Akatswiri a zamaganizo amapanga phunziro pa mutu wakuti "Kugonana Kwachikazi Kwachikazi". Chifukwa cha kuyesera, iwo adaganiza kuti amayi ambiri amaganiza zokhudzana ndi zofanana zogonana. Chikhalidwe chodziwika ndi malingaliro awo okhudzana ndi kugonana ndikuti sizochitika zonse zomwe amai akufuna kuchita. Ena mwa kugonana kwabwino kumangofuna kulota, ndipo ena amakambirana ndi osankhidwa awo. Ndipo akazi owerengeka okha amafuna kuti malingaliro awo a chiwerewere awoneke m'moyo.
Kuyamba kugonana koyamba. Kugonana mosagwirizana ndi munthu wosadziwika
Mdima, mkaziyo waima yekha pa bar. Kumbuyo kwake kumabwera munthu wosadziwika ndikumunong'oneza m'makutu ake otukwana. Ndiye amamuyitanira kuti ayende ku hoteloyo. Mkaziyo amavomereza popanda kuganiza. Amadziŵa kuti sadzamuonanso, koma ndicho chomwe chimamukopa kwambiri ndikukumunyenga.
Pofuna kuganiza zogonana ndi munthu wokondedwa wanu. Gwirizaninso ndi iye kuti mukakomane naye ku cafe kapena bar. Mukamasonkhana, onetsetsani kuti simukudziwa bwino ndikuwonana nthawi yoyamba. Ngati nonse muli ochita bwino, adrenaline imaperekedwa. Mavuto omwe angawononge mkazi polumikizana ndi mlendo weniweni akuchepa.
Chiyembekezo chachiwiri chogonana. Kugonana ndi abwenzi awiri
Amuna nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi malingaliro ogonana okhudzana ndi kugonana ndi amayi awiri. Akaziwo sanali pambali. Akazi ena amalota kuti azigona usiku ndi amuna awiri. Zosangalatsa za kugonana sizimatchulidwa ndi amayi pafupifupi konse pofuula, chifukwa amuna ali ndi proprietors. Ndipo palibe munthu wamba komanso wodzilemekeza amene sangafune kugawana naye wokondedwa wake ndi wina.
Ngati malingaliro oterewa akuchitika mu malingaliro anu, ndiye pali njira ziwiri. Choyamba: ngati ndinu mfulu wopanda chibwenzi, mukhoza kuyang'ana amuna awiri omasuka omwe angakupulumutseni. Chachiwiri: simuli womasuka, ndiye kuti mukambirane ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu kuti mutha kugwiritsa ntchito zidole zogonana, kuti mutengere gawo lachitatu.
Nthano yachitatu yogonana. Kugonana kovuta.
Azimayi onse m'mtima mwawo amafunidwa. Makamaka mu masewera achiwerewere. Nsomba, chikwapu, mphamvu za munthu ndizo zozizwitsa kwambiri pakati pa akazi. Mkhalidwe wamtundu woterewu ukufuna kuti uzichita pafupifupi mkazi aliyense. Koma nthawi zambiri malingaliro oterewa amasonyeza kuti masewera a sadomasochistic ayenera kukhala masewera okha (osapweteka). Koma pali ochepa peresenti ya amayi omwe akufuna kuwona zenizeni zenizeni za kugonana. Mulimonsemo, musanazindikire malingaliro anu okhudza kugonana kovuta, muyenera kulankhula momasuka ndi mwamuna wanu wokondedwa, kufotokoza zomwe mukufuna. Koma ndizofunika kuvomereza pasanakhale pa chizindikiro, posonyeza kuti mukuumirira kuti musiye masewerawo.
Cholinga chachinayi chogonana. Kugonana pamalo amodzi
Chiyembekezo chogonana chikufala kwambiri pakati pa akazi. Oimira abambo okondana amachititsa chidwi kuti panthawi iliyonse angathe kuwonedwa ndi munthu wogonana. Koma malingaliro a amayi pa mutu uwu amasiyana mofanana ndi chiopsezo. Azimayi ena ali okonzeka kugonana pa gombe usiku, chifukwa ngakhale atadziwika ndi anthu omwe akupita nawo mofulumira, amayesa kuchoka mofulumira kuti asasokoneze ndipo asadzichititse manyazi. Azimayi ena ali okonzekera kukonda chikondi mumzinda wa paki, komwe anthu amakhala odzaza nthawi zambiri ndipo anthu adzawawona ndi wokondedwa wawo, komanso kangapo.
Koma mulimonsemo mungapeze golidi kutanthauza. Ngati mumavomereza ndi mnzanu, mutha kusintha malo ammudzi, monga tebulo muofesi, koma ndi khomo lotsekedwa kapena kugonana mu chipinda choyenera, palibe yemwe adzakuvutitsani kwa nthawi yaitali, koma kumverera kwa malo a anthu kumakhalabe.
Akatswiri opatsirana pogonana amalimbikitsa amayi kuti asalankhule za kugonana kwawo, ndipo alankhule momveka bwino za munthu wokondedwa. Kulankhulana kotere kumathandiza abwenzi kuti ayandikire. Eya, ngati mkazi alibe bwenzi losatha ndi maubwenzi aakulu kwa nthawi inayake, amatha kungoganiza kuti pambuyo pake akhoza kuzindikira zochitika zonse zomwe akuganiza ndi gawo lake lachiwiri la mtsogolo.