Kuyankhulana ndi mabwenzi a bizinesi ukhoza kuchitika mwachidwi, ndipo panthawi ya chakudya abale anu sangamvetse tanthauzo lanu. Mwinamwake, aliyense wa inu anazindikira kuti kuyankhulana pamisonkhano yolandira, maphunziro, kuntchito, nthawi zambiri kumakhala kumverera kwa kusayera kwa kuyankhulana, mawonekedwe. Mzimayi yemwe amawombera ndi mwamuna, mwamuna yemwe amasamalira mkazi, ndipo samakayikira kuti akusewera masewera ovuta a maganizo.
Kulankhulana kumapatsa anthu chisangalalo, chimwemwe, kutsitsimula kwatsopano, amamuthandiza kuthana ndi chizoloŵezi cha moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku, ndi kukhumudwa, pa ntchito zamaluso kumulera iye kumalo atsopano. Kuyankhulana ndi njira ya chitukuko ndi kukhazikitsidwa kwa ubale pakati pa anthu, iwo amaimira malingaliro, kusinthanitsa kwadzidzidzi, mwayi wakuyanirana wina ndi mzake.
Momwe mungasonyezere malingaliro anu?
Kulankhulana ndi luso la munthu kufotokoza maganizo ake. N'zovuta kulankhula ndi munthu yemwe sangathe kufotokoza zomwe akufuna. Ndipo ichi ndi chitsanzo chabwino ngati mukukumana ndi munthu yemwe ali mu chigololo. Ali ndi malingaliro ambiri a filosofi, koma sangathe kuwafotokozera m'mawu. Zoonadi, izi ndizovuta, koma tsiku ndi tsiku, munthu aliyense ali ndi mawu osachepera.
Tonsefe tinakumana mobwerezabwereza ndi munthu yemwe, pofuna kufotokoza maganizo ake, maganizo ake, analibe mawu okwanira kufotokozera malingaliro ndi zithunzi zomwe zinali pamutu pake. Mawu ena amabwerezedwa, kupuma monga "em" kumaphatikizidwira m'zinenero, ndi zina zotero. Mwinamwake inu munali nazo izo? Ndiye muli ndi vuto ndi malingaliro a lingaliro, ndi vuto laling'ono, chifukwa ichi ndi chopinga chosatha. Tikhoza kukuuzani momwe mungakhalire ndi luso lanu pankhaniyi.
Kodi mungaphunzire bwanji kuyankhulana?
1. Werengani mabuku ambiri.
Kuti muphunzire kusinthasintha ndikufotokozera bwino maganizo muyenera kukhala ndi mawu akuluakulu. Kuti mubwezereni mawu anu - kuti muwonjezere digiri yanu ya kuwerenga, muyenera kuwerenga mabuku, nyuzipepala, magazini, mabuku ndi zina zotero. Mudzabwezeretsa mawu omwe ali ndi tanthauzo lofananalo, ndi tanthauzo la mawu atsopano omwe inu muwaphunzire kuchokera ku madimasulira.
2. Kulankhulana zambiri .
Kulankhulana ndi anthu ena ndikukambirana nawo nkhani zosiyanasiyana, mukhoza kuphunzira zambiri. Mawu ambiri otetezedwa, ndithudi izi ndizothandiza kwambiri pakuyankhulana, koma ndi kofunika kuti mumange mawu ena kuti muyankhule bwino. Ngati kuli kovuta kwa wina, ndiye kuti mukhoza kupereka njira zina zomwe mungakulankhulire nokha.
Yesani kuchita zina:
1) atenge mawu aliwonse ndi kupereka tanthawuzo mu mawonekedwe a chigwirizano chathunthu, ngati kudzifunsa nokha: "Kodi kutanthauzanji ... kupuma? "," Ndi chiyani ... kumwetulira? ".
2) tadziganizire nokha 2-3 mawu alionse ndikupanga ndi chithandizo chawo, ndipo pokhapokha atapangidwa, ndi bwino. Ndikofunika kuchita masewera oterewa ndi mwana wamng'ono.
