Kwa anthu wamba, mfiti zinkalemekezedwa kwambiri (ndicho chifukwa chake malangizowa sanasokonezedwe). Mfiti aliyense woona amadziŵa nzeru ndi mphamvu zapadera m'moyo wake wonse, akuphunzira zamatsenga m'madera osiyanasiyana, makoloni otsekedwa ndi mayunivesite, opatulika, mabungwe obisika kuchokera kwa guru lomwe limapereka chidziwitso kwa aphunzitsi kukhala oloŵa nyumba. Amayi amasiku ano sachita kawirikawiri chinthu choterocho, koma pali gawo laling'ono la mfiti mkazi aliyense
Njira zamakono "mfiti". Njira iyi ndi yabwino kwa munthu wodalirika, munthu wotsimikizika amene anakumana naye. Cholinga chathu ndicho kukopa chidwi kwa iye, kupanga chiyanjano-chokhulupilira, chomwe chidzakhala chiyeso chake chakuyandikira. Ndibwino kuti ziwoneke ngati zosavuta kuzichita: maluso amatsenga ndi mphamvu zamatsenga zenizeni ziyenera kubisika kwa osagwirizana.
Ndi njira iyi, mukhoza kuika chidwi pa "wokondedwa" pa inu. Ngakhale atasokonezedwa, maso ake angabwerere kwa inu, kukopa kwa mfiti wanu, yomwe ili mwa mkazi aliyense. Ndipo, ngati maginito, idzakukokera iwe.
Dongosolo loyamba la njirayi lidzakhala:
- kuthekera kwa kukhudzana ndi moyo (osati kwathunthu) ndi wofunayo "wokondedwa";
- Kutalikirana ndi "bwenzi", pomwe mungathe kuona ophunzirawo;
- kumatha kuyang'anitsitsa maso a munthuyo, koma osayang'ana kutali (ngati ndinu wamanyazi, ndikuphunzitsani, muyenera kuphunzira kuti musamaoneke m'maso mwa munthu wina).
Kukonda zamatsenga, zomwe zingatenge mkazi aliyense, salola kulemba mopitirira muyeso, kutchula njira ngati sewero losavuta, pomwe chinthu chachikulu sichigonjetsa, koma ...
Tidzaphunzira mtima weniweni. Mu maubwenzi, nthawi zambiri timakayikira zowona za gawo lathu lachiwiri.
Chifukwa chowona mtima ndi chimodzi mwa zigawo zazikulu za moyo wachimwemwe waumwini ndi wa banja. Kodi mungadziwe bwanji momwe munthu wokondedwa amachitira moona mtima kwa inu? Choyamba muyenera kumvetsera maso ake. Iwo sangakhoze kunama, kaya ife timakonda izo kapena ayi.
Pamene tilembera nkhani yamatsenga, maso osadziŵa "kupita" kumbali, pamene akutisiya. Kumbukirani mawu ochokera mu buku la "The Master and Margarita", "chowonadi cholankhula mosavuta komanso mokondwera"? Ndipotu, ngati mwana wabodza, timazindikira pomwepo. Komabe, ndikukula, mothandizidwa ndi kulamulira nkhope ndi mawu, timayesera kuphunzitsa thupi lathu kuti lisatiperekere, ngati titanena zabodza, mkazi aliyense ndi mwamuna aliyense amachita. Koma, ziribe kanthu momwe timayesera, zikhalidwe za zovuta zimachitika pa msinkhu uliwonse. Ndipo munthu wachikulire, ngati akunama, amavala chigamba chake ndi pakamwa. Ndi kayendedwe kakang'ono kangapo mungathe kuwerenga maganizo a anthu, zomwe akuyesera kubisala ife. Mungathe kunyenga munthu wina, koma osati thupi lanu.
Masamu achiyanjano. Akazi ena nthawi zambiri amadandaula chifukwa chosowa amuna ndipo aliyense sangapeze munthu wokwatirana naye. Koma, chifukwa chake chimabisika mu mphamvu ya mphamvu yazimayi ndi zachikhalidwe zomwe zilipo mwa munthu aliyense. Mwamunayo akulamulidwa kwambiri ndi mphamvu yowona. Amadziwika ndi makhalidwe monga cholinga, khama komanso mphamvu. Mphamvu ya amayi, mosiyana, ndi yopanda malire. Amapanganso gawo la mfiti yomwe ilipo mwa mkazi aliyense.
Ndizokhazikika, zofewa ndi zofatsa. Mphamvu zoterozo zikhoza kuphunzitsidwa bwino kuti zisamalire, kuganizira momwe munthu aliyense alili. Mphamvu yowonjezera imapereka mphamvu ndi zochitika. Mwachidziwitso, chilakolako choyesera, kuchita, kuyesa kuyendetsa mtsinje wofunikira mwinamwake, kufunafuna njira zina.
Ngati mwamuna amakhala wopanda mphamvu za amai, ndiye kuti zochita zake ziri zowonongeka, ndipo sizingakhale zopanda kulenga. Komabe, mkazi yemwe ali ndi gawo la mfiti, wopanda mphamvu yamwamuna, sangathe kubweretsa chinachake chatsopano mu moyo wake. Ngati mtsikanayo ayamba kulamulira mphamvu yowonjezera mphamvu, ndiye kuti pali kusayenerera kwa mphamvu yonse ndipo pali mavuto m'moyo wanu. Chitsanzo cha nthawi yathu ino ndi dona wa bizinesi yemwe ali ndi chilakolako champhamvu komanso wolimba.
Ali ndi khalidwe lachimuna, lomwe nthawi zambiri limakhala loopseza anthu omwe si amuna kapena akazi anzawo. Izi ndizowoneka bwino, popeza munda wa mphamvu wa amayi oterewu uli ndi ziwerengero zambiri zamamuna. Chotsatira chake, amuna amasiya kutenga mkazi wachitsulo ngati chinthu chokopana ndikuyamba kulankhula naye mofanana. Ndipo nthawi zina kulankhulana koteroko kungakule pokhala mpikisano, ndipo sikuti mkazi aliyense angathe kugwirizanitsa.
Koma kwenikweni, mkazi aliyense ali kale WITCH wokonzeka, ndithudi, mwa mawu abwino. Mbali ya mfiti ili mwa mkazi aliyense - ndizoona. Inde, inde, ziribe kanthu zodabwitsa komanso zachilendo zomwe zingamveka. Ndiko kuti, mfiti yeniyeni imagona mwa aliyense wa ife ... ndipo mukhoza kuwukweza mphamvu yake yodabwitsa, kukhazikitsa luso ndikuphunzira kuyanjanitsa dera lonse la moyo mwa njira yolumikizidwa.