Thanthwe, ndilo tsoka ndi tsogolo, sizikhala ndi mtundu woipa. Mayi wakupha - uyu ndi mkazi yemwe msonkhano wake ndi iye unasintha moyo wa munthu. N'zotheka kuti pambuyo pa zaka makumi awiri za moyo wanu palimodzi, mwamuna wanu akuvomereza kuti ndinu mkazi wovulaza kwa iye. Koma bwanji? Pambuyo pake, munasintha tsogolo lake ndi moyo wamba. Kapena mwinamwake palinso vuto linalake: mukuchita bizinesi yanu, mukupita kuntchito, kupita ku masitolo, kukacheza ndi ana aamuna, ndipo panthawi imeneyo, munthu wina wamtendere akukumana ndi khoma, chifukwa iwe ndiwe mkazi wakupha.
Mayi wakupha - ukhoza kukhala chithunzi cha moyo, udindo wochitidwa ndi mkazi wozunguliridwa ndi amuna, kapena kanthawi kochepa chabe m'mbiri ya moyo wanu. Sikoyenera kuti ichi chikhale ndi malingaliro osazolowereka, miyendo yaitali, chifuwa cha silicone. Ngakhale, zinthu zakunja zimagwira ntchito yofunikira. Mzimayi yemwe amasewera "akupha" amasonyeza chithunzichi kumalo ake, pamene ena onse amafa chifukwa cha kusankha munthu.
Pokhala mkazi - malo osungirako zinthu ndi osangalatsa komanso ophweka kuposa mkazi. Zimakhala zovuta kuphatikizapo maudindo awiriwa, ngati mukukhala ndi mwamuna. Vomerezani kuti nkovuta kuti muwonekere kwa mwamuna wanu usiku mu maloto, kuti mukhale wolimbikitsa, ndipo mukambirane za bajeti, kutsuka, chitsulo kapena kuphika chakudya. Tsoka ilo, zojambulajambula ndi bytovuha zimagwirizana kwambiri. Ngakhale, m'mbiri muli zitsanzo za akazi-mkhalidwe: Gala - mkazi wa Salvador Dali, Natalia Goncharova - mkazi wa Pushkin. Ngakhale, muzochitika zonsezi, akazi sankapita ku khitchini kuti aziphika chakudya chamadzulo ndi chakudya chamadzulo.
Ngakhale ubale wamba wamba, buku losavuta lingakupangitseni mkazi wopha. Kuti muchite izi, muyenera "nthawi" kuti muleke kukonda mwamuna wanu. "Wokondedwa, ndikuwoneka kuti sindine wanu ..." Mtima wa wokhotakhota wagwedezeka, moyo watha, iwe ndiwe mkazi wakupha! Mwamtheradi, kuti mnyamatayo adzakumbukirani inu moyo, monga yemwe anauponyera, anathyola mtima wake, ndipo anathawa ngati njenjete, akumusiya yekha ndi zochitika zake.
Chikondi chakufa chingakhale pamene pali zolepheretsa njira ya maubwenzi omwe sangathe kugonjetsedwa, zomwe zimapangitsa anthu kuti asakhale pamodzi. Matenda aumunthu, kukhalapo kwa mkazi wovomerezeka, mavuto a ndondomeko yosamukira, makolo ndi zina zambiri zingayambitse kuti malingaliro anu achikulire asapangidwe kukhala chinachake. Onetsetsani kuti 100 peresenti ya munthuyo ndi yotentha komanso kukumbukira nthawi ndi nthawi ndikuganiza zomwe zingachitike ngati ...
Mayi weniweni wakupha, monga mu kanema, samangodula mtima wa munthu, komanso amawononga ndalama zake, amawononga katundu, amawononga mabanja, amawononga mabanki, amakangana ndi anzawo komanso achibale awo, kotero kuti palibe amene angathandize pa nthawi yovuta. Ndipo iye amachita izo, osati navyazhchivo, akumwetulira ndi kuyankhula mu khutu lanu mawu okoma ndi mafano a tsogolo losangalala limodzi. Kukumana ndi mkazi woteroyo kumakhaladi wofera. Komabe, izi sizithunzi, ndizozizira komanso njira yomwe mkazi wakupha amadzipangira. Munthuyo atangodandaula kwathunthu, ataponderezedwa ndi kugawidwa ku ulusi, mkaziyo amakhutira, ndipo amayamba kufunafuna munthu watsopano.
Ndiye choyenera kuchita chiyani, ngati mwadzidzidzi pamoyo wanu mumakumana ndi mkazi wakupha?
Mzimayi - malo osungirako zinthu ndi owopsa chifukwa akhoza kumulimbikitsa kuti agwire ntchito. Ndipo iwe pa mphindi ino, tuluka, usambe, yophika. Iwo ndi okongola kukhala ndikulankhula, ndipo mumamva kuti mumakanidwa ndipo simukufunikira. Samalani, chifukwa ubale woterewu ukhoza kukula pang'onopang'ono. Ndi bwino kuchotsa zinthu zoterezi, kapena kumuchotsa. Dzifunseni nokha chomwe chiri chofunikira kwambiri - chimwemwe chaumwini kapena chidziwitso.
Mkazi wowononga yemwe adathyola mtima wake kwa mwamuna wako sizowopsa. Mnyamata akulira mu chovala chanu chokhudza chikondi chake chosasangalatsa, ponena kuti anaponyedwa ndi mkazi wabwino kwambiri padziko lapansi. Ndipo iwe umadzitonthoza wekha, iwe umatumikira mpango. Mtundu uwu wa chiyanjano ndi wotheka pachiyambi pomwepo. Koma ngati zimatenga nthawi yolankhulana, ndibwino kuganizira. Pambuyo pa zonse, ndinu ofanana ndi mkazi wakupha, maso, thupi, mtima ndi moyo. Mutha kumuthandiza kumuiwala, ngati kwa nthawi yaitali, simungathe kumuchotsa pamutu wa mwamunayo, kuchoka panopa ndikupeza kuti ndinu munthu wabwinobwino!