa zambiri). Ndipo tiyeni tiwone izi: Kukhala mkazi wamkazi ndi wamanyazi kapena wapamwamba, wafashoni kapena wokalamba, wosangalatsa kapena ayi?
Malinga ndi chiwerengero, amayi asanu ndi limodzi (60%) amasangalala kusiya ntchito yawo ndi kukhala mayi wa nyumba, kugwira ntchito zapakhomo zokha. Komabe, monga momwe amasonyezera, hafu yokha ya iwo ikupita kusintha kwakukulu kotere. Pali amayi amene analengedwa kuti akhale pakhomo, pali ena amene ayenera kuchita izi kwa nthawi ndithu, ndipo pali omwe moyo wawo umakhala wosatsutsika ... Kodi tiyenera kuchita chiyani pazochitikazi?
MZIMU MWACHIMA
Mtsikana wina wa zaka 30, dzina lake Yulia , anati: "Ndinkalakalaka kukhala mayi wamasiye wa kusukulu . - Nthawi zonse ndimakonda kuchita nyumba, kuphika, kuyera, kusoka. Koma moyo unakula mwakuti sindinakwatirane, ndipo kotero, nditamaliza sukulu ya koleji, ndinapita kuntchito. Kunali kuzunza kwenikweni. Sindinkafuna kutaya nthawi yanga pamasamba osasintha komanso kuwerengera ndalama ... Pamene ndinakumana ndi mwamuna wanga, iye mwini anandipatsa kuti ndipite ndikukhala kanthawi kunyumba. Ndinayesetsa kusiya ntchito yanga n'kukhala mayi wamasiye. Moyo wanga wasintha kwambiri, ndakhala wofatsa, ndikuchita zinthu zabwino, ndipo pamene tinali ndi mwana, panalibe nthawi yowonjezera. Tsopano ndili wokondwa kwambiri: Ndimakhala panyumba, mwana wanga komanso chidziwitso changa, ndipo mwamuna wanga amadziwa kuti mkazi wake amamuyembekezera nthawi zonse. "
Katswiri wa zamaganizo Albert Lifman anati: "Chilakolako chokhala pakhomo ndi kusamalira banja lako ndi chachilendo kwa mkazi." - Chinthuchi n'chakuti simungathe kuthawa kukumbukira kwa chibadwa. Pamapeto pake, mpaka pakati pa zaka makumi awiri ndi makumi awiri, akazi sanaganize ngakhale kuti akhoza kugwira ntchito ndi kupanga ntchito. Ndipo palibe cholakwika ndi izo. Ngati mulibe zolinga za utsogoleri, ngati muli omasuka kunyumba ndipo, chofunikira kwambiri, ndalama zanu zimakulolani kuti musapite kuntchito - pumulani ndi kusangalala. Simukuyenera kukhala ngati wina aliyense, musayesetse kufika pamtunda wapamwamba mwa ntchito ... Ntchito yanu yaikulu ndikukhala osangalala! Kumbukirani izi! "
A MAFUMU OLEMBEDWA
"Pa tsiku lachitatu ndinkafuna kukwera pakhomalo!", "Pamene ndinali kunyumba, ndinkakhala ndikuvutika maganizo kwambiri ndikulakalaka, ndikudziona kuti ndine wopanda pake", "Poyamba, ntchito ya dipatimenti yonseyi inadalira ine, ndipo tsopano ndikumva kukoma kwa borscht! "- Choncho lembani pazitukuko za amayi omwe akhala amayi aakazi kwa kanthawi. "Kwa ambiri, mayesero ndi lamulo (nthawi zambiri izi zimatipangitsa kuti tisiye ndipo nthawi zina timakhala pakhomo) zimakhala zosasimbika," anatero katswiri wamaganizo Elena Berusheva. - Mpaka posachedwa munaganiza kuti dziko lidzatha kukhalapo popanda inu, osagwirizana kuti likhale sabata la sabata ndipo dzuwa lidzagwedezeka ndi nyanja ndi laputopu mukulandira, koma tsopano iwo akuwoneka kuti sakugwira ntchito. Zosintha (ngakhale zabwino) zimayambitsa vuto. Ngakhale kuti simunali okayikitsa ndipo mukufuna kukhala pakhomo, kusintha kachitidwe ka tsiku kungakulepheretseni. Pochepetsa kuchepa kwa maselo a mitsempha, yesetsani kukambirana ndi inu nokha. Njira yanu yatsopano ya moyo ndi kanthawi kochepa chabe. Posakhalitsa zinthu zidzasintha, ndipo mudzabwereranso ku nyimbo yachizolowezi. Yamikani miniti iliyonse ya moyo wanu. Icho chimachoka mosalekeza! Chimene chikuchitika tsopano, sichidzachitikanso! "
Bwerani ku Mtsogolo
" Kunena zoona, zinali zovuta kwambiri kuti ndizolowere njira ya moyo wa mayi wamkazi, " Anna, 27 , amagawana. Ndipo, mwana wanga atakula, ndinaganiza zobwerera kuntchito. " Ndinaganiza kuti moyo umangosewera ndi mitundu yatsopano, koma sikunaliko. Zinayambira kuti kulowa muyeso watsopano ndi kovuta kwambiri. Choyamba, anzanga ambiri amasiya ndipo ndinabwera ku gulu latsopano, ndipo kachiwiri, sizinatheke kuti ndiphatikize udindo wa amayi komanso woyang'anira bwino. "
"Moyo wa Anna ndi wofala kwambiri," anatero katswiri wa zamaganizo Albert Lifman. - Bwererani kuntchito pang'ono pang'onopang'ono: choyamba muzichita chinachake kunyumba, ndiye mutuluke kwa theka la nthawi ndipo potsirizira pake, mutatha chaka ndi theka kapena awiri, mutenge nthawi yonse. Kotero inu, ndi banja lanu, mutha kusintha moyenera kumoyo watsopano ndi njira ya moyo. Ndipo konzekerani kuti aliyense waiwala kuti ndiwe wofunika komanso wofunika kwambiri, ndipo uyenera kutsimikizira kwa mtsogoleri ndi anzake ena atsopano. "
ZOTHANDIZA ZOKHUDZA AKATSIMBA
ZOCHITA 1: Mkazi amatha kudziwika ndi mawonekedwe osanyalanyazidwa, zovala zosaphika komanso tsitsi lopitirira.