Zovuta pakuyankhulana ndi anthu .
1. Ngati munthu alankhula ndi munthu wina ndi mawu osamvetsetseka .
N'zosatheka kuti tisakumbukire mavuto omwe amayamba pamene tilankhulana, pamene munthu alankhula m'mawu osamvetsetseka kwa anthu ena. Zingakhale zonyansa, mawu a mawu a slang, mawu a sayansi, omwe ali ovuta kumvetsa. Mwinamwake, vutoli likugwirizana ndi maphunziro ndi chikhalidwe, zimachitika kuti m'mawu ake munthu amagwiritsa ntchito mawu osamvetsetseka kwa ena. Pachifukwa ichi, muyenera kumverera mnzanuyo, ngati akukumvetsani ndipo ngati mukufunikira kufotokoza tanthauzo la mawu osadziwika.
2. Njira yolankhulirana.
Izi ndi mfundo yofunikira pa njira yolankhulirana. Mukhoza kusankha mawu mwa omvera omwe muli. Uwu ndiwo mawonekedwe a kuyankhulana, njira. Ndikofunika kugwiritsa ntchito mawu omwe angamvetseke komanso ogwira ntchito mu gulu la anthu. Pazigawo zosiyana, kuyankhulana kumamangidwa, ngati muli mu bwalo la anzanu kapena pamsonkhano wa bizinesi.
Kuti mumvetse mawu anu kapena ayi, yesetsani kumalo a munthu yemwe mukumulankhulira, ndi kudzipenda nokha, ngati kuti kuchokera kunja. Ndi bwino kugwiritsa ntchito mawu ndi ziganizo pazochitika zina. Ngati mubwera kudzafunsidwa ndikupatsani moni modzichepetsa abwana anu ndi mawu akuti "Ulemu", ndiye kuti mutha kutuluka pakhomo. Zidzakhala zosangalatsa kwambiri kungonena hello. Kulankhulana kumayesedwa ndi maganizo kwa oyankhulana ndi kukula kwa chidwi chake monga munthu.
3. Kufunika koyenera kulankhula.
Zimadalira mkhalidwewo, kulankhula mofulumira kumayambitsa mikangano yotentha, ndipo pazinthu zina chiyendedwe cha kulankhula chiyenera kukhala pang'onopang'ono. Koma chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti kulankhula kunali kosavuta komanso kuyerekezera. Ngakhale ngati pali kukhudzidwa kwa malingaliro kapena pali chikhumbo chobweretsa nkhani zosangalatsa, muyenera kuyesa kuti muyambe kuganiza mozama mumutu mwanu, ndiyeno mutembenuke kukhala mawu.
Pali masewero olimbitsa thupi omwe amakulolani kufotokoza malingaliro anu mofanana. Pamene mukuyenda, nenani chinachake, ndipo musamazinene mokweza, ndipo sitepe iliyonse iyankhule mawu ofanana, mawu awiri pamphindi, ndipo yesetsani kutchula mawu awiri sitepe.
Mukaphunzira momwe mungalankhulire molondola, zingakuthandizeni kuchotsa mau osayenera monga ("em", "lalifupi", "chabwino"). Mawu awa amamveka kuchokera kwa anthu omwe alibe mawu abwino, koma amamveka kuchokera kwa anthu omwe amalankhula mofulumira.
4. Kusinkhasinkha .
Kulankhulana kulikonse sikungakhoze kuchita popanda kusangalatsa. Mothandizidwa ndi kuseketsa mungathe kuchepetsa vutoli. Ngakhale pamisonkhano yamalonda, ndibwino kuti mukhale nthabwala mu nthawi.
Tsopano ife tikudziwa momwe tingaphunzire moyenera, kufotokoza malingaliro. Gwiritsani ntchito malangizo awa, mwinamwake adzakuthandizani ndikuthandizani kulankhula ndi kufotokoza maganizo molondola.