Kodi iye ali ndi chiyani chomwe ndilibe? Nchifukwa chiyani iye ali nacho icho, koma ine? Funso limeneli limadzutsa malingaliro oipa kwambiri, omwe nthawi zina amabweretsa mavuto ambiri kwa iwo omwe sakhala ndi maganizo omwewo. Nthawi zomwe zimapangitsa mpikisano wa mpikisano, misala, koma zambiri zimakhudzana ndi maonekedwe (tikukamba za kukongola ndi chiwerengero) ndi kugonana.
Kukongola
Amuna ndi akazi ndi okongola ngati amakonda abambo. Pozindikira mkazi / mwamuna monga wokhazikika naye, sitimalakwitsa kuti ndi theka lotani.
Ngati tikamba za miyambo ya chikhalidwe chosiyana, mbiriyakale imasonyeza kuti zitsanzozo, miyezo ya kukongola ikusintha kwambiri m'mayiko ndi miyambo yosiyanasiyana. Kuphatikiza pa zokonda zooneka bwino kwa anthu popanda thupi lokhazikika la thupi, komanso "oposa" pakuwonekera, palinso zina, kusintha kusintha kwa chikhalidwe.
Kale ku Girisi ndi Roma, miyezo ya kukongola kwa amuna ndi akazi inali yosadziwika ndi miyezo ya zaka zoyambirira za makumi awiri, zaka za chitukuko cha gulu la Olimpiki. M'zaka zamkati zapitazi, n'zotheka kunena za mafashoni a chidzalo (mwachitsanzo, pa zithunzi za Rubens), komanso pazomwe zingatheke kubereka (zithunzi za Dutch master, mwachitsanzo, amayi omwe ali ndi pakati).
Pakati pa zaka za makumi awiri ndi makumi awiri, miyezo ya kukongola kwa thupi inkaoneka yathanzi komanso yowonjezera. Pakalipano, "mafashoni" akupitiriza kulengeza kukongola kwa akazi, monga woonda kwambiri, wotchuka kwambiri.
Kuwonjezera pa kukongola kwa thupi, lingaliro la makhalidwe abwino, lauzimu linapangidwa mu chikhalidwe cha anthu. Gawoli likugwira ntchito kwa anthu, mosasamala za msinkhu wawo komanso chikhalidwe chawo, ndipo amalingalira malingaliro okhudza nzeru, kuwona mtima, chidziwitso, ulemu wa munthu.
Chiwerengero chachikulu
Kwa nthawi yaitali anthu akhala akuganiza kuti kukhalapo kwa chifaniziro chabwino sikumangoganizira chabe, koma n'kofunika. Afilosofi ambiri akale ankakhulupirira izi. Pa nthawi imeneyo, kukhalapo kwa chiwonetsero chokongola sichinali chikhumbo cha munthu. Chithunzi chokongola chinali chofunikira chabe.
Ponena za dziko lamakono, tikhoza kunena kuti tsopano pali mtundu wina wa thupi lokongola, koma chiwerengerochi sichimachita nawo nthawi ya Aristotle. Koma chidwi cha chiwerengero chabwino sichitha. Kodi izi zikhoza kufotokozedwa bwanji?
Sigmund Freud ananena kuti munthu moyo wake wonse amagwira ntchito ziwiri: chakudya ndi kukhutira ndi kugonana. Kodi chiwerengerochi chikugwirizana bwanji ndi izi? Inde kwambiri! Kuti mukhale ndi maonekedwe abwino, m'poyenera kudya bwino komanso moyenera, nkoyenera kudya, mwachitsanzo, kuchuluka kwa zipatso, ndiwo zamasamba ndi zinthu zina, chifukwa chakudya chosiyanasiyana chimapatsa thupi zakudya zambiri zofunikira, monga ma vitamini.
Pamene kusowa kwa zinthu zili pamwambazi zikugwiritsidwa ntchito pogwiritsa ntchito zakudya zosiyanasiyana. Zomwe zimakhala zogwirizana kwambiri ponena za kupezeka kwa zigawo zosiyanasiyana ndi zakudya zamasewera. Zimaganizira kukhalapo kwa mankhwala onse oyenera kuti apite patsogolo. Tawonani kuti othamanga akhoza kudzitamandira pa chiwerengero chawo, ndipo izi siziyenera chifukwa chakuti iwo amaphunzitsidwa nthawi zonse.