Akazi opanda ntchito amakhala ndi nthawi yochuluka yosamalira okha, kupita ku masewera olimbitsa thupi, salons okongola ndi zakudya. Iwo samathamanga kuti akagwire ntchito m'mawa ngati okhwima, osathamangitsidwa, osadya chakudya chamadzulo cha malonda ndi kuchita masitolo ndi kumverera, kwenikweni, ndi makonzedwe.
Bodza Lachiwiri: Amayi amasiye amavutika chifukwa chosowa kulankhula.
Amangosiya kulankhula ndi anthu omwe adagwirizanitsidwa ndi ntchito, koma izi sizikutanthauza kuti amayi akukhala pakhomo pomaliza. M'malo antchito kuntchito pali mabwenzi ena: abwenzi omwe amasonkhana nawo masewera kapena kuyenda ndi ana.
Bodza Lachitatu: Amayi omwe ali pamutu ali ndi gyrus imodzi, ndipo ndi yolunjika.
Zimakhulupirira kuti ngati mkazi akhala pakhomo, ndi chifukwa chakuti samatengedwa ntchito iliyonse chifukwa cha kusowa maphunziro. Koma amayi amakhala amasiye amadzidzidzimutsa: wina kwa zaka zingapo, mpaka ana akukula, wina kwa nthawi yaitali. Ndipo pakati pawo pali amayi ambiri omwe ali ndi maphunziro apamwamba, ndipo nthawi zina osati limodzi. Ndipo mukhoza kupeza ntchito popanda maphunziro, ndipo ndi "gyrus imodzi" - padzakhala chikhumbo!
Bodza Lachinayi: Amayi amasiye alibe mwayi wodzizindikira okha: sangathe kuwulula maluso awo, kugwiritsa ntchito chidziwitso ndi luso.
Mukhoza kuzindikira zomwe mungathe, osati kukhala woyang'anira wamkulu wa kampani yaikulu, komanso kuti mukwanitse kuchita zinthu zodzikongoletsera, zosangalatsa, kulera ana. Kulumikizana kwachindunji ndi ana, kupambana kwawo, kukhazikitsidwa tsiku ndi tsiku, nyumba yabwino, mpumulo wa moyo umabweretsa chisangalalo kuposa kukula kwa ntchito ndi bonasi ya pachaka. Ndipo cholinga cha ntchito ya amayi akuwonekera momveka bwino, chifukwa chimagwirira ntchito phindu la banja lawo, osati chifukwa chokweza phindu lililonse. Ndipo ngati mukufunabe ntchito zamalonda, ndiye kuti pali ntchito yakutali ndi yaifupi.
Nthano 5: Kukhala kunyumba kumakhala kosangalatsa!
Akazi ogwira ntchito amaganiza kuti osagwira ntchito ali muchisoni chosatha ndi kuvutika maganizo. Koma amayi azimayi sakhala ochepetsedwa ndi nkhawa, chifukwa alibe malipoti a pachaka ndi ntchito, samatchedwa "pamphepete" ndipo samataya ndalama. Iwo okha amakonza tsiku lawo, amathera nthawi yambiri pa amuna awo, ana, masewera, ndi kudzikonda.
MFUNDO ZOFUNIKA KU Nyumba YOPHUNZITSIDWA
1. Gwiritsani ntchito nthawiyi kuti mudziwe zambiri ndi luso lanu: lembani maphunziro oyendetsa galimoto (English, kudula ndi kusoka kapena masukulu pophika kuphika sushi).
2. Chitani chilichonse chomwe chilipo musanapite nthawi yambiri. Pitani ku katswiri wamaluwa, funsani mnzanu ndikukambirana chilichonse, pitani ku chiwonetsero kapena filimu ... Mndandanda umapitirira.
3. Dziyang'anire nokha, mutatha kuwona kuti mukuyenera kuyang'ana abwino osati ogwira nawo ntchito okha, komanso nokha.
4. Musagwere m'maloto ndi ulesi, konzekerani tsiku lirilonse, koma mudziperekere chofooka pang'ono ...
Musalole aliyense kuganiza kapena kunena kwa wina aliyense, makamaka nokha, kuti kukhala mkazi wamkazi ndi wosangalatsa komanso wosayenerera: akazi a akuluakulu onse a boma, mamiliyoni ndi okalamba amakhulupirira amayi.