Komabe, nthawi zambiri timakondabe ife eni ndi okondedwa athu tsiku ndi tsiku komanso, muzinthu zina zenizeni: thanzi, mtendere m'banja, ndalama zambiri. Tikungofuna, osaganizira bwinobwino momwe izi zingagwiritsidwe ntchito. Ndipo komabe sitingathe kuchita popanda kutenga nawo gawo. Kotero inu simungakhoze kungolota, koma inunso muyenera! Koma panthawi imodzimodziyo ndi koyenera kuchita zochepa zochepa ku maloto anu. Momwe mungakhazikitsire zolinga ndikukwaniritsa bwino, ndipo tidzakambilana pansipa.
Chinthu chachikulu ndicho kukhazikitsa zolinga zomveka
N'zotheka kudzikonza nokha pamaso pa zochitika zofunika ndikupanga zisankho zofunika m'njira zosiyanasiyana. Anthu ena amadzichezera okha: "Ndine wopambana!" Ndipo ngati mwayi wawo ukuwamwetulira mwadzidzidzi, amaganiza kuti adagwidwa ndi mchira pasanapite nthawi. Chabwino, ngati icho sichinagwire ntchito, zikutanthauza kuti iwo sanayang'ane bwino! Ena, mosiyana, amaopa jinxing, amadzibwerezabwereza okhaokha ndi anthu onse omwe ali nawo pafupi kuti mwina sizingatheke kuti ntchitoyi idzapambana. Koma ngati izo zichitika, izo zidzakhala zosangalatsa! Komabe, akatswiri a zamaganizo a ku America, amene adatsata gulu la ophunzira, anafika pamapeto omaliza: iwo omwe anali okonzeka kulephera mu mayesero sanasangalale ndi chigonjetso chosayembekezereka. Zoipa zomwe zinachitikira "patsogolo" zidapitilirabe pamtima ndi katundu wosasangalatsa.
Kodi ndi bwino bwanji kuti musinthe pazomwe mukupambana? Nthawi zina zimawoneka ngati sindingapemphere ntchitoyi - chilichonse, moyo suli wopambana! Ngati sinditenga mpikisano woyamba, ndiyenera kudzipangira yekha-kiri. Ndipo ngati chitumbuwa cha lero sichitha, simudzasowa chitseko cha alendo - sipadzakhalanso kanthu koti muwachitire ... Zikuwoneka kuti ndi nthawi yomwe timatha, ayi, tifunika kusonkhanitsa mphamvu zathu zonse ndikukwaniritsa zolinga zathu. Ndipo chimachitika ndi chiani? Zoonadi, tikusowa kanthu kena, ife, monga momwe timaganizira za Stirlitz, "ali pafupi kwambiri, kuposa kale lonse." Mphamvu zochulukira zimapita kukadandaula, kuvulaza kukhumudwa kotheka.
Komabe, mwayi wopambana kwa munthu yemwe alibe chidwi ndi ntchito yake ndi yaing'ono. Zoonadi, izi ndi zomveka komanso zomveka bwino - palibe chisangalalo, chidwi, khama ... Apa zotsatira sizibwera.
Ndipo ndani angakhale ndi cholinga chokhalira ndi cholinga? Ndani ali ndi mwayi wopambana? Amene akufuna kupambana, koma mkati mwa enieni. Amene sangakwanitse kuchita zonsezi, akupita "ndi mitembo". Amene sangaiwale za kudzilemekeza yekha mosasamala kanthu za zotsatira zake, ngakhale akufuna kukwaniritsa bizinesiyo, atalandira madalitso onse ogwirizana ndi izi. Zochitika zoterezi zimatchedwa sayansi "zolinga zabwino". Mwa kuyankhula kwina, mothandizidwa ndi zifukwa zolimbitsa, tingathe kukwaniritsa zotsatira zake. Izi ndizoyenera kukumbukira nthawi iliyonse mukasankha kutenga bizinesi iliyonse yofunikira.
Zosintha? Aiwale!