Kugonana
Ponena za kukondweretsa kugonana, ndi zopusa kukana kufunikira kwa chiwerengero chokwaniritsira cholinga ichi. Chofunika kwambiri poyesa kugonana kwa munthu wosadziwika kumawonetsedwa ndi munthu. Mwachitsanzo, msungwana wachinyamata akamayang'anitsitsa deta (chifaniziro) amakopeka kukhalapo kwa gulu lachimuna lachitatu, lomwe limatchulidwa ndi amuna akuluakulu omwe ali ndi mapewa apang'ono. Yang'anirani chiwerengero cha zitsanzo zambiri, koma izi ndi nthawi imodzimodzi kuwonetsa kwakukulu kwa chiwerengerocho. Iyenso iyenera kupeĊµedwa, mwinamwake sizingayambitse chinthu chabwino chilichonse.
Mutha kuwona matupi okongola pa TV. Makamaka pa malonda ndi ma cinema. Ziri zovuta kulingalira kalikonse kanema kanema popanda kutengapo mbali kwa protagonist ndi chiwonetsero chodabwitsa.
Monga lamulo, kusamalira chifaniziro chake ndichimodzimodzi kwa atsikana, monga amuna, tsopano sizomveka kupeza munthu wamtundu wabwino. N'zovuta kunena ngati zili bwino kapena ayi. Mwachitsanzo, pa nthawi imene Aristotle anatchulidwa, zinali zovuta kupeza munthu yemwe sankasamala za maonekedwe ake, chifaniziro ndi zinthu zina. Chikugwirizana ndi poyamba kuti chikhalidwe cha nthawi imeneyo chinali chikhalidwe chogonana. Maukwati pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi anali a chikhalidwe ndipo anali ofunikira okha kuti apitirizebe banja. Nthawi ikusintha! Masiku ano, kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kwataya kufunika kwa nthawi ya Aristotle ndipo kufunika kwa chiwonetsero chabwino pakati pa anthu (pakati pa amuna) chadabwitsa kwambiri. Ubale pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi ndi wachikhalidwe, ndipo apa ziyenera kuzindikila kuti mkazi mwa mwamuna sakopeka osati ndi chiwerengero chabe. Izi zimathandizanso kuchepetsa thupi labwino.
Pakalipano, pali malingaliro ambiri kuti muthe kusintha thupi lanu, pali matani a njira zomwe zimakulolani kuti musinthe chiwerengerocho. Njirazi ndizovuta kwambiri, mwachitsanzo, ndi "chisakanizo" cha njira zosiyanasiyana, machitidwe ndi zakudya.
Nthawi zambiri zimathandiza kuti chiwerengerochi chichepetse kulemera kwake. Pa mavoti 90%, mafuta am'deralo ndi kulemera kwakukulu zimagwirizana ndi kuphwanya kagawidwe kake. Zimatsimikiziridwa kuti mahomoni otulutsidwa ndi mphukira - insulini imasewera mbali yaikulu pakuika mafuta ochepa. Kudya kumabweretsa kuwonjezeka kwa insulin chifukwa cha kudya kofulumira kwa shuga mu magazi. Insulini imalimbikitsa kusakaniza kwa mafuta ndipo imateteza chisamaliro chawo mu maselo olemera. Choncho nthawi zambiri zimatheka kuchepetsa thupi popanda kuchotsa insulini. Ndipo pokhapokha ngati msinkhu wa insulini umachepa, njira za mafuta kugawikana ndi kutulutsa mafuta acids ku maselo amayamba. Kulemera kwakukulu ndithudi ndi vuto lalikulu, chifukwa lingakhale chofunikira kwa matenda osiyanasiyana. Ndipo mbali zomangirira zikuwoneka kuti sizinali zokongola kwambiri.
Chinthu chofala kwambiri masiku ano, ndicho chidwi cha anthu ambiri monga masewera olimbitsa thupi. Mawu olankhula Chingerezi amavomerezedwa mosavuta m'chinenero cha Chirasha, ngati mutayesa kumasulira izi, ndiye kuti kumveka ngati kumanga thupi (chifaniziro). Chokongola kwambiri pa chitukuko cha chiwerengerochi chikukhudzidwa ndi kusambira, chifukwa chaichi, sitiyenera kuiwala za kukhalapo kwa mathithi. Tsopano pali zofunikira zonse zolepheretsa kulemera ndi njira zina zomwe zimabweretsa kusintha kwa chiwerengerocho, chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti chilakolako chokonzekera chiwerengerochi sichitha!
Monga mukuonera, zonse ziri m'manja mwathu. Ndipo mukhoza kusintha aliyense, nanga bwanji nsanje, ngati mungathe kuchita?