Chidziwitso chokwanira cha chilungamo
Pali anthu omwe ali ndi chilungamo chachikulu kuposa ena. Amuna ndi atsikana awa amayesetsa kukhala ndi moyo mogwirizana ndi chikumbumtima chawo. Inde, chikhumbochi sichikukhudzidwa ndi makolo ndi kulera, koma kuchedwa. Zimakhala zovuta kuti munthu wotereyo achite zinthu mosakhulupirika. Mpaka nthawi, samvetsa momwe munthu angakhalire wosakhulupirika ndi wina. Ndicho chifukwa chake anthu oterewa ndi otseguka komanso odalirika. Amaweruza anthu onse. Munthu woganiza bwino sangalankhulane ndi munthu wina, kusokoneza miseche, kuimba mlandu wina popanda umboni. Iye sanena chinsinsi cha zinsinsi ndipo samapereka iwo amene amamukhulupirira. Ndicho chifukwa chake zimakhala zovuta kuti munthu wotereyo amvetse ndi kuvomereza kuti pafupifupi aliyense angathe kuyankhula, ndizoyipa kuchita ndi mnzanu ndi anzake, ndi zina zotero. Kuphatikiza ndi chilungamo, nthawi zonse mumakhala okhulupirira. Choncho, nthawi yayitali, anthu awa adatseguka kwa ena, yesetsani kuti musabise chilichonse makamaka. Koma kenaka amadza pamene amvetsetsa: amazunzidwa. Ndipo pozindikira izi zimakhala zopweteka kwambiri, chifukwa chilungamo ndi chomwe chiri chomwe chimapangitsa moyo wa munthu woteroyo. Ngati palibe chilungamo, ndiye kuti moyo udzataya tanthauzo lake lenileni. Ndizokhumudwitsa zomwe zimapangitsa munthu kudzipatula yekha ndikusiya kukhulupirira anthu ena. Iye samafuna kuti azichitiridwa molakwika kachiwiri. Amayamba kuzindikira kuti anthu onse sali abwino. Tiyenera kuzindikira kuti nthawi zambiri anthu amasiya kulankhula za iwo okha komanso chifukwa safuna kutaya awo omwe amawaganizirabe. Anzanu achikulire ndi abwenzi a anthu oterewa amadabwa kwambiri ndipo nthawi zambiri amanena kuti munthu analipo ndipo sankadziwa zomwe zinachitika kwa iye tsopano. Mwatsoka, ambiri a iwo sadziwa ngakhale kuti ndi khalidwe lawo lomwe, makamaka, kapena lalikulu, linasintha kusintha kwa khalidwe ndi khalidwe la munthu. Mwina, kupanda chilungamo kwa anthu, kulemekeza zofuna zawo pa moyo wawo, ndicho chifukwa chachikulu chomwe munthu amasiya ndi kusiya kukhulupirira anthu. Ngakhale, pali zochitika zina.
Fufuzani mkazi ... kapena mwamuna
Chifukwa chomwe munthu watentha ndi kutsekedwa, akhoza kukhala chikondi chosasangalatsa. Mwachitsanzo, mnyamata ankakonda mtsikana, ankafunafuna nthawi yaitali, koma nthawi zonse ankangokhala osasangalala naye. Vitoge, adazindikira kuti ndi bwino kusiya maganizo anu onse kapena ngakhale kubisala, kusiyana ndi kumenyana nthawi zonse, ngati nsomba za ayezi, popanda zotsatira za ntchitoyi. Kupanda kutero, munthu akhoza kungodziwa za munthu yemwe ali wachikondi ndipo izi zidzakhudza khalidwe lake, kutseguka ndi kusangalala. Mwachikondi tikusowa chikhulupiriro. Ngati sitikupeza kapena kutaya, ndiye kuti pali vuto lalikulu. Tonse timadziwa kuti kuyamba kukonda munthu, munthu amapanga chithunzi cha vegan, kukokomeza makhalidwe abwino a wokondedwa ndi zina zotero. Ngati chikondi chikuloledwa, ndipo chinthu choyang'anitsitsa ndi munthu wabwino, ndiye kuti kulingalira koteroko sikukuvulaza. Koma pamene timayamba kukonda ndi chinthu cholakwika, pamapeto pake, chithunzi chomwecho chidzasokonezeka pamtunda, ndikubalalitsa mu zidutswa zikwi chikwi, kuvulaza nthiti. Amuna ndi akazi ambiri amatha, amazizira komanso amakhala chete pokhapokha atatha kupweteka komanso kupweteka. Amasiya kupereka ndi kukhulupilira anthu pa zifukwa ziwiri: mwina safuna kuti adziwonetsere kwa wina aliyense, kuti asamve ululu wa chikondi ndi kutayika kachiwiri, kapena osatsegulidwa, chifukwa tsopano ali otsimikiza kuti anthu apamtima nthawi zonse amatha kukonzedweratu, ndipo izi ndizovuta kuti zikhale ndi moyo. Choncho, kukhumudwa ndi kupatukana kungabweretse vuto lalikulu lomwe munthu amadzivulaza yekha kapena kuti asamakhulupirire wina aliyense. Inde, pakadali pano chikondi chatsopano chikhoza kupulumutsa munthu. Koma sizikutanthauza kuti adzamusiya iye. Pali anthu amene amakhumudwa kale perezhivyvayut akuwawa kwambiri kuti pamapeto pake amasintha mtima wawo wozenga mpanda ndipo musalole aliyense kuti akhale moyo wawo, ndiye kuti nthawi yayitali kwambiri.
Mulimonsemo, ngati munthu mwadzidzidzi anasokonezeka ndi kusakhulupirika, zikutanthauza kuti m'moyo wake padali chinthu choopsa kwambiri chomwe chinapangitsa anthu kuganiziranso momwe amaonera anthu onse makamaka. Sikuti nthawi zonse anthu amasintha nthawi imodzi popanda chifukwa.