Simungakhulupirire, koma sandwich samagwa mafuta. Nthawi zina (komanso molondola, pafupifupi theka la milandu) amaika mafuta pamwamba! Palibe zongopeka, chiwerengero chodziwika ndi lingaliro lodziwika. Mungathe kuzifufuza nokha. Ndipo zotsatirazo zidzakhala zothandiza kwa inu komanso m'moyo wochuluka. Chowonadi n'chachibadwa kuti malamulo a masamu asamangoganizira zokha za masangweji. Chiŵerengero cha mwayi ndi kulephera pamoyo wathu wa tsiku ndi tsiku chimawoneka mofanana mofanana. Kotero ngati muli ndi mwayi wapadera kamodzi, ndiye kuti mutha kutenga mwayi pawotchiyi kuti mugwire ntchito ina yofunikira, koma m'tsogolomu zidzakhala zomveka kuimitsa. Lolani gulu la masoka likhudze zochitika zina zosafunika. Ndi bwino kukhala wouma mvula kapena kutaya chofiira, kusiyana ndi kulephera kuchita zambiri kapena kukwatira mosapambana. Ziyenera kukumbukiridwa: mu moyo palibe mwayi wopanda malire. Njira yabwino komanso yothandiza kwambiri kuti tipeze kupambana ndiyo kukhazikitsa cholinga ndikusankha nthawi yabwino yogwiritsira ntchito ndondomekoyi.
Khulupirirani nokha - zonse zidzakhala bwino!
Pali nkhani yakale ya kummawa ya bunny yomwe inali kuopa aliyense. Wizarayo anamvera chisoni ndi kalulu ndipo anasandulika kukhala mkango. Koma ... mfumu yatsopano ya zinyama inapitiriza kubisala ku nkhandwe ndi mmbulu ndipo idakali yochepa komanso yotetezeka. Kutsiliza: Nthawi zina maganizo amkati ndi ofunikira kwambiri kusiyana ndi chenichenicho. Kodi phindu lake n'chiyani? Yolunjika kwambiri. Titha kuyamba kuchita tsopano, popanda kuyembekezera kuwonetsa kwenikweni kwabwino kwambiri, ngati kuti wakhala akuyenda ndi ife kwa nthawi yaitali. Kodi mukufuna kukhala munthu amene ali bwino? Kenaka muyambe kuyenda ndi maganizo osapembedzera osatha, pempherani mwachifundo ndikugwedezeka polemedwa ndi mavuto. Kulikonse komwe mupita - ku ofesi, ku msonkhano wa makolo kapena ku sitolo kwa mbatata - kuonekera poyera ngati mumafika dzulo kuchokera ku Concorde kuchokera ku Paris kapena munalandira Oscar chifukwa cha udindo waukulu wa akazi. Chithunzi ndi khalidwe la munthu wopambana zimakonda kukopa lulu, ngati maginito. Ndipo mudzawona - zochitika zenizeni zosangalatsa sizidzakudikirirani!
Kusinthika kwachilengedwe: kudziwa momwe ndalamazo zilili
Kusankha kuyamba njira yopambana, munthu sayenera kuiwala kuti iyi ndi msewu wolipira. Dzifunseni nokha chomwe chiri chimodzimodzi ndi momwe mwakonzera kusinthanitsa magawo ena opambana. Kukula kwa magawo amenewa nthawi zonse kumagwirizana ndi zomwe zimafunika. Mwachitsanzo, n'zosatheka kupanga ntchito yodabwitsa, kukhala mu ofesi kuchokera kuitana kupita ku telefoni komanso popanda chikumbumtima cholandira chithandizo cha chipatala cha mwana. Ndipo n'zotheka kukhala katswiri wodalirika pazinthu zoterezi. Simungayang'ane zodabwitsa ngati simunayambe kudzuka m'mawa kwambiri kuti mukhale ndi tsitsi lopangidwa bwino, madzulo, m'malo mowerenga buku lanu lokonda kwambiri, kusamba m'manja, ndi masafuniki, ndi kupirira kuzunzidwa ndi anti-cellulite massage ndi kupuma pamapeto pa sabata. Koma mungapeze chithunzi cha mtengo wotsika ndikukhala ndi maonekedwe osangalatsa popanda vuto lalikulu. Ndipo kotero. Muyenera kudziwa momwe mungayendere bwino, kuwerengera ndalamazo ndikuyamba kukwera pamwamba. Ndiyeno mudzapambana - ndikukhazikitsa zolinga ndikupambana.
Lolani chinsinsi chikhale bwino!
Sewani masewerawa ndi wokondedwa wanu! Yesetsani kukwaniritsa zokhumba za wina ndi mzake. Masewerawo amangokhalira kukondweretsa, komanso amalimbitsa ubwenzi wawo.
• Mulole aliyense adzilembetse yekha kulemba mndandanda wa zomwe akufuna kuti alandire mnzawo. Phatikizani mwa iye zonse zomwe simungayesetse kuzifunsa.
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• Kuchita zilakolako za hafu yanu, muzichita mwachidwi, fotokozani luntha. Yesetsani kukumbukira malingaliro onse, kondwerani!