Momwe mungakumanitsire mnyamata kuti akhale pachibwenzi

Momwe mungakumanitsire mnyamata kuti akhale pachibwenzi? Nthawi zambiri amadzifunsa mafunso a mtsikanayo pambuyo pa mabuku olephera. Kapena amayi awo omwe anganene kuti: "Ali kuti zaka khumi ndi zisanu ndi ziwiri zakubadwa pamene chirichonse chinali chophweka."

Koma nthawi ikagwedezeka pa makumi atatu, zikuwoneka kuti kugonana kolimba kwamwalira, monga ma dinosaurs ndi mammoths. Mndandandawu ukhoza kugwirizanitsa ndi iwo amene adalumpha ali ndi zaka makumi awiri ndi zaka makumi asanu ndi awiri manja. Pambuyo pake, mbali yaikulu ya mndandandawu ndiyanso mu kufufuza.

Ndipotu, anyamata abwino ndi omasuka amakhala nthawi zonse, muyenera kungoyamba nkhaniyi ndi chidziwitso. Ngati mumayang'anitsitsa njira zanu za moyo, zomwe zimapangidwira - ntchito, kunyumba, ntchito - zokhazokha zokhazikika ndi anzanu pamapeto a sabata. Ndipo nchiyani chomwe chimalepheretsa kuganiziranso za moyo, pambuyo pa zonse zomwe timayendetsa tokha. Kodi nchiyani chomwe chimakulepheretsani kupanga kusintha kwatsopano m'moyo wanu? Ntchito imachedwa, palibe nthawi yokwanira, palibe amene angapite, palibe malo oti apite, pali zifukwa zambiri. Ndipo yankho liri limodzi lokha - kuchoka mu ndondomeko yofiira muyenera kuyika chikhumbo chachikulu ndi chifuniro.

Kodi mungadziƔe bwanji mnyamata ndi kuyamba naye ubwenzi wamtali ndi wolimba? Kwa atsikana ambiri, komabe, nkhaniyi ndi yovuta kwambiri. Chinthu chachikulu pamene mukukumana nanu musalole zolakwika zotsatirazi:

- Musamangokhalira kukangana ndi mphindi yoyamba ndipo musavomereze kuti mumakonda, ngakhale poyang'ana, atangokuuzani dzina lake;

- musasonyeze kuleza mtima. Mwamsanga - nthawizina kulakwitsa kwakukulu, pachiyambi cha chidziwitso;

- osalankhulana mochuluka, chidziwitso chochuluka chitha kukhala miseche;

- Musamudziwe bwino kwambiri mnyamatayu, pamene simukusiya kuchokera m'buku;

- musathamangire kulankhula poyamba ndipo musamawone nthawi zambiri patsiku;

- Musanyalanyaze maganizo kapena zizindikiro za chidwi chanu.

Choncho, kuti mudziwe bwino mnyamata, mwinamwake kukhala pachibwenzi. Nyumba yochitira masewero kapena holo yawonetsero - monga njira yokonzekera moyo waumwini sizowonongeka nkomwe. Palibe chifukwa chosankhira nkhani zokambirana, nthawizonse pali chinachake choyenera kukambirana, kuphatikizapo chirichonse chingapindulsidwe mwachikhalidwe.

Zojambula zamatsenga ndizosankha. Pokhapokha, musayambe motalikirana kwambiri ndi kuwayankhula ndi mawonekedwe anzeru. Chilengedwe ndi malo abwino. Ngati mukuwopa kunena chinachake cholakwika, mukhoza kutaya thumba lanu kapena foda yanu pansi ... Nthawi zonse pali njonda yomwe ikufuna kukuthandizani.

Zolinga pazinyamulidwe, pazifukwa zina malamulo a ubwino wabwino samavomerezedwa. Nthawizonse amawoneka ngati chinthu chokayikitsa. Ngakhale pali zitsanzo zambiri, pamene chibwenzi chinkachitika mu ndege kapena sitima. Msonkhanowo ukamangidwa, theka la nkhondo linali litakonzedwa kale. Lolani kuyankhulana uku kuyendetsedwa ndi munthu, ndipo mumangosintha, mukufunsa mafunso.

Kudziwa pa disco. Monga lamulo, iwo amapita ku dokotalayo mowa mopitirira muyeso moledzeretsa. Anyamata ndi atsikana amapita kumeneko kuti apumule ndi kudziwa. Koma monga momwe chiwerengero chikuwonetsera, osati mabanja ambiri, atatha kukhala odziwa bwino pamodzi pamodzi ndi ukalamba. Monga lamulo, kuyankhulana, ndi anzanga otere, mwamsanga.

Pofuna kukomana ndi munthu pachibwenzi, nthawi zonse mverani mawu anu amkati. Ganizirani zomwe mungachite musanayese khama lanu. Kuwonetsa maonekedwe kumapereka pang'ono, koma, chinachake chingakhoze kuwuza. Kotero, kwa_kudzidalira kwambiri. Pali zifukwa zoti malingaliro omwe analandiridwa kwa masekondi 30 oyambirira a chibwenzi nthawi zonse amakhala osakayika.

Palibe mavuto ochulukirapo panjira yopatsa chimwemwe. Koma iwe uyenera kudzikongoletsa wekha palimodzi, wokhala ndi zifukwa zako zokha, ndipo pa njira ya chiyembekezo iwe udzakumana ndi mnzanuyo. Ndi zomwe, pitirizani chikondi cha moyo.