Kawirikawiri timakhala ouma komanso osasokonezeka muzovuta kwambiri. Kodi mungasinthe dzikoli ndikuwonetsa mnzanuyo kuti ndinu wodalirika? Pali zizindikiro zina ndi khalidwe, ndipo amatha kuwatsimikizira anthu kuti ndinu odzidalira. Kodi muyenera kuchita chiyani kuti mukhale wokondweretsa aliyense popanda chochita?
Sungani
Munthu akamwetulira, amadzidalira yekha, wokondwa komanso wokhutira. Chisomo chake chimati amva bwino komanso saopa dziko lozungulira. Anthu oterewa mwa ena amachititsa chifundo.
Yendetsani mapewa anu
Munthu amene amadzidalira yekha, samakoka mapazi ndipo samangoyenda. Ndikoyenera kuwongolera mapewa ndikuwongolera kumbuyo kuti ukhale ndi chidwi kwa ena komanso mphamvu. Ndibwino kuti musadwale, koma kuti muyende mozungulira osati kuyang'ana mozungulira.
Yang'anani Maso Anu
Munthu wodzidalira sayenera kubisa chilichonse. Adzakhala mwamtendere ndi a interlocutor, osabisa maso ake ndipo sadzayang'ana pansi. Pakukambirana, nkofunikira kuyang'anitsitsa maso a mnzanuyo, ndipo izi zimatsimikizira mdani wanu kuti ndinu wodalirika komanso woona mtima m'mawu anu.
Chotsani manja anu m'thumba lanu.
Musati mubise manja anu kumbuyo kwanu kapena kusunga mu matumba anu. Izi zidzatsimikizira wokambirana kuti mukubisa chinachake. Ndi bwino kuti manja anu ali m'malo omasuka komanso otetezeka. Mukakhala pansi, ikani pa tebulo kapena mawondo anu.
Yang'anani maonekedwe anu
Munthu wosasunthika ndi fungo la mpweya wosasamba ndi tsitsi losakanizika ndizomwe zimayambitsa chifundo kapena chifundo kwa ena. Zonsezi sizowonjezera chidaliro. Tiyenera kudziyang'anira tokha ndi maonekedwe athu tsiku ndi tsiku, osati ntchito zofunikira chabe.
Kukhazika mtima pansi
Anthu ambiri omwe ali ndi zokambirana zovuta kumayamba kuganizira kwambiri, kugwedeza mawondo awo, kuyamba kulankhula ndi mapazi awo. Inde, izi zingasokoneze nkhawa ndi mantha omwe amakuchotsani mkati. Koma apa interlocutor kayendetsedwe kawo kamasokoneza kwambiri. Popeza amasonyeza kuti ndinu wamantha, ndipo mitsempha yanu imasokoneza ena. Mwachidziwikire, ndi bwino kutulutsa bata osati mantha.
Musadutse manja anu
Chizindikiro choterocho kwa anthu ambiri chimatanthauzidwa ngati chizindikiro cha chitetezo. Kotero, mumawoneka kuti mumauza anthu okuzungulirani kuti simukukonda kukambirana, ndipo simukufuna kuyankhulana. N'zachidziwikire kuti izi zidzakulitsa chifundo pakati pa abwenzi ndi anzako. Pa zokambirana, izi ndizovuta kwambiri.
Musasungunuke
Anthu ambiri akamayankhulana amathyola tsitsi lawo ndi kumakhudza nkhope zawo nthawi zonse, amawombera manja, kuwoloka zala zawo, ndipo nthawi zonse amapotoza chinachake m'manja mwao. Chilankhulochi chimayankhula za kusasamala kwanu. Ndibwino kuti musamapange kayendedwe kosafunikira ndikukhala chete, muyenera kuyang'ana molimba mtima.
Timadziwa zomwe thupi lathu lirili komanso momwe tingadziyang'anire nokha. N'zosatheka kukondweretsa aliyense, koma nthawi zina ndi kofunika kuwonetsa ena zabwino. Ndipo ziribe kanthu komwe ife tiri, pa tsiku kapena pa zokambirana, kukhala ndi maganizo abwino ndi kudzidalira kudzakuthandizani kuti muyese mamba yanu. Khalani ndi chidaliro mwa inueni